How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?

ive been dating this guy for about 8 months, and i want to end it, and im not quite sure how to do it without him blowing my phone up with texts/calls or coming to my house...anyone have any ideas to help me?How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?
All you can do is explain to him why you want to end the relationship. Be honest but respectful when you tell him, after all wouldn't you want him to be the same way? Hopefully he will accept it and move on. If he calls your phone, don't answer it. Maybe eventually he will get the hint. If he shows up at your home repeatedly or is in anyway abusive, tell him that you will press stalking charges (yes, there is a such thing) on him.





I'm hoping though, that he's not that type of guy. He may surprise you and take it better than you are thinking.How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?
If you really worry about this, you should have broken up with him a very long time ago, like 7 1/2 months ago. However, one can never be entirely sure how another person can react. All you can do is control yourself, not him. You have to lay it out to him, without accusing him of anything, but be firm and honest, without being mean or selfish. If he writes you too much or texts you too much, you can block emails, cell phone numbers, etc. If worse comes to worse, there is always the police.
The idea is to break up with him gently tell him that its not working and that you really want things be cool between you guys. Tell him that you don't want to be in a relationship now, and tell him not to stalk you because you won't change your mind about it. Tell him that this is the best decision to make for you and him, be nice about it. If he calls/texts you nonstop don't answer either one and don't receive him if he appears at your house, have one of your parents or someone say you're not home, either that or don't answer the door. Let things cool off btw u and him.
to me, you sound pretttty cocky. he could want to break up with you as much as you want to break up with him. just because you break up with a guy dosent mean there still gonna be obsessed with you and dosent mean he is gonna be a stalked. im suprised you got a boyfriend in the first place
i kno this sounds rly rly dumb and stupid but jus make him not lik u ..show him ur weird or wtvr and that ur not the type of girl hes lookn 4.. thats the nicest way 2 do it,,


iv done it once and he ended up not talkn 2 me ever..he was a big perve anyways but rly sweet.. but its wtvr.,
hm mm tuff..!


say ur ganna go on a vacation for a few weeks


and ur phone isn't ganna work where u go.!


or just put ur foot down really tuff and let him know how u feel!


let him know ur serious and if he blows up ur phone just ignore his call or block his number from ur phone so his call cant go through!
Anyway, you must talk to him. Explain your situation, your point of view.
Come to a mutual agreement, see if he thinks it is time too end it too. Meet up at yours and just talk about it and wjhy you think it is best
Do it slowly, like act as boring as possible, or show no interest and be lazy not want to do anything, get on his nerves. it will only take him a few day to realize he wont want to be with you.
DUMP HIM, if he keeps bugging you, tell everyone (most importantly the cops).





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Has he acted like that before giving you reason to believe he will? If texts and calls are the worst he will do just break up with him and block his calls or change your number.
make arrangments to break up with him and then block him number from your phone.. You won't feel so bad because you would have broken up with him in advance.
Nope. That's what you get for wanting to date such a guy. You takes your chances. Next time pick a nice guy to date.
Just be honest but be as nice as possible.
Just be honest and don't respond to his messages, he'll get tired of doing it and just stop.
maybe he wants to break up with you but is having troubles for the same reason.
Let him down gently....then change your number and move house...
Tell him you're moving!
blame it on your parents, it works every time.
just tell him that you are lesbian
just tell him i need to find myself and i think we should take a brake form each other