Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?

We live together in his condo. I am a student and I don't think I could afford rent on my own. I don't really have anywhere to go because my school is here and my family is not. I need to break up with this guy but I will be homeless! Sorry if this is a weird question but I could use some advise.... Anyone have any suggestions...Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
You break up with him just like you would anybody else.





Your question should be how do I find housing, and here are some options:


1. Check with your school. The semester just started, maybe you can live on campus. I know that's not ideal but it will be a quick fix.





2. Look for roommates. Talk to your counselor at school. Many places have bulletin boards for other students looking for roommates.





3. If you are religious, try going to your local church/temple or whatever and asking if you can post a note asking if you can live in a basement or in-law suite temporarily.





4. If money is a problem you should be able to take out additional student loans (private) if necessary. You can get loans for tuition plus books and a living allowance as calculated by your school. You can get several grand upfront which should set you up for something temporary (depending on your location) until you can set something up more permanent. This is not ideal but it's better than the alternatives.





5. Talk with your bf. Tell him you are not feeling good about the relationship but ask him if you can stay for a while longer until you find something.





If you choose to stay just because he's your bed, that is completely uncool. He's a person too and deserves to know if the woman standing next to him has no intention of continuing the relationship. If he's a nice guy maybe he'll let you stay for a while. I know it's important to protect yourself but please don't use him in the process.Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
That really sucks. I have thought about this myself since I live with my boyfriend. I have nowhere to go if things get bad between us, but I would not want to pretend that I still wanted the relationship when I was over it. You'll probably have to either pretend everything is fine until you figure something else out, or break up with him but continue to live with him until you can get back on your feet, which would be awkward, but probably not as bad as lying to him about how you feel.
Will if you break up with him look at the penaltys





-You will be Homeless


-You cant go to school


-You dont have no money





I cant give you any advise because I dont no what your problem is......


But if you and your partner are having problems.It is complety normal ,Becouse seblings often argue/fight.But usally get over it and gete allong,Then fight a week from now...Seblings hate/love at the same time.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++…





You can always try to reason with each other because you live together.Talk to one an other and keep things comfortable.


But if cant work out no mather what.............Then you can break up with him and go to your family...





Remember that you shoulnt be with him if he is ALWAYS


:hitting you...yelling...if there is alcholle/drugs involved then you shouldnt deal with it





I hope i helped
yes call your family and see if they can help if you have any friends you can stay with that would be good too. If you are not in love with this guy and you don't think he would live under the same roof with a platonic relationship then you need to make your own way it's not fair to him it's kind of like using him. It's not fair to yourself either....you think you can't make it on your own but have you ever tried, do you have a job see what an efficiency apt would cost or if they have a program at your college where you can work for room and board. You need to contact your family though I am sure they would not wanting you staying in an unhealthy relationship. Give yourself more credit millions of girls and women do it every day. Start asking around and see if anyone else needs a room mate but be honest with him maybe he will surprise you and say he will help you get into someplace of your own or let you stay until you can save the rent as long as you clean and do laundry. Something will work out. If you belong to a church someone there may want a live in babysitter for evenings or weekends that's another possibility and if the first thing doesn't work out try again, and again until you find yourself supporting yourself. I will be praying for you good luck!
Get a job, rent a room in someone's home, move into the dorm, get some of your college friends together and rent a larger apartment or house. This is one of those bad situations women tend to get themselves into and then can't find their way out. You have made yourself dependent upon a man you aren't meant to be with. *SIGH* OK, pick yourself up, muster your dignity, and get resourceful. You'll find a way, but you are probably going to have to rearrange some things in your life to get out.
Hi, sweetie. Do you have any friends who would let you stay with them for a while? You could offer to buy all the groceries or pay part of their rent for them. Ten years ago, when my (then) future in-laws took me in, I bought all their groceries since they wouldn't let me pay rent or part of their bills or anything like that. It worked out pretty nicely. I would make finding some other place to live my first priority. Then pack up all your stuff and bail. Leave a note, don't leave a note, whatever. Good luck, honey.
You just need to be looking for a roommate so that you can just move into a different situation. Till then you'll either have to stick it out or live in your car. Cause chances are if he is the only one with his name on the condo...if he's not an exceptionally good guy, then your out of there.
uhmm....tough situation there


Well don't use this guy first..ask a friend if you can bunk for a couple weeks until you get like maybe a part-time job to help pay-off rent.


Might want to help pay your friends rent too.


As for the guy, try to work it out, see the problem from his point of view, if you live with him, you guys must have some sort of intimate relationship right? Just talk it out.


Good Luck
If he's a good person he'll probably let you sleep on the couch or something until you find a place. If not, you could maybe live with a friend until then.





Do some research on your own, maybe find out if anyone is offering really cheap rent for a room mate, post an ad.





Maybe you could get a side job if you can't afford rent.





Being in a bad relationship sucks! I hope this helps!
Perhaps you could move in with another friend?





Or maybe wait a little while, until you get enough money or something.





You definitely should not just break up with him with nowhere to go, unless it's a really bad or abusive relationship. Just look for some of your friends who might give you a place to crash for a little while.





Good luck!
Live with it! same like me but i am slightly different with u cos I am useful and good in earning monies but always stolen by the doggies pple. Nokia handphone touchlight is one of them! hahaahahaha





so no monies mean no talk and shut up and live with it till i am rich. hee heee.....or i can left anytime but laziness is my specialities right now.
Discuss how you feel with him, and he will probably understand.


but if he is one of those guys that will go CRAZY on you and kick you out wait a little while until you can afford to rent another place.
That's the breaks. If you wasn't with him you'd have to find a place to live. I'd look for one, and then just move out while he's gone for a while.
Well, say you guys can't date but you still need the place untill you can get your own or say you want to be roommates for a while.
I think you should get a job and get some money so you can start paying rent then if you know you can afford rent then you can dump him if you want.
Find a roommate, advertise in campus paper, ask around and then move in the midnight hour. He will get the message.
ahh the beauty of retrospect





note to self...don't live together if you're not engaged or married
Tell him your ';just not into him anymore'; and you want to see other people, but would like to stay there and pay him rent, but make sure you tell him there will be no fringe benefits on the side.
DO NOT BREAK UP. Stay until you can get a place on your own.
I don't know if you can.


Maybe you could crash with some friends until you get things straightened out?
tell him you want to take things lowly but dont actually break up with him!!! find a roomate and when you do then u can fully break up.
What did you have planned before you met this guy with a condo in a different city that your college was in?
look hard very hard for roommates, craigslist, n all that stuff, if u've got to get out DO NOT STALL I REPEAT DO NOT STALL, stalling keeps u in the same position...good luck
if you don't want to be homeless you better keep putting out if you do break up with him
dont u will be homeless. just be with him until you graduate and maby things will get better and you can find someone else to live with
Don't you have a girlfriend at school you could shack up with. Ask around, it wouldn't hurt to try.
Only break up with him if its for a good reason .
wait til you get money saved up to afford an apartment.
well if its your place then just tell him to leave if not maybe you too can work some thing out or something or you could wait until you have saved up enough money to get your own place
WHY?! What'd he do? Don't do it, you'll be screwed into a hole!
do u love him, why do u want to break up? try to make it work being on the street is not ideal.