How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?

I feel that i can't break up with my boyfriend because we used to be best friends before. We've been in love with each other 2 months before he asked me out. When we were officialy boyfriend and girlfriend, he changed. He doesn't call anymore, he visits his ex (with a bunch of people, not only him). Sometimes i feel he still has a thing for her.


I don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP!How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been going out with my best friend now for almost a year and I feel like he has changed too. He's really friendly with his ex's all the time too. I think you are just super protective over him since I know you've waiting to go out with him for a long time.


As for the thinking he has a thing for her, it probably isn't true (all guys are natural flirts) and since you knew how much he liked her since you are his best friend it is just just a natural reaction to feel cheated on.


Talk to him about it, just say I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her or ask if you can hang out with them too. That way she can see he is YOUR man or if he really is flirting too much you have proof to call him on.


I hope that helps!


P.S. if it just doesn't work go on a break to see if you guys are better as just friends and if you miss each other, go back out.How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
just tell him if he is more interested in his ex girlfriend then he should be with her and not u and that u will break up with him if its for his happiness. u are the dessert he should want u and be with u and treat u really well.
Maybe he's just a little embarrassed, or feels awkward that you two are dating. And he feels like getting away from it all can only be done by hanging with old 'friends'.
Tell him. Just tell him that the whole 'relationship thing' isnt working out for you. If you want to, tell him you still want to be friends.
Just tell him that you're not happy any more and that you can't see him any more. It's hard but it's the best way.
Well nothing in life last forever. It's okay though. Even if he was your friend before, maybe he CHANGED. Just talk it over with him that you cannot go through this anymore and hopefully he will understand since he's your boyfriend. Theres more guys in this world you just haven't opened your eyes to more. (The right time will come)
well hun, i t sound alike youre boyfriend doesnt even care about you anymore , even doesnt still the love , and feelings of you no longer, you should break up with him right now, if you dont do it then you will never have the chances to find a better singles men out there who will ask you out during the future. you dont really want to end up with a cheater who still in loved with his ex girlfriend and even he might did cheat on you and betrade you with his ex the whole time you end up adating him . plus later on maybe next year he realize that it not working out for both you and might dedicate to break up with you after all. maybe he is a dog who just playing with you to use you for sleeping with you and using you fr him to go back out with his ex. can also true about that. if youre are scared of breakin up with him because you re scared that you and him wouldnt be friends anymore. after breakin the relationship. well what the sake everybody goes threw that end up with wrong guys or girls. well i think you should dedicate what to do but you should call him or go see him ask him why he been not calling you , and why he been cheatin on with youre ex- friend ? but if he cant answer you then move on find better single genltmen who will adate you . good luck,
Tell him it isn't working out for you to be anything more than friends and you want to go back to that.
Don't waste your life on him! There is someone out there that loves you; you just haven't found him yet.
just explain to him that you just want to go back to being friends and matbe he does have feelings for his ex is all the more reason. if you dont like him because he has changed then you should go with your heart








best of luck and merry christmas
WE,LL YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE EITHER YOU WANT HIM AS ABEST FRIEND OR BOYFRIEND SO THE DECISSION IS YOURS
simply tell him that its not working for you and you want to go back to being friends. from what you've said you're not really into your fella so why should it concern you if he was to still have a thing for her.
Tell him to get lost, in a nice way =]
i dont think the relationship will work u guys are better of being bestfriends
There is a reason for the title of an old song. ';Breaking up is hard to do'; Your reason is no reason. The truth is that you still care about him and you really don't want to. But you have to be honest with yourself. He is no longer your best friend, and it sounds like he also forfeits his place as your boyfriend.


It will hurt awhile, and then you will move on.