Our relationship used to be great, however, he lives an hour and a half away so i need to talk to him via text/msn often, however, the chats nowadays are very short, and he never comes on msn anymore either. What's going on? He claims he loves me but how can that be if he's making no effort? Should i break up with him? I love him but this is becoming such a hassle. Help!Should i break up with my boyfriend?
you need to talk to him about it first. ask him why he's never on msn and why the chats are always so short. if he doesn't give you a good reason, say goodbye!Should i break up with my boyfriend?
Long distance relationships are not easy. Especially if you are young. Do you guys get to see each other often? You should try talking on the phone with each other. Communocation is important in a long distance relationship. Maybe the distance is putting a strain on the relationship. And sometimes relationships turn dull because the inital excitement is not there. Talk to him via phone and ask him whats really going on. He may be going through something that you are unaware of. You never know.
distance can be really tough in a relationship...it takes two really strong, committed people to keep this type of relationship healthy....if he truly loves you he would not only say it but show it through his actions by communicating with you or visiting you as much as possible...my advice is to try and talk and work things out first and if that doesn't solve anything then you should end this relationship
well in my opinion you need to sit down and talk to him when you can. not over text or email. if you cant be in person then you need to talk to him verbally on the phone and tell him what you think is wrong. relationships get stronger when you talk about things. that is what i do and my relationship is going great. Maybe he is just busy with family. It will all unfold in the conversation that you have with him. I don't think breaking up right away would be the best solution if you love him. if he says something stupid or he studdarsand doesnt know what he is talking about...then most likely he is lieing. thats all i can tell you but good luck.
Well, only you can answer that. If you truly love him you won't break up with him, however maybe you don't really truly love him from the bottom of your heart so you should break up with him and find someone who cares more and lives closer etc.
Well,think of it like this: If you really love him and think that he loves you,then is it maybe worth going to see him once or twice a week?
If thats a hassle then speak to him on the phone regullarly and have a real conversation.
do both of you have computers? if so go on a cyber date
you could do, it's up to you!
i cant beleive you are asking complete strangers if you should brake up with him
at the end of the day, its up to you
good luck
if he has a good reason to not talk to you, that's understandable. like if he's working or if his family member is ill or something like that. but if he's just playing video games, hanging out with his stupid friends, or just plain ignoring you, you could dump him. if you love someone, you always have time for them no matter what.
Long distance relationships rarely work out. Being faithful to one another is a forgotten practice.
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