How can I break up with my boyfriend I share a car with?

We've been together four years and have a daughter together. We've lived together about three and a half years. He's never had his own car in all of this time. He takes my car to work every day, and this is REALLy starting to be a problem. At 1st it was okay b/c I was just staying at home w/ my daughter when she was born. (she is two now) But now I'm taking college courses and I'm looking for a job. And he works 3pm-3am four or 5 days a week, so it's really hard trying to coordinate two work schedules, school, childcare, etc, etc with just one car. He is finally starting to look around for a car to buy since I've literally pushed him into it. He is having trouble saving money b/c he pays a lot of child support on his other children. So i told him he could have my $600 i got on financial aid to go towards a downpayment. Is that too generous? Otherwise it could be like a year before he ever has enough money? But I feel bad also b/c he's having trouble saving the money because he is the only one working. Which is back to why I need a job! Feel so stuck! I want to just break up w/ him, for this reason and a lot more, but I have nowhere else to go and until iget a job i wont be able to get my own place. and i don't want him to lose his job, so I'd prob still have to take him to work for a while. What should I do?How can I break up with my boyfriend I share a car with?
There's this thing called public transport, and, financial aid should probably be supporting your daughter, not buying cars.How can I break up with my boyfriend I share a car with?
didnt you ask this already about a few min ago but you said your story different you probably changed it because every1 was calling you names lolz well you 4got to mention that you are cheating on him...so set your story straight your just making a fool of yourself...
LOL. what priorities you have. you have a living breathing CHILD with this man and you are concerned about breaking up because of a car.


you are such trash. i feel sorry for your child. this is just so twisted. but thanks for the laugh
He sounds like a bum who's living off of you......... Kick his *** out and it'll be better for you and your daughter. Then find a guy who is actually going to support you and your daughter.
why do you want to break up with him. he is the father of your child. you have no plce to live. so live wityh him and try to solve your problems
youve got red hair? come live with me :P
There are places you can go to get a used car with no down payment. Usually for first time car buyers or those with not so amazing credit. That would be your best recourse, don't give him your school money. Ever. Your education is more important than a car.
Well it sounds like he had your back for a while there and you have a kid together so you dont want to go out on too bad terms.





If you can afford to lend him the money to move things along quicker I would do that. It seems like he tried to do right by you even if he isnt your mr right, so try and make sure you arent going to destroy each others lives by breaking up then just get on with it if your sure thats what you want to do.





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to the guy below saying hes a bum living off her. shes a mum who doesnt work and wants to go to college (and work and be single woah) hes a guy who works 12 hour shifts 4-5 days a week, over nights, and hes a bum because he pays child support to his exwife/kids and looks after his current girl and kid pfff some people





I mean sure the op shouldnt stay with him if she doesnt love him but calling the guy a bum etc jeez wtf
Don't let sharing a car be the reason deterring you from breaking up.


You already put him on notice to buy a car. Give him a reasonable amount of time to buy a car, otherwise he will have to work around your schedule if he wants to drive your car.


If you give him the financial aid money, don't expect to get the $600 (that the government gave you for your education, not your boyfriend's transportation problems.)