How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?

I've had boyfriends this year, ect. And I probably will next year in a bigger school that is filled with 13-14 years olds. Girls that age, how do you break up with your boyfriend that doesnt sound too kiddish or too mature?








(Please no one say, ';Your to young to date!!'; I wanted to, ok??)How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
well actually I don't agree with any of the other responses above..


I do not think you should write him a note, i think you should tell him face to face.. That would show him courage, and show that you are transitioning from a little girl to a young lady...Writting a note is cute and all, its just not something that a mature young lady would do..


Let him know how you feel.


Do not mention his faults, because if you do I garentee you, you will not only be losing a boyfriend but a friend as well:(


Just telll him the truth..


Do not say you just wanna see what else is out there..This willl make him think that you just wanna hoe around, and from then on you will be known as a little slut, and who knows he may just spread it around. This will make life stressful for you..





If I were you this is what I would tell him,


';we've been going out for about a year now, and although this has been fun and an experience for me .. I have to break up with you..It's not your fault, This is a reflection upon me..You are a very sweet guy, but I feel Like my mind, body, and soul are going through some changes right now, I'm going through some changes and I'm pretty sure you are too. I just need to figure it all out for myself, I need to see what is going on... I don't want you to think that I don't care about you, because I do.I just hope that sfter all we've been through together we could still remain friends';...





Something like that would be sweet and mature of you to say..How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
Well, even though you wanna break up w/ him, there are probably reasons why, (other than jjust wanna breaking up w/ him) you should tell him his faults, that you dont like and therefore want to break up. Im not 13-or 14, but during middle school years, it was quite easy breaking up. I mean just write it down in a peice of paper, give it to one of his friends to give to him. Make sure to write down his faults. Or just speak to him (if your comfortable that way).
At that age I always got dumped because I wasn't willing to do anything sexual. But I think you should just say...listen summer is coming I'm gonna be very busy I don't have time for a boyfriend I'm sorry. But you would like to still be friends. ect ect....Trust me he will get over it.


Just always remember if you do break up with someone do it how you would want them to do it to you. Don't be mean and nasty or make it public. It hurts so much more!


GOOD LUCK
Tell him that you feel that you should just be friends or you should take a break form each other. Or what i always do is say that my parents found out and that if i dont break up with them I will get (enter punishment or your choice here). Maybe that will work, and if you want to continue the relationship later, you can.(if you both agree on it) Good luck!! :)
Im 14 and i jus say: (example)


';Hey, Cody, can we break up? i jus dont feel we are okay together, k?


They Always r kewl with that... thats the 2 iv had and we still talk all the time... i guess it depends on the guy tho.
there is different ways to do it u could call him and just say its over and not give him a reason if u want or u could give him a reason or u could write him a note and hand it to him ur self like its a love letter or something
First, analyze why you want to break up with him. Second, if you really want to break up with him, then do so with a simple note in his locker or better yet, a pep talk.
what I do is (I'm 13) I say... I think I'm starting to see we don't really match and I think I wanna go back 2 b4 we were dating...but u were great so I hope we stay good friends and have nothing weird between us!


It works like a charm and no more ice-breakers!


But turn it into ur own words :)


good luck!
Just tell him that you've guys have grown apart and that you think you should just be friends.
just tell him that you 2 are too different. tell him you think it would be best to see other peoples.
omg..crazy world..
';we cant go on like this, i think were better off as friends';
tell him you are just not interested but he can still be your friend
write him a note