I suck at doing disappointing things
and me and him never hang out
so we text a lot
and I find it really shallow to break up with someone through a text
but idk how?
helllppHow to I break up with my boyfriend?
Get a friend to tell hem for you or just go somewhere private and tell him its over...How to I break up with my boyfriend?
NEVER BREAK UP THROUGH TEXTING
It is the most degrading thing someone can do to you
If you absolutely must then call him up and do it that way
Me too! i am really bad at disappoingting things!
I would tell him in private and say ';I liked it better when we were freinds';(if you ever were friends)
or say '; i think it would be best if we saw other people';(classic)
or another one is ';maybe it's time we moved on...I hope you understand';(another classic)
it is REALLY shallow to break up through text so i'd do it face to face or on the phone but talking to him
i hope this helped!
just break up with him but dont do it over text that's just mean.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to break up with my boyfriend.?
Me and this guy have been going out for about 4 days now and the truth is, is that i dont like him that much so why i ever said yes is still a question. He's acting kind of obsessed and i need to break it off with him before it gets to be to late. The only thing is, is that i don't know how to do it in a nice way that can still leave us as friends. Help!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
first of all, do not break up with him via email, text messages, myspace, through friends, etc.! talk to him directly!
secondly, be honest with him. just tell him how you really feel. don't blame it on yourself or him.
I am not going to tell you what to say to him, but i am going to say that you need to break it off a.s.a.p. because if you don't feel comfortable with him and especially if you think he might be obsessed, for your safety you need to get out of this relationship right now!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
a note at the END of the day to spare him in case he gets emotional (so that he doesn't have to cry in front of friends...etc)
Plus, you won't have to face him.
';Dear ___, you are a sweet, smart guy but I really just don't feel that spark. Its nothing that you did wrong, in fact this is my own decision. You are a great guy and I'm sure you will find another girl.
--You';
i had this same problem and said ';heyy sorry but it really doesnt feel like a relationship, can we just be mates ? tb ';
omfg just tell him youre parents dont want you dating him say you need to focus on more important things than a relationship.
Whatever you do, do it fast....
you don't want him to get TOO attached.
Tell him the truth, very nicely. Just say something like 'I'm sorry, I just don't have feelings for you in that way'. Don't make up excuses or lies or you'll just make things worse. And don't tell him you would like to still be friends because he obviously doesn't want to just be friends with you and this would be like leading him on. If you want to be friends with him, don't have any contact with him for a few months, (so he can get over you), then ask him if he would like to be friends.
just tell him ur not ready for anything serious u like him but want to stay being friends
';I'm really sorry, but we are such good friends that it's kind of awkward going out with you. I really like you, just I like you more as a friend, and if we could stay that way, that would make me really happy';
Please answer my most recent qusetion
only 4 days?, and you calling him your boyfriend already, who did you say the obsessed one is? just say no, tell him you want to be alone
Just be honest about and tell him how you feel. Try to be his friend but I am sure it will be difficult breaks up are not easy. No matter how hard you try you are always the bad one.
just say its over
I was with my girlfriend for about two weeks and we were friends at first as well. I just said something like ';I know how cliche this is, but I think we might just be better off as friends. I like you, but I don't know if I'd like to complicate things at all.'; I was pretty nervous when I did it, but it turns out that she felt the same way.
i went through the same situation
first of all do it in person or over the phone
then just tell him that you dont feel the same way about him
and he can decide if he still wants to be friends
well just say what you feel and you still want to be friends it will work out i know trust me he can be mad at you but he will be friends.
umm just tell him it wont work and u guys cld be friends
First of all,make sure you have the courage in that moment.at that point, do it before you lose it! Find him when he's not around his friends, or somewhere relativley private,and say soemthing like this
';I think your coming on a little strong.I think it would be best if we just went as friends,and maybe eventually work our way up.I don't think im quite ready for an actualy relationship with you,but your a nice guy,and i wouldn't want to lose you as a friend.Whaddya say';
O_O Hope it works ^-^
haha this sounds exactly like me last summer, except I waited for 2 weeks instead because I didn't have the courage.
Either way he'll be heart broken though.
You just have to be like ';you know I'm really sorry and you're a really good friend and stuff, but this whole boyfriend-girlfriendn relationship isn't working for me and I just don't feel the time is right';
But then still after ensure that you are friends- text him, call him, heck even go to the mall with him... just not as a couple
its easy, just be like: i really don't see us in the future going anywhere and i think it would be better off if we were just friends and if he doesn't want to be your friend, take it or leave it. but yeah.
';Hey, I think we'd be better off as friends, I'd love to hang out with you more, but just as friends';
first of all, do not break up with him via email, text messages, myspace, through friends, etc.! talk to him directly!
secondly, be honest with him. just tell him how you really feel. don't blame it on yourself or him.
I am not going to tell you what to say to him, but i am going to say that you need to break it off a.s.a.p. because if you don't feel comfortable with him and especially if you think he might be obsessed, for your safety you need to get out of this relationship right now!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
a note at the END of the day to spare him in case he gets emotional (so that he doesn't have to cry in front of friends...etc)
Plus, you won't have to face him.
';Dear ___, you are a sweet, smart guy but I really just don't feel that spark. Its nothing that you did wrong, in fact this is my own decision. You are a great guy and I'm sure you will find another girl.
--You';
i had this same problem and said ';heyy sorry but it really doesnt feel like a relationship, can we just be mates ? tb ';
omfg just tell him youre parents dont want you dating him say you need to focus on more important things than a relationship.
Whatever you do, do it fast....
you don't want him to get TOO attached.
Tell him the truth, very nicely. Just say something like 'I'm sorry, I just don't have feelings for you in that way'. Don't make up excuses or lies or you'll just make things worse. And don't tell him you would like to still be friends because he obviously doesn't want to just be friends with you and this would be like leading him on. If you want to be friends with him, don't have any contact with him for a few months, (so he can get over you), then ask him if he would like to be friends.
just tell him ur not ready for anything serious u like him but want to stay being friends
';I'm really sorry, but we are such good friends that it's kind of awkward going out with you. I really like you, just I like you more as a friend, and if we could stay that way, that would make me really happy';
Please answer my most recent qusetion
only 4 days?, and you calling him your boyfriend already, who did you say the obsessed one is? just say no, tell him you want to be alone
Just be honest about and tell him how you feel. Try to be his friend but I am sure it will be difficult breaks up are not easy. No matter how hard you try you are always the bad one.
just say its over
I was with my girlfriend for about two weeks and we were friends at first as well. I just said something like ';I know how cliche this is, but I think we might just be better off as friends. I like you, but I don't know if I'd like to complicate things at all.'; I was pretty nervous when I did it, but it turns out that she felt the same way.
i went through the same situation
first of all do it in person or over the phone
then just tell him that you dont feel the same way about him
and he can decide if he still wants to be friends
well just say what you feel and you still want to be friends it will work out i know trust me he can be mad at you but he will be friends.
umm just tell him it wont work and u guys cld be friends
First of all,make sure you have the courage in that moment.at that point, do it before you lose it! Find him when he's not around his friends, or somewhere relativley private,and say soemthing like this
';I think your coming on a little strong.I think it would be best if we just went as friends,and maybe eventually work our way up.I don't think im quite ready for an actualy relationship with you,but your a nice guy,and i wouldn't want to lose you as a friend.Whaddya say';
O_O Hope it works ^-^
haha this sounds exactly like me last summer, except I waited for 2 weeks instead because I didn't have the courage.
Either way he'll be heart broken though.
You just have to be like ';you know I'm really sorry and you're a really good friend and stuff, but this whole boyfriend-girlfriendn relationship isn't working for me and I just don't feel the time is right';
But then still after ensure that you are friends- text him, call him, heck even go to the mall with him... just not as a couple
its easy, just be like: i really don't see us in the future going anywhere and i think it would be better off if we were just friends and if he doesn't want to be your friend, take it or leave it. but yeah.
';Hey, I think we'd be better off as friends, I'd love to hang out with you more, but just as friends';
How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
I've had boyfriends this year, ect. And I probably will next year in a bigger school that is filled with 13-14 years olds. Girls that age, how do you break up with your boyfriend that doesnt sound too kiddish or too mature?
(Please no one say, ';Your to young to date!!'; I wanted to, ok??)How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
well actually I don't agree with any of the other responses above..
I do not think you should write him a note, i think you should tell him face to face.. That would show him courage, and show that you are transitioning from a little girl to a young lady...Writting a note is cute and all, its just not something that a mature young lady would do..
Let him know how you feel.
Do not mention his faults, because if you do I garentee you, you will not only be losing a boyfriend but a friend as well:(
Just telll him the truth..
Do not say you just wanna see what else is out there..This willl make him think that you just wanna hoe around, and from then on you will be known as a little slut, and who knows he may just spread it around. This will make life stressful for you..
If I were you this is what I would tell him,
';we've been going out for about a year now, and although this has been fun and an experience for me .. I have to break up with you..It's not your fault, This is a reflection upon me..You are a very sweet guy, but I feel Like my mind, body, and soul are going through some changes right now, I'm going through some changes and I'm pretty sure you are too. I just need to figure it all out for myself, I need to see what is going on... I don't want you to think that I don't care about you, because I do.I just hope that sfter all we've been through together we could still remain friends';...
Something like that would be sweet and mature of you to say..How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
Well, even though you wanna break up w/ him, there are probably reasons why, (other than jjust wanna breaking up w/ him) you should tell him his faults, that you dont like and therefore want to break up. Im not 13-or 14, but during middle school years, it was quite easy breaking up. I mean just write it down in a peice of paper, give it to one of his friends to give to him. Make sure to write down his faults. Or just speak to him (if your comfortable that way).
At that age I always got dumped because I wasn't willing to do anything sexual. But I think you should just say...listen summer is coming I'm gonna be very busy I don't have time for a boyfriend I'm sorry. But you would like to still be friends. ect ect....Trust me he will get over it.
Just always remember if you do break up with someone do it how you would want them to do it to you. Don't be mean and nasty or make it public. It hurts so much more!
GOOD LUCK
Tell him that you feel that you should just be friends or you should take a break form each other. Or what i always do is say that my parents found out and that if i dont break up with them I will get (enter punishment or your choice here). Maybe that will work, and if you want to continue the relationship later, you can.(if you both agree on it) Good luck!! :)
Im 14 and i jus say: (example)
';Hey, Cody, can we break up? i jus dont feel we are okay together, k?
They Always r kewl with that... thats the 2 iv had and we still talk all the time... i guess it depends on the guy tho.
there is different ways to do it u could call him and just say its over and not give him a reason if u want or u could give him a reason or u could write him a note and hand it to him ur self like its a love letter or something
First, analyze why you want to break up with him. Second, if you really want to break up with him, then do so with a simple note in his locker or better yet, a pep talk.
what I do is (I'm 13) I say... I think I'm starting to see we don't really match and I think I wanna go back 2 b4 we were dating...but u were great so I hope we stay good friends and have nothing weird between us!
It works like a charm and no more ice-breakers!
But turn it into ur own words :)
good luck!
Just tell him that you've guys have grown apart and that you think you should just be friends.
just tell him that you 2 are too different. tell him you think it would be best to see other peoples.
omg..crazy world..
';we cant go on like this, i think were better off as friends';
tell him you are just not interested but he can still be your friend
write him a note
(Please no one say, ';Your to young to date!!'; I wanted to, ok??)How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
well actually I don't agree with any of the other responses above..
I do not think you should write him a note, i think you should tell him face to face.. That would show him courage, and show that you are transitioning from a little girl to a young lady...Writting a note is cute and all, its just not something that a mature young lady would do..
Let him know how you feel.
Do not mention his faults, because if you do I garentee you, you will not only be losing a boyfriend but a friend as well:(
Just telll him the truth..
Do not say you just wanna see what else is out there..This willl make him think that you just wanna hoe around, and from then on you will be known as a little slut, and who knows he may just spread it around. This will make life stressful for you..
If I were you this is what I would tell him,
';we've been going out for about a year now, and although this has been fun and an experience for me .. I have to break up with you..It's not your fault, This is a reflection upon me..You are a very sweet guy, but I feel Like my mind, body, and soul are going through some changes right now, I'm going through some changes and I'm pretty sure you are too. I just need to figure it all out for myself, I need to see what is going on... I don't want you to think that I don't care about you, because I do.I just hope that sfter all we've been through together we could still remain friends';...
Something like that would be sweet and mature of you to say..How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
Well, even though you wanna break up w/ him, there are probably reasons why, (other than jjust wanna breaking up w/ him) you should tell him his faults, that you dont like and therefore want to break up. Im not 13-or 14, but during middle school years, it was quite easy breaking up. I mean just write it down in a peice of paper, give it to one of his friends to give to him. Make sure to write down his faults. Or just speak to him (if your comfortable that way).
At that age I always got dumped because I wasn't willing to do anything sexual. But I think you should just say...listen summer is coming I'm gonna be very busy I don't have time for a boyfriend I'm sorry. But you would like to still be friends. ect ect....Trust me he will get over it.
Just always remember if you do break up with someone do it how you would want them to do it to you. Don't be mean and nasty or make it public. It hurts so much more!
GOOD LUCK
Tell him that you feel that you should just be friends or you should take a break form each other. Or what i always do is say that my parents found out and that if i dont break up with them I will get (enter punishment or your choice here). Maybe that will work, and if you want to continue the relationship later, you can.(if you both agree on it) Good luck!! :)
Im 14 and i jus say: (example)
';Hey, Cody, can we break up? i jus dont feel we are okay together, k?
They Always r kewl with that... thats the 2 iv had and we still talk all the time... i guess it depends on the guy tho.
there is different ways to do it u could call him and just say its over and not give him a reason if u want or u could give him a reason or u could write him a note and hand it to him ur self like its a love letter or something
First, analyze why you want to break up with him. Second, if you really want to break up with him, then do so with a simple note in his locker or better yet, a pep talk.
what I do is (I'm 13) I say... I think I'm starting to see we don't really match and I think I wanna go back 2 b4 we were dating...but u were great so I hope we stay good friends and have nothing weird between us!
It works like a charm and no more ice-breakers!
But turn it into ur own words :)
good luck!
Just tell him that you've guys have grown apart and that you think you should just be friends.
just tell him that you 2 are too different. tell him you think it would be best to see other peoples.
omg..crazy world..
';we cant go on like this, i think were better off as friends';
tell him you are just not interested but he can still be your friend
write him a note
How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I feel that i can't break up with my boyfriend because we used to be best friends before. We've been in love with each other 2 months before he asked me out. When we were officialy boyfriend and girlfriend, he changed. He doesn't call anymore, he visits his ex (with a bunch of people, not only him). Sometimes i feel he still has a thing for her.
I don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP!How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been going out with my best friend now for almost a year and I feel like he has changed too. He's really friendly with his ex's all the time too. I think you are just super protective over him since I know you've waiting to go out with him for a long time.
As for the thinking he has a thing for her, it probably isn't true (all guys are natural flirts) and since you knew how much he liked her since you are his best friend it is just just a natural reaction to feel cheated on.
Talk to him about it, just say I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her or ask if you can hang out with them too. That way she can see he is YOUR man or if he really is flirting too much you have proof to call him on.
I hope that helps!
P.S. if it just doesn't work go on a break to see if you guys are better as just friends and if you miss each other, go back out.How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
just tell him if he is more interested in his ex girlfriend then he should be with her and not u and that u will break up with him if its for his happiness. u are the dessert he should want u and be with u and treat u really well.
Maybe he's just a little embarrassed, or feels awkward that you two are dating. And he feels like getting away from it all can only be done by hanging with old 'friends'.
Tell him. Just tell him that the whole 'relationship thing' isnt working out for you. If you want to, tell him you still want to be friends.
Just tell him that you're not happy any more and that you can't see him any more. It's hard but it's the best way.
Well nothing in life last forever. It's okay though. Even if he was your friend before, maybe he CHANGED. Just talk it over with him that you cannot go through this anymore and hopefully he will understand since he's your boyfriend. Theres more guys in this world you just haven't opened your eyes to more. (The right time will come)
well hun, i t sound alike youre boyfriend doesnt even care about you anymore , even doesnt still the love , and feelings of you no longer, you should break up with him right now, if you dont do it then you will never have the chances to find a better singles men out there who will ask you out during the future. you dont really want to end up with a cheater who still in loved with his ex girlfriend and even he might did cheat on you and betrade you with his ex the whole time you end up adating him . plus later on maybe next year he realize that it not working out for both you and might dedicate to break up with you after all. maybe he is a dog who just playing with you to use you for sleeping with you and using you fr him to go back out with his ex. can also true about that. if youre are scared of breakin up with him because you re scared that you and him wouldnt be friends anymore. after breakin the relationship. well what the sake everybody goes threw that end up with wrong guys or girls. well i think you should dedicate what to do but you should call him or go see him ask him why he been not calling you , and why he been cheatin on with youre ex- friend ? but if he cant answer you then move on find better single genltmen who will adate you . good luck,
Tell him it isn't working out for you to be anything more than friends and you want to go back to that.
Don't waste your life on him! There is someone out there that loves you; you just haven't found him yet.
just explain to him that you just want to go back to being friends and matbe he does have feelings for his ex is all the more reason. if you dont like him because he has changed then you should go with your heart
best of luck and merry christmas
WE,LL YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE EITHER YOU WANT HIM AS ABEST FRIEND OR BOYFRIEND SO THE DECISSION IS YOURS
simply tell him that its not working for you and you want to go back to being friends. from what you've said you're not really into your fella so why should it concern you if he was to still have a thing for her.
Tell him to get lost, in a nice way =]
i dont think the relationship will work u guys are better of being bestfriends
There is a reason for the title of an old song. ';Breaking up is hard to do'; Your reason is no reason. The truth is that you still care about him and you really don't want to. But you have to be honest with yourself. He is no longer your best friend, and it sounds like he also forfeits his place as your boyfriend.
It will hurt awhile, and then you will move on.
I don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP!How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been going out with my best friend now for almost a year and I feel like he has changed too. He's really friendly with his ex's all the time too. I think you are just super protective over him since I know you've waiting to go out with him for a long time.
As for the thinking he has a thing for her, it probably isn't true (all guys are natural flirts) and since you knew how much he liked her since you are his best friend it is just just a natural reaction to feel cheated on.
Talk to him about it, just say I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her or ask if you can hang out with them too. That way she can see he is YOUR man or if he really is flirting too much you have proof to call him on.
I hope that helps!
P.S. if it just doesn't work go on a break to see if you guys are better as just friends and if you miss each other, go back out.How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
just tell him if he is more interested in his ex girlfriend then he should be with her and not u and that u will break up with him if its for his happiness. u are the dessert he should want u and be with u and treat u really well.
Maybe he's just a little embarrassed, or feels awkward that you two are dating. And he feels like getting away from it all can only be done by hanging with old 'friends'.
Tell him. Just tell him that the whole 'relationship thing' isnt working out for you. If you want to, tell him you still want to be friends.
Just tell him that you're not happy any more and that you can't see him any more. It's hard but it's the best way.
Well nothing in life last forever. It's okay though. Even if he was your friend before, maybe he CHANGED. Just talk it over with him that you cannot go through this anymore and hopefully he will understand since he's your boyfriend. Theres more guys in this world you just haven't opened your eyes to more. (The right time will come)
well hun, i t sound alike youre boyfriend doesnt even care about you anymore , even doesnt still the love , and feelings of you no longer, you should break up with him right now, if you dont do it then you will never have the chances to find a better singles men out there who will ask you out during the future. you dont really want to end up with a cheater who still in loved with his ex girlfriend and even he might did cheat on you and betrade you with his ex the whole time you end up adating him . plus later on maybe next year he realize that it not working out for both you and might dedicate to break up with you after all. maybe he is a dog who just playing with you to use you for sleeping with you and using you fr him to go back out with his ex. can also true about that. if youre are scared of breakin up with him because you re scared that you and him wouldnt be friends anymore. after breakin the relationship. well what the sake everybody goes threw that end up with wrong guys or girls. well i think you should dedicate what to do but you should call him or go see him ask him why he been not calling you , and why he been cheatin on with youre ex- friend ? but if he cant answer you then move on find better single genltmen who will adate you . good luck,
Tell him it isn't working out for you to be anything more than friends and you want to go back to that.
Don't waste your life on him! There is someone out there that loves you; you just haven't found him yet.
just explain to him that you just want to go back to being friends and matbe he does have feelings for his ex is all the more reason. if you dont like him because he has changed then you should go with your heart
best of luck and merry christmas
WE,LL YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE EITHER YOU WANT HIM AS ABEST FRIEND OR BOYFRIEND SO THE DECISSION IS YOURS
simply tell him that its not working for you and you want to go back to being friends. from what you've said you're not really into your fella so why should it concern you if he was to still have a thing for her.
Tell him to get lost, in a nice way =]
i dont think the relationship will work u guys are better of being bestfriends
There is a reason for the title of an old song. ';Breaking up is hard to do'; Your reason is no reason. The truth is that you still care about him and you really don't want to. But you have to be honest with yourself. He is no longer your best friend, and it sounds like he also forfeits his place as your boyfriend.
It will hurt awhile, and then you will move on.
Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
We live together in his condo. I am a student and I don't think I could afford rent on my own. I don't really have anywhere to go because my school is here and my family is not. I need to break up with this guy but I will be homeless! Sorry if this is a weird question but I could use some advise.... Anyone have any suggestions...Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
You break up with him just like you would anybody else.
Your question should be how do I find housing, and here are some options:
1. Check with your school. The semester just started, maybe you can live on campus. I know that's not ideal but it will be a quick fix.
2. Look for roommates. Talk to your counselor at school. Many places have bulletin boards for other students looking for roommates.
3. If you are religious, try going to your local church/temple or whatever and asking if you can post a note asking if you can live in a basement or in-law suite temporarily.
4. If money is a problem you should be able to take out additional student loans (private) if necessary. You can get loans for tuition plus books and a living allowance as calculated by your school. You can get several grand upfront which should set you up for something temporary (depending on your location) until you can set something up more permanent. This is not ideal but it's better than the alternatives.
5. Talk with your bf. Tell him you are not feeling good about the relationship but ask him if you can stay for a while longer until you find something.
If you choose to stay just because he's your bed, that is completely uncool. He's a person too and deserves to know if the woman standing next to him has no intention of continuing the relationship. If he's a nice guy maybe he'll let you stay for a while. I know it's important to protect yourself but please don't use him in the process.Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
That really sucks. I have thought about this myself since I live with my boyfriend. I have nowhere to go if things get bad between us, but I would not want to pretend that I still wanted the relationship when I was over it. You'll probably have to either pretend everything is fine until you figure something else out, or break up with him but continue to live with him until you can get back on your feet, which would be awkward, but probably not as bad as lying to him about how you feel.
Will if you break up with him look at the penaltys
-You will be Homeless
-You cant go to school
-You dont have no money
I cant give you any advise because I dont no what your problem is......
But if you and your partner are having problems.It is complety normal ,Becouse seblings often argue/fight.But usally get over it and gete allong,Then fight a week from now...Seblings hate/love at the same time.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++…
You can always try to reason with each other because you live together.Talk to one an other and keep things comfortable.
But if cant work out no mather what.............Then you can break up with him and go to your family...
Remember that you shoulnt be with him if he is ALWAYS
:hitting you...yelling...if there is alcholle/drugs involved then you shouldnt deal with it
I hope i helped
yes call your family and see if they can help if you have any friends you can stay with that would be good too. If you are not in love with this guy and you don't think he would live under the same roof with a platonic relationship then you need to make your own way it's not fair to him it's kind of like using him. It's not fair to yourself either....you think you can't make it on your own but have you ever tried, do you have a job see what an efficiency apt would cost or if they have a program at your college where you can work for room and board. You need to contact your family though I am sure they would not wanting you staying in an unhealthy relationship. Give yourself more credit millions of girls and women do it every day. Start asking around and see if anyone else needs a room mate but be honest with him maybe he will surprise you and say he will help you get into someplace of your own or let you stay until you can save the rent as long as you clean and do laundry. Something will work out. If you belong to a church someone there may want a live in babysitter for evenings or weekends that's another possibility and if the first thing doesn't work out try again, and again until you find yourself supporting yourself. I will be praying for you good luck!
Get a job, rent a room in someone's home, move into the dorm, get some of your college friends together and rent a larger apartment or house. This is one of those bad situations women tend to get themselves into and then can't find their way out. You have made yourself dependent upon a man you aren't meant to be with. *SIGH* OK, pick yourself up, muster your dignity, and get resourceful. You'll find a way, but you are probably going to have to rearrange some things in your life to get out.
Hi, sweetie. Do you have any friends who would let you stay with them for a while? You could offer to buy all the groceries or pay part of their rent for them. Ten years ago, when my (then) future in-laws took me in, I bought all their groceries since they wouldn't let me pay rent or part of their bills or anything like that. It worked out pretty nicely. I would make finding some other place to live my first priority. Then pack up all your stuff and bail. Leave a note, don't leave a note, whatever. Good luck, honey.
You just need to be looking for a roommate so that you can just move into a different situation. Till then you'll either have to stick it out or live in your car. Cause chances are if he is the only one with his name on the condo...if he's not an exceptionally good guy, then your out of there.
uhmm....tough situation there
Well don't use this guy first..ask a friend if you can bunk for a couple weeks until you get like maybe a part-time job to help pay-off rent.
Might want to help pay your friends rent too.
As for the guy, try to work it out, see the problem from his point of view, if you live with him, you guys must have some sort of intimate relationship right? Just talk it out.
Good Luck
If he's a good person he'll probably let you sleep on the couch or something until you find a place. If not, you could maybe live with a friend until then.
Do some research on your own, maybe find out if anyone is offering really cheap rent for a room mate, post an ad.
Maybe you could get a side job if you can't afford rent.
Being in a bad relationship sucks! I hope this helps!
Perhaps you could move in with another friend?
Or maybe wait a little while, until you get enough money or something.
You definitely should not just break up with him with nowhere to go, unless it's a really bad or abusive relationship. Just look for some of your friends who might give you a place to crash for a little while.
Good luck!
Live with it! same like me but i am slightly different with u cos I am useful and good in earning monies but always stolen by the doggies pple. Nokia handphone touchlight is one of them! hahaahahaha
so no monies mean no talk and shut up and live with it till i am rich. hee heee.....or i can left anytime but laziness is my specialities right now.
Discuss how you feel with him, and he will probably understand.
but if he is one of those guys that will go CRAZY on you and kick you out wait a little while until you can afford to rent another place.
That's the breaks. If you wasn't with him you'd have to find a place to live. I'd look for one, and then just move out while he's gone for a while.
Well, say you guys can't date but you still need the place untill you can get your own or say you want to be roommates for a while.
I think you should get a job and get some money so you can start paying rent then if you know you can afford rent then you can dump him if you want.
Find a roommate, advertise in campus paper, ask around and then move in the midnight hour. He will get the message.
ahh the beauty of retrospect
note to self...don't live together if you're not engaged or married
Tell him your ';just not into him anymore'; and you want to see other people, but would like to stay there and pay him rent, but make sure you tell him there will be no fringe benefits on the side.
DO NOT BREAK UP. Stay until you can get a place on your own.
I don't know if you can.
Maybe you could crash with some friends until you get things straightened out?
tell him you want to take things lowly but dont actually break up with him!!! find a roomate and when you do then u can fully break up.
What did you have planned before you met this guy with a condo in a different city that your college was in?
look hard very hard for roommates, craigslist, n all that stuff, if u've got to get out DO NOT STALL I REPEAT DO NOT STALL, stalling keeps u in the same position...good luck
if you don't want to be homeless you better keep putting out if you do break up with him
dont u will be homeless. just be with him until you graduate and maby things will get better and you can find someone else to live with
Don't you have a girlfriend at school you could shack up with. Ask around, it wouldn't hurt to try.
Only break up with him if its for a good reason .
wait til you get money saved up to afford an apartment.
well if its your place then just tell him to leave if not maybe you too can work some thing out or something or you could wait until you have saved up enough money to get your own place
WHY?! What'd he do? Don't do it, you'll be screwed into a hole!
do u love him, why do u want to break up? try to make it work being on the street is not ideal.
You break up with him just like you would anybody else.
Your question should be how do I find housing, and here are some options:
1. Check with your school. The semester just started, maybe you can live on campus. I know that's not ideal but it will be a quick fix.
2. Look for roommates. Talk to your counselor at school. Many places have bulletin boards for other students looking for roommates.
3. If you are religious, try going to your local church/temple or whatever and asking if you can post a note asking if you can live in a basement or in-law suite temporarily.
4. If money is a problem you should be able to take out additional student loans (private) if necessary. You can get loans for tuition plus books and a living allowance as calculated by your school. You can get several grand upfront which should set you up for something temporary (depending on your location) until you can set something up more permanent. This is not ideal but it's better than the alternatives.
5. Talk with your bf. Tell him you are not feeling good about the relationship but ask him if you can stay for a while longer until you find something.
If you choose to stay just because he's your bed, that is completely uncool. He's a person too and deserves to know if the woman standing next to him has no intention of continuing the relationship. If he's a nice guy maybe he'll let you stay for a while. I know it's important to protect yourself but please don't use him in the process.Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
That really sucks. I have thought about this myself since I live with my boyfriend. I have nowhere to go if things get bad between us, but I would not want to pretend that I still wanted the relationship when I was over it. You'll probably have to either pretend everything is fine until you figure something else out, or break up with him but continue to live with him until you can get back on your feet, which would be awkward, but probably not as bad as lying to him about how you feel.
Will if you break up with him look at the penaltys
-You will be Homeless
-You cant go to school
-You dont have no money
I cant give you any advise because I dont no what your problem is......
But if you and your partner are having problems.It is complety normal ,Becouse seblings often argue/fight.But usally get over it and gete allong,Then fight a week from now...Seblings hate/love at the same time.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++…
You can always try to reason with each other because you live together.Talk to one an other and keep things comfortable.
But if cant work out no mather what.............Then you can break up with him and go to your family...
Remember that you shoulnt be with him if he is ALWAYS
:hitting you...yelling...if there is alcholle/drugs involved then you shouldnt deal with it
I hope i helped
yes call your family and see if they can help if you have any friends you can stay with that would be good too. If you are not in love with this guy and you don't think he would live under the same roof with a platonic relationship then you need to make your own way it's not fair to him it's kind of like using him. It's not fair to yourself either....you think you can't make it on your own but have you ever tried, do you have a job see what an efficiency apt would cost or if they have a program at your college where you can work for room and board. You need to contact your family though I am sure they would not wanting you staying in an unhealthy relationship. Give yourself more credit millions of girls and women do it every day. Start asking around and see if anyone else needs a room mate but be honest with him maybe he will surprise you and say he will help you get into someplace of your own or let you stay until you can save the rent as long as you clean and do laundry. Something will work out. If you belong to a church someone there may want a live in babysitter for evenings or weekends that's another possibility and if the first thing doesn't work out try again, and again until you find yourself supporting yourself. I will be praying for you good luck!
Get a job, rent a room in someone's home, move into the dorm, get some of your college friends together and rent a larger apartment or house. This is one of those bad situations women tend to get themselves into and then can't find their way out. You have made yourself dependent upon a man you aren't meant to be with. *SIGH* OK, pick yourself up, muster your dignity, and get resourceful. You'll find a way, but you are probably going to have to rearrange some things in your life to get out.
Hi, sweetie. Do you have any friends who would let you stay with them for a while? You could offer to buy all the groceries or pay part of their rent for them. Ten years ago, when my (then) future in-laws took me in, I bought all their groceries since they wouldn't let me pay rent or part of their bills or anything like that. It worked out pretty nicely. I would make finding some other place to live my first priority. Then pack up all your stuff and bail. Leave a note, don't leave a note, whatever. Good luck, honey.
You just need to be looking for a roommate so that you can just move into a different situation. Till then you'll either have to stick it out or live in your car. Cause chances are if he is the only one with his name on the condo...if he's not an exceptionally good guy, then your out of there.
uhmm....tough situation there
Well don't use this guy first..ask a friend if you can bunk for a couple weeks until you get like maybe a part-time job to help pay-off rent.
Might want to help pay your friends rent too.
As for the guy, try to work it out, see the problem from his point of view, if you live with him, you guys must have some sort of intimate relationship right? Just talk it out.
Good Luck
If he's a good person he'll probably let you sleep on the couch or something until you find a place. If not, you could maybe live with a friend until then.
Do some research on your own, maybe find out if anyone is offering really cheap rent for a room mate, post an ad.
Maybe you could get a side job if you can't afford rent.
Being in a bad relationship sucks! I hope this helps!
Perhaps you could move in with another friend?
Or maybe wait a little while, until you get enough money or something.
You definitely should not just break up with him with nowhere to go, unless it's a really bad or abusive relationship. Just look for some of your friends who might give you a place to crash for a little while.
Good luck!
Live with it! same like me but i am slightly different with u cos I am useful and good in earning monies but always stolen by the doggies pple. Nokia handphone touchlight is one of them! hahaahahaha
so no monies mean no talk and shut up and live with it till i am rich. hee heee.....or i can left anytime but laziness is my specialities right now.
Discuss how you feel with him, and he will probably understand.
but if he is one of those guys that will go CRAZY on you and kick you out wait a little while until you can afford to rent another place.
That's the breaks. If you wasn't with him you'd have to find a place to live. I'd look for one, and then just move out while he's gone for a while.
Well, say you guys can't date but you still need the place untill you can get your own or say you want to be roommates for a while.
I think you should get a job and get some money so you can start paying rent then if you know you can afford rent then you can dump him if you want.
Find a roommate, advertise in campus paper, ask around and then move in the midnight hour. He will get the message.
ahh the beauty of retrospect
note to self...don't live together if you're not engaged or married
Tell him your ';just not into him anymore'; and you want to see other people, but would like to stay there and pay him rent, but make sure you tell him there will be no fringe benefits on the side.
DO NOT BREAK UP. Stay until you can get a place on your own.
I don't know if you can.
Maybe you could crash with some friends until you get things straightened out?
tell him you want to take things lowly but dont actually break up with him!!! find a roomate and when you do then u can fully break up.
What did you have planned before you met this guy with a condo in a different city that your college was in?
look hard very hard for roommates, craigslist, n all that stuff, if u've got to get out DO NOT STALL I REPEAT DO NOT STALL, stalling keeps u in the same position...good luck
if you don't want to be homeless you better keep putting out if you do break up with him
dont u will be homeless. just be with him until you graduate and maby things will get better and you can find someone else to live with
Don't you have a girlfriend at school you could shack up with. Ask around, it wouldn't hurt to try.
Only break up with him if its for a good reason .
wait til you get money saved up to afford an apartment.
well if its your place then just tell him to leave if not maybe you too can work some thing out or something or you could wait until you have saved up enough money to get your own place
WHY?! What'd he do? Don't do it, you'll be screwed into a hole!
do u love him, why do u want to break up? try to make it work being on the street is not ideal.
How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
I still like my ex boyfriend after he dumped me and now he has a new girlfriend and shes a ugly ***** ... How do I break them up? And dont say stuff like ';thats a mean thing to do'; pleaseHow do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Don't. You guys broke up for a reason. (I'm beginning to imagine that it was because of your attitude.)How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Why do you want to come back with somebody that doesn't love you? He's just collecting women trophies to brag about.
would you want her to do that to you? don't you think he will resent you if you did? Wouldn't you always wonder if he still wanted her?
That's a mean thing to do.... LOL
Spread rumors that she has herpes or the clap.
He's your ';ex'; take the hint and move on.
its a bit of a mad thing to do..you must really like this guy to want to do this..i dont think breaking them up personally is going to help..because if he dumped you i doubt he is going to want to get back with you..and especially not if he nos thats wat you have set out to do..break them up..he will probly think you are a cico..but if you think this will help things for you, you cud tell his new girlfriend he has a s.t.d or sumthin..mite not work though...id just move on if i was you..theres plenty of fish in the sea..bigger and better fish aswell..hope this helps..leave him and his ugly girlfriend to it..let him no wat hes missing..
The fact that you would be ok with doing something like that is probably the reason he broke up with you. So even if you find some conniving way to do that, you'll still be the same flawed person he doesn't want to be with.
Dude, thats cold.
I dont care. but youre ****** up.
tell one of her friends that he's cheating on her with some sluuut. She's tell the girl who will then dump him, he'll run back to you...walla...
are you even 12 years old?? You can't be THAT immature!
he broke up with you for a reason so even if you break him up with his girlfriend he still won't come back to you.
Well...since he broke up with you, I think you best leave it alone because you can into a far worse and uglier situation that it already is. You can't force him to like you, and if he's done then he's done. Sorry if that's not the answer you want to hear, but it's the truth.
sleep with him.
tell her.
wont say that mean but i will say move on and find yourself a real man
damn leave him alone he is trying to move on, oh well u will find someone better... i know how it feels, my boyfriend dumped me too, then i found out he had another girl, but i didn't do anything, just wished him the best, few weeks later they broke up anyways, cuz i knew she was just a rebound... anyways i found someone better now... have u ever heard peolple say '; if u love something set it free, and if it returns cherish it 4ever'; good luck though, just have fun meet new people, party and party, make friends, just live life... i say it bcuz i'm only 19 and i'm already married, i gave up 2 many stuff... i mean don't get me wrong, i love my husband...and i'm happy wit him...windows live skin rash
Don't. You guys broke up for a reason. (I'm beginning to imagine that it was because of your attitude.)How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Why do you want to come back with somebody that doesn't love you? He's just collecting women trophies to brag about.
would you want her to do that to you? don't you think he will resent you if you did? Wouldn't you always wonder if he still wanted her?
That's a mean thing to do.... LOL
Spread rumors that she has herpes or the clap.
He's your ';ex'; take the hint and move on.
its a bit of a mad thing to do..you must really like this guy to want to do this..i dont think breaking them up personally is going to help..because if he dumped you i doubt he is going to want to get back with you..and especially not if he nos thats wat you have set out to do..break them up..he will probly think you are a cico..but if you think this will help things for you, you cud tell his new girlfriend he has a s.t.d or sumthin..mite not work though...id just move on if i was you..theres plenty of fish in the sea..bigger and better fish aswell..hope this helps..leave him and his ugly girlfriend to it..let him no wat hes missing..
The fact that you would be ok with doing something like that is probably the reason he broke up with you. So even if you find some conniving way to do that, you'll still be the same flawed person he doesn't want to be with.
Dude, thats cold.
I dont care. but youre ****** up.
tell one of her friends that he's cheating on her with some sluuut. She's tell the girl who will then dump him, he'll run back to you...walla...
are you even 12 years old?? You can't be THAT immature!
he broke up with you for a reason so even if you break him up with his girlfriend he still won't come back to you.
Well...since he broke up with you, I think you best leave it alone because you can into a far worse and uglier situation that it already is. You can't force him to like you, and if he's done then he's done. Sorry if that's not the answer you want to hear, but it's the truth.
sleep with him.
tell her.
wont say that mean but i will say move on and find yourself a real man
damn leave him alone he is trying to move on, oh well u will find someone better... i know how it feels, my boyfriend dumped me too, then i found out he had another girl, but i didn't do anything, just wished him the best, few weeks later they broke up anyways, cuz i knew she was just a rebound... anyways i found someone better now... have u ever heard peolple say '; if u love something set it free, and if it returns cherish it 4ever'; good luck though, just have fun meet new people, party and party, make friends, just live life... i say it bcuz i'm only 19 and i'm already married, i gave up 2 many stuff... i mean don't get me wrong, i love my husband...and i'm happy wit him...
How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
So there's this girl that I knew and liked for quite a while now and I Just recently found out that she returns the feelings, but then she still has a boyfriend that's in grade 12 and also has a bit of feelings left for him.
How can i get her to break up with him.
We are both in grade 10 and I have 50 pounds on him.How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
Ok here's whatcha wanna do...
1) befriend her, become one of her closest guy friends
2) show her u care about her no matter what...even if it means being with that guy
3) show her she can trust u with anything...the most importannt thing is is TRUST anyone can be friend but not many people can trusted
4) show her she can open herself up to u like telling u embarrassing things,deep secrets, ext.
5)allow urself to open up to her
6) show her she can be herself around u instead of trying to fit in, or being all stressed,ext.
7)show her u will be there for her no matter what
That's about it...once she sees all of those things in u she will realize that she loves uHow do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
um. if you really want my advice, just let her go...for now. As one great person said or wrote ';If you truly love something let it go. if it comes back, it's your's to keep.'; One thing we girls hate is another guy pushing us into a descision and if you did push her in some way to break up with he Bf, she would never be able to let it go. It's just a girl thing. Hope this helps.
If she breaks it with him to go with you, do you think she may break it with you to go with someone else later? Heck, size doesn't matter either! Best to you!
dude im going through the same problem lol...just try staying as close as possible and try to be her friend ok!!!Good luck bro...
...and what exactly do 50 pounds matter? she's not going to dump him just because he's smaller than you, retard.
Be creative. Get closer to her and then give her an ultimatum.
Beat him up in public and she'll be too embarrassed to stay with him.
beat the **** outa him lol., no really just keep at the girl and make her get over him.
you have to be better than him in all aspects
love is a hard competition to compete in but it can be done
How can i get her to break up with him.
We are both in grade 10 and I have 50 pounds on him.How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
Ok here's whatcha wanna do...
1) befriend her, become one of her closest guy friends
2) show her u care about her no matter what...even if it means being with that guy
3) show her she can trust u with anything...the most importannt thing is is TRUST anyone can be friend but not many people can trusted
4) show her she can open herself up to u like telling u embarrassing things,deep secrets, ext.
5)allow urself to open up to her
6) show her she can be herself around u instead of trying to fit in, or being all stressed,ext.
7)show her u will be there for her no matter what
That's about it...once she sees all of those things in u she will realize that she loves uHow do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
um. if you really want my advice, just let her go...for now. As one great person said or wrote ';If you truly love something let it go. if it comes back, it's your's to keep.'; One thing we girls hate is another guy pushing us into a descision and if you did push her in some way to break up with he Bf, she would never be able to let it go. It's just a girl thing. Hope this helps.
If she breaks it with him to go with you, do you think she may break it with you to go with someone else later? Heck, size doesn't matter either! Best to you!
dude im going through the same problem lol...just try staying as close as possible and try to be her friend ok!!!Good luck bro...
...and what exactly do 50 pounds matter? she's not going to dump him just because he's smaller than you, retard.
Be creative. Get closer to her and then give her an ultimatum.
Beat him up in public and she'll be too embarrassed to stay with him.
beat the **** outa him lol., no really just keep at the girl and make her get over him.
you have to be better than him in all aspects
love is a hard competition to compete in but it can be done
How do you break up with your boyfriend and still be friends after?
Okay my boyfriend of 2 months kissed me a couple times. i am in 6th grade would it be slutty if i kissed him and then broke up with him? How do i break up with him and not hurt his feelings, i still want to be friends just not go out with him. I have already met his family and everything. I am not too good at breaking up with people. Should i try to get him to break up with me?How do you break up with your boyfriend and still be friends after?
No, never try and get him to break up with you, cause when he finds out the truth he would be very hurt.
The best thing to do here is be completely honest with him, tell him how you feel and that you just want to be friends.
He should come around in the end if he is a bit off with you at first. But don't worry.How do you break up with your boyfriend and still be friends after?
tell the truth, you just want to be friends
YES YOUR A HO.....U DONT KISS UR BOYFRIEND B4 U BREAK UP WITH HIM ........BITC\
No, never try and get him to break up with you, cause when he finds out the truth he would be very hurt.
The best thing to do here is be completely honest with him, tell him how you feel and that you just want to be friends.
He should come around in the end if he is a bit off with you at first. But don't worry.How do you break up with your boyfriend and still be friends after?
tell the truth, you just want to be friends
YES YOUR A HO.....U DONT KISS UR BOYFRIEND B4 U BREAK UP WITH HIM ........BITC\
Would you break up with your boyfriend if he was doing you tube searches on how to track you using a cell?
We are already fighting and I found a bunch of you tube videos he watched about tracing people and tracking them, using a comp or phone, google earth, etc. Would this be the last straw for you? Or do you think at the end of a relationship that this kind of stupid stuff happens?Would you break up with your boyfriend if he was doing you tube searches on how to track you using a cell?
YES!
stalker alertWould you break up with your boyfriend if he was doing you tube searches on how to track you using a cell?
lmao no i wouldn't mind it ...well thas what i say now...cuz its not happening but i think it would be cute..that's something iwould do lmao ppl famin n boyfriends need 2 understand i spend 8 straight hours in front of a computer..doing nothing but perhaps one hours work...n besides that the remanding 7 hours i have it free to just do nothing..n i am sooo curious since i was a lil girl...i go around looking and finding n checking n call it what you want but i be finding things i dont even be tryna find....im just curious n have alot of time in my hands...but i did have an ex before that would stock me sooooooooooo much he would just magically appear with my email passwords n he would do all these crazy things i never us to really get mad i us to just laugh like dumm *** but now that i hate him i hate the fact that he was all up on my personal space like that...but i guess is only cuz i hate him now
You should probably ask him about this IN PUBLIC (in case he gets craazy psycho). He may have some good excuse like doing a paper on it or something. However, this is unlikely. It seems to me like you might have a stalker on your hands. Maybe you should do some self defense classes and research how to protect yourself from a stalker.
he is getting over possessive. you need to tell him that then break off with him.
IT starts with you tracking his ***......hello ..this is all an immature relationship..both of u need to GROW UP
you already know the answer in your heart - do you really want to be with this guy forever?
no i just would be careful in what i do
YES!
stalker alertWould you break up with your boyfriend if he was doing you tube searches on how to track you using a cell?
lmao no i wouldn't mind it ...well thas what i say now...cuz its not happening but i think it would be cute..that's something iwould do lmao ppl famin n boyfriends need 2 understand i spend 8 straight hours in front of a computer..doing nothing but perhaps one hours work...n besides that the remanding 7 hours i have it free to just do nothing..n i am sooo curious since i was a lil girl...i go around looking and finding n checking n call it what you want but i be finding things i dont even be tryna find....im just curious n have alot of time in my hands...but i did have an ex before that would stock me sooooooooooo much he would just magically appear with my email passwords n he would do all these crazy things i never us to really get mad i us to just laugh like dumm *** but now that i hate him i hate the fact that he was all up on my personal space like that...but i guess is only cuz i hate him now
You should probably ask him about this IN PUBLIC (in case he gets craazy psycho). He may have some good excuse like doing a paper on it or something. However, this is unlikely. It seems to me like you might have a stalker on your hands. Maybe you should do some self defense classes and research how to protect yourself from a stalker.
he is getting over possessive. you need to tell him that then break off with him.
IT starts with you tracking his ***......hello ..this is all an immature relationship..both of u need to GROW UP
you already know the answer in your heart - do you really want to be with this guy forever?
no i just would be careful in what i do
How do I break up with my new boyfriend?
I just got a boyfriend not too long ago, I used to like him, but now it just seems so awkward. He's a really nice person, but I feel the need of break up. Lets face it, I'm just not the relationship type...How do I break up with my new boyfriend?
you should visit this site and this girl will give you some good advice. she has given me some and it works.
http://teenagegurlsecret.webs.com/How do I break up with my new boyfriend?
You probably shouldn't have dated him, but be really gentle and kind about it. Tell him that you are just not the relationship type and you are very sorry if you hurt his feelings, but you aren't ready for anything serious.
Be honest with him and just tell him. Don't keep him on a string because you would feel ';guilty'; for getting rid of him. You'll be doing the guy a favor in the long run, and he'll be able to find someone else who will be happy with him. But be careful in the future when you date somebody. Honesty is the best policy, and if you keep doing this to guys, eventually it will get around, and your reputation will be close to what's found in the outhouse, and it's not the toiletpaper. An old male friend of mine used to tell me that the best relationships begin with BEING FRIENDS FIRST. Only when you actually get to know the guy for who he is, will you eventually know if he's the one or not. Let's face it, when your private parts rule your brain, it's time to stand back and take a hard look at the situation. I learned the hardway about this, don't let yourself be caught in the same trap.
Yeah break up with him before he falls too deep in love with you, while your not feeling the same about him. Just tell him that you don't wanna be in a relationship because that's the truth.
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http://teenagegurlsecret.webs.com/How do I break up with my new boyfriend?
You probably shouldn't have dated him, but be really gentle and kind about it. Tell him that you are just not the relationship type and you are very sorry if you hurt his feelings, but you aren't ready for anything serious.
Be honest with him and just tell him. Don't keep him on a string because you would feel ';guilty'; for getting rid of him. You'll be doing the guy a favor in the long run, and he'll be able to find someone else who will be happy with him. But be careful in the future when you date somebody. Honesty is the best policy, and if you keep doing this to guys, eventually it will get around, and your reputation will be close to what's found in the outhouse, and it's not the toiletpaper. An old male friend of mine used to tell me that the best relationships begin with BEING FRIENDS FIRST. Only when you actually get to know the guy for who he is, will you eventually know if he's the one or not. Let's face it, when your private parts rule your brain, it's time to stand back and take a hard look at the situation. I learned the hardway about this, don't let yourself be caught in the same trap.
Yeah break up with him before he falls too deep in love with you, while your not feeling the same about him. Just tell him that you don't wanna be in a relationship because that's the truth.
How do I trust my boyfriend again after a break-up?
MY BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ALMOST 3 WEEKS AGO I GAVE HIM HIS BREAK NOW WE ARE BACK TOGETHER. HOW DO I TRUST HIM AGAIN. I DONT KNOW WHERE TO BEGINHow do I trust my boyfriend again after a break-up?
You broke up for a reason.How do I trust my boyfriend again after a break-up?
if you are even questioning as to whether you trust him, you are in the wrong relationship.
trust has to be earned. i would never take back someone I didn't trust.
if there is no trust why are you with him again
Well I don't have enough details but you should probably not be going out with him if you don't trust him.
I GUESS YOU CALL THIS TIME OUT ,TELL HIM HIS TIME IS UP...
trust is very important in a relationship, if you dont trust him then why'd u agree to go out with him again ? Also, if you trusted him before then whats not to trust now?
You broke up for a reason.How do I trust my boyfriend again after a break-up?
if you are even questioning as to whether you trust him, you are in the wrong relationship.
trust has to be earned. i would never take back someone I didn't trust.
if there is no trust why are you with him again
Well I don't have enough details but you should probably not be going out with him if you don't trust him.
I GUESS YOU CALL THIS TIME OUT ,TELL HIM HIS TIME IS UP...
trust is very important in a relationship, if you dont trust him then why'd u agree to go out with him again ? Also, if you trusted him before then whats not to trust now?
How can I find the courage and the heart to break up with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend really really loves me. I've never felt so loved before in my whole life. He has really opened up to me and made himself vulnerable in a way he's never done before. He's sure he wants to be with me for the rest of our lives. But I'm not so sure. He's so young (22) and quite unexperienced - I can't be sure of what he will be like in five or ten years. I want to get married soon and have kids in a couple of years. He wants that too, but I don't know if he's ready. The real issue, in addition to the age thing, is the fact that I'm a Christian and he's not. I'm active in a church as a choir leader. But my faith has had its rough turns. I had two years of depression, when I couldn't see any point in me living instead of dying. Then I decided I had to do something about my life, because clearly no one including God would come and just make everything alright again. And it went OK. And then I met my boyfriend. He has helped me in many ways - he makes me feel like a beautiful persHow can I find the courage and the heart to break up with my boyfriend?
just do it and get it over with so he can find someone that loves himHow can I find the courage and the heart to break up with my boyfriend?
tell him face to face that hes just not good enough and that the two of you need to start seeing other people.
If things were the reverse, believe me he will not be so concerned about you and your feelings. Most men are like that, they only care about themselves and their immediate needs and that is it.
By reading your comments, I think that you don`t love him but it looks like you have a lot of emotional needs and he provides that for you; he makes you feel good because he loves you. When you really love someone, there is nothing in life that will stop you from loving him/her not even religion, your mother, grandmother, the king, queen,death,God etc!
Today, call him and let him know that you are no longer interested on dating him. Let him know that you are having problems within yourself and that dating is complicating your life. Tell him all the good things about him and that he deserves someone better than you, someone with her feets on earth, a person that is not focused on her needs only. (no one is sure of what their partner will be tomorrow, let alone 5-10 Years!)
The longer you keep your feelings from him. the more pain you will be causing to this man. So be strong and face reality.
Good Luck
You havn't said why you want to break up with him...unless it's because you both have different religious beliefs. You have also said your boyfriend has made you feel like a beautiful person* and has helped you in many ways....so why is it you want to break it off??
no one can be sure what the future holds...what a person will be like in 5-10yrs.......it's all about what choices you make along the way. you said he's 22...you didn't mention how old you are....but at this stage..in your life.....only You can decide what's best for you and your future. If you don't see yourself with this person you need to be honest with them . Bestwishes*
This is not an insult or to make it sound like you are crazy. But it seems to me that you have a lot of conflicting thoughts, feelings and emotions. You might do well seeing a therapist to help you sort out what and why these things are. This is very common and my strongest most confident girl friends all have been to the shrink at one time or another. I marry many interfaith couples and they are wonderful! So religion isn't as big an issue as it sounds. After all if love is divinely inspired then it's not a matter of yes or no but only how. If you have a good man. Make sure you understand the things within yourself that are making you think of throwing him away.
In opening ones self up to being vulnerable it sometimes looks easier to never step into the ring. If you never give all of your heart it will never be broken. But never to know pain or sorrow in ones life would be to live a life that was never blessed with anything worth while.
Yahoo is no substitute for a good therapist.
22 is young for a man (sorry guys). You don't mention your age which is probably not relevant anyway. Hate to say it but the west does put rather too much emphasis on age while ignoring the real issues relating to the relationship itself.
Forgive me for asking but I don't see the relationship between faith and the desire to live. If life were not meaningful in its own right then what have we to thank god for?
Marriage is always going to have a risk factor. There are way too many distractions in life for even same-age, same-faith and same-background couples. That does not mean the relationship is doomed. Love is something we need to learn to do...not just people but also the things they are and do.
Even showing a little interest in (say) a hobby of his that you might detest can make a difference. 'I hate this but just want to be with you' situation. He may not go to church but doesn't complain about your faith and doesn't ask you to do anything that would compromise you.....Get him involved at a 'no commit' level and give him time to think about why its important to you.
He makes you feel like beautiful person. God's answer perhaps? Not for me to say and maybe not for you to know until you celebrate your 25th anniversary together. Be happy, take your time and give yourselves time.
You are confused, Is not that he is not ready, it is YOU the one that is not ready. If you wonder how life would be without him, go on a trial separation and see.
Good luck
I think you should ask yourself whether you want to be alone or not. Maybe this caring,gorgeous young man is actually what you really need. Do you really think that you will find another who is so committed yo you. And young is good,22 is certainly not too young if you're thinking babies.
talk to him about whether he's ready or not.
So why do you want to leave him? Think the grass is greener somewhere else? or is it your concern about the conflict of religions? You can overcome any obstacle if you think it's worth your time.
OK, I wonder how old you are?? And why is it that ';Christians'; always do this... they always date non-Christians and then dump them when the church doesn't agree. Just let the poor guy go.... he'll be better off.
He sounds like the right person for you. You need to tell him how you feel and your concerns. Maybe if you two sat down talked you will be able to work whatever issues you are having.
Tell him how you feel. This isn't some high school romance where in five years it won't matter that you broke up. It sounds like he is a great guy and if age and religion are your only concerns, they are minor things. It sounds like you get along great otherwise... Age is nothing but a number sweetie, if he's this great as young as his is, I'm sure it will only get better as he gets older. Religion is tough, I'm protestant and my boyfriend is Catholic and it causes some problems when we start talking about a wedding or children, but since he's not active in church, it might be easier for you to talk to him about your religion. Help him find God in his life, just imagine how awesome that would be to give him that experience. It sounds like God has been good to you, because you got through the depression, that's awesome! And you said that God wouldn't come and make everything alright, but then you met this guy. Doesn't that say to you that he's an angel sent to you? The best thing you can do before jumping to the conclusion of leaving him is talking to him and telling him all of this. If he feels that he won't be able to give you what you want [marriage and a family] in the future, then you shouldn't be together.
Just be honest with him. If it is 'genuine' true love, waiting and being apart can only mature the relationship and each will grow. . . and if it is meant to be...you will be together...
If not, you will not be. Better to find out now before the marriage - kids - etc.
good luck to you both
you're kidding girl....he's the angel sent by GOD to help you survive through...its fate that you guys meet and fall in love...
talk to him about it.serious. thats a prob that both of you must solve it together...
get a grip....!!!good luck..
The Bilble says that you shouldn't date non christians. But seeing as how you already are, the Bible also says that if you are married to someone who isn't a christian, you shouldn't divorce them. You are the light in their lives and the way God can reach them and work on them through you. Talk to him about how you feel and also maybe schedule an appointment with your pastor and him and dicuss it in a group setting.windows live skin rash
just do it and get it over with so he can find someone that loves himHow can I find the courage and the heart to break up with my boyfriend?
tell him face to face that hes just not good enough and that the two of you need to start seeing other people.
If things were the reverse, believe me he will not be so concerned about you and your feelings. Most men are like that, they only care about themselves and their immediate needs and that is it.
By reading your comments, I think that you don`t love him but it looks like you have a lot of emotional needs and he provides that for you; he makes you feel good because he loves you. When you really love someone, there is nothing in life that will stop you from loving him/her not even religion, your mother, grandmother, the king, queen,death,God etc!
Today, call him and let him know that you are no longer interested on dating him. Let him know that you are having problems within yourself and that dating is complicating your life. Tell him all the good things about him and that he deserves someone better than you, someone with her feets on earth, a person that is not focused on her needs only. (no one is sure of what their partner will be tomorrow, let alone 5-10 Years!)
The longer you keep your feelings from him. the more pain you will be causing to this man. So be strong and face reality.
Good Luck
You havn't said why you want to break up with him...unless it's because you both have different religious beliefs. You have also said your boyfriend has made you feel like a beautiful person* and has helped you in many ways....so why is it you want to break it off??
no one can be sure what the future holds...what a person will be like in 5-10yrs.......it's all about what choices you make along the way. you said he's 22...you didn't mention how old you are....but at this stage..in your life.....only You can decide what's best for you and your future. If you don't see yourself with this person you need to be honest with them . Bestwishes*
This is not an insult or to make it sound like you are crazy. But it seems to me that you have a lot of conflicting thoughts, feelings and emotions. You might do well seeing a therapist to help you sort out what and why these things are. This is very common and my strongest most confident girl friends all have been to the shrink at one time or another. I marry many interfaith couples and they are wonderful! So religion isn't as big an issue as it sounds. After all if love is divinely inspired then it's not a matter of yes or no but only how. If you have a good man. Make sure you understand the things within yourself that are making you think of throwing him away.
In opening ones self up to being vulnerable it sometimes looks easier to never step into the ring. If you never give all of your heart it will never be broken. But never to know pain or sorrow in ones life would be to live a life that was never blessed with anything worth while.
Yahoo is no substitute for a good therapist.
22 is young for a man (sorry guys). You don't mention your age which is probably not relevant anyway. Hate to say it but the west does put rather too much emphasis on age while ignoring the real issues relating to the relationship itself.
Forgive me for asking but I don't see the relationship between faith and the desire to live. If life were not meaningful in its own right then what have we to thank god for?
Marriage is always going to have a risk factor. There are way too many distractions in life for even same-age, same-faith and same-background couples. That does not mean the relationship is doomed. Love is something we need to learn to do...not just people but also the things they are and do.
Even showing a little interest in (say) a hobby of his that you might detest can make a difference. 'I hate this but just want to be with you' situation. He may not go to church but doesn't complain about your faith and doesn't ask you to do anything that would compromise you.....Get him involved at a 'no commit' level and give him time to think about why its important to you.
He makes you feel like beautiful person. God's answer perhaps? Not for me to say and maybe not for you to know until you celebrate your 25th anniversary together. Be happy, take your time and give yourselves time.
You are confused, Is not that he is not ready, it is YOU the one that is not ready. If you wonder how life would be without him, go on a trial separation and see.
Good luck
I think you should ask yourself whether you want to be alone or not. Maybe this caring,gorgeous young man is actually what you really need. Do you really think that you will find another who is so committed yo you. And young is good,22 is certainly not too young if you're thinking babies.
talk to him about whether he's ready or not.
So why do you want to leave him? Think the grass is greener somewhere else? or is it your concern about the conflict of religions? You can overcome any obstacle if you think it's worth your time.
OK, I wonder how old you are?? And why is it that ';Christians'; always do this... they always date non-Christians and then dump them when the church doesn't agree. Just let the poor guy go.... he'll be better off.
He sounds like the right person for you. You need to tell him how you feel and your concerns. Maybe if you two sat down talked you will be able to work whatever issues you are having.
Tell him how you feel. This isn't some high school romance where in five years it won't matter that you broke up. It sounds like he is a great guy and if age and religion are your only concerns, they are minor things. It sounds like you get along great otherwise... Age is nothing but a number sweetie, if he's this great as young as his is, I'm sure it will only get better as he gets older. Religion is tough, I'm protestant and my boyfriend is Catholic and it causes some problems when we start talking about a wedding or children, but since he's not active in church, it might be easier for you to talk to him about your religion. Help him find God in his life, just imagine how awesome that would be to give him that experience. It sounds like God has been good to you, because you got through the depression, that's awesome! And you said that God wouldn't come and make everything alright, but then you met this guy. Doesn't that say to you that he's an angel sent to you? The best thing you can do before jumping to the conclusion of leaving him is talking to him and telling him all of this. If he feels that he won't be able to give you what you want [marriage and a family] in the future, then you shouldn't be together.
Just be honest with him. If it is 'genuine' true love, waiting and being apart can only mature the relationship and each will grow. . . and if it is meant to be...you will be together...
If not, you will not be. Better to find out now before the marriage - kids - etc.
good luck to you both
you're kidding girl....he's the angel sent by GOD to help you survive through...its fate that you guys meet and fall in love...
talk to him about it.serious. thats a prob that both of you must solve it together...
get a grip....!!!good luck..
The Bilble says that you shouldn't date non christians. But seeing as how you already are, the Bible also says that if you are married to someone who isn't a christian, you shouldn't divorce them. You are the light in their lives and the way God can reach them and work on them through you. Talk to him about how you feel and also maybe schedule an appointment with your pastor and him and dicuss it in a group setting.
What is the best way to break up with a boyfriend?
i go with this guy, and i now feel like i shouldnt. he is ugly and short. i also dont like that he wants to take things further like tounge kissing and sex. i just want to be alone, with no boyfriend for a while. but this dude says he loves me and reallly cares for me. how do i break it off?What is the best way to break up with a boyfriend?
Just tell him that your relationship is not going anywhere an tell him that you and him should move on to other things and go your seperate ways.What is the best way to break up with a boyfriend?
Be honest with him, and then both of you part company and go on with your lives.
Sounds like you shouldn'tve dated this guy in the first place since you hate ugly, short guys. Just be straightforward with him, in a calm and nice way and tell him that you don't think this relationship's gonna work out afterall and you want to break up. Try not to hurt his feelings or insult him.
You just described my boyfried!!!! but I love him and I want to be with him the rest of my life. Since that's not your case... Just tell him that you want to be by yourself for a while and that you want to focus on school or something like that... Good Luck!
Change your address and tell your friends and family to tell him your dead.
if u think hes ugly and short why did u go out with him in the first place
it sounds to me that u just are making excuses becasue u probably saw a really hott guy somewhere and you want to break this relationship off to get with another...
if u break up with him and tell him hes ugly never expect a friendship to come up from that and it would be really mean
you should just talk it out
tell him that you think he cares for you more then you do for him and that scares you more and more everyday because the more he cares the more you could hurt him so you need to be alone for awhile to figure your self out
If you have made up your mind, be blunt with him. If he is not a gentleman, leave town for sometime for him to cool down.
Just tell him that your relationship is not going anywhere an tell him that you and him should move on to other things and go your seperate ways.What is the best way to break up with a boyfriend?
Be honest with him, and then both of you part company and go on with your lives.
Sounds like you shouldn'tve dated this guy in the first place since you hate ugly, short guys. Just be straightforward with him, in a calm and nice way and tell him that you don't think this relationship's gonna work out afterall and you want to break up. Try not to hurt his feelings or insult him.
You just described my boyfried!!!! but I love him and I want to be with him the rest of my life. Since that's not your case... Just tell him that you want to be by yourself for a while and that you want to focus on school or something like that... Good Luck!
Change your address and tell your friends and family to tell him your dead.
if u think hes ugly and short why did u go out with him in the first place
it sounds to me that u just are making excuses becasue u probably saw a really hott guy somewhere and you want to break this relationship off to get with another...
if u break up with him and tell him hes ugly never expect a friendship to come up from that and it would be really mean
you should just talk it out
tell him that you think he cares for you more then you do for him and that scares you more and more everyday because the more he cares the more you could hurt him so you need to be alone for awhile to figure your self out
If you have made up your mind, be blunt with him. If he is not a gentleman, leave town for sometime for him to cool down.
How should I break up with my boyfriend?
I've only been going out with him for a few days, but I only said yes because I was surprised and I had no idea what to say. I really don't like him at all actually but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Can you tell me exactly what to say, when I should say it, like at lunch? in class? on the way to class? and would it be bad to say it in front of other people? thank you (:How should I break up with my boyfriend?
be lik um it not gonna work out between us can we just be friends
be lik um it not gonna work out between us can we just be friends
How to sabotage my friends relationship to break up with her boyfriend?
ok my friend is in a bad relationship and i had enough of her crying to me about her bf and i want to break them up how do i break them up with out her bf finding out plz give real answers plz don't tell me not to do it plzHow to sabotage my friends relationship to break up with her boyfriend?
ok you see, the way it works is....everyone is free to have their own relationships, so the best thing you can do is to worry about your own
GLHow to sabotage my friends relationship to break up with her boyfriend?
Don't. When she gets tired enough of crying and heartache, she'll break up on her own. Until then, be supportive but stay out of it. This is a learning and growing experience for her. You interfering robs her of the growth necessary to steer herself clear of these situations, and may increase the likelihood that she gets into another bad relationship in the future.
Just tell her she should break up with him. Flat out. It has to be HER decision and HER action, otherwise she's just going to keep finding jerks like him to go out with. She needs to know that it isn't right, and if you sabotage the relationship in her eyes it will be YOUR fault that her relationship is bad, not his.
Don't even try. Even if breaking up is the right thing to do, she has to decide that for herself. If you interfere, you'll look like the villain and you'll lose her friendship forever.
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Giving thumbs down to everyone who says it's a bad idea isn't going to make it okay.
Who are you to sabotage any one's relationship? If you can't handle her relationship issues, set some boundaries. If she wants to break up with her boyfriend is her choice, not yours.
talk to her, if it's a bad relationship she needs to get out of it. tell her that she needs to get out if it's really that bad.
She can do it herself and break up with HER boyfriend herself. Tell her to fo that. It's her problem really. Trust me.
good luck x
just frick him ur self
ok you see, the way it works is....everyone is free to have their own relationships, so the best thing you can do is to worry about your own
GLHow to sabotage my friends relationship to break up with her boyfriend?
Don't. When she gets tired enough of crying and heartache, she'll break up on her own. Until then, be supportive but stay out of it. This is a learning and growing experience for her. You interfering robs her of the growth necessary to steer herself clear of these situations, and may increase the likelihood that she gets into another bad relationship in the future.
Just tell her she should break up with him. Flat out. It has to be HER decision and HER action, otherwise she's just going to keep finding jerks like him to go out with. She needs to know that it isn't right, and if you sabotage the relationship in her eyes it will be YOUR fault that her relationship is bad, not his.
Don't even try. Even if breaking up is the right thing to do, she has to decide that for herself. If you interfere, you'll look like the villain and you'll lose her friendship forever.
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Giving thumbs down to everyone who says it's a bad idea isn't going to make it okay.
Who are you to sabotage any one's relationship? If you can't handle her relationship issues, set some boundaries. If she wants to break up with her boyfriend is her choice, not yours.
talk to her, if it's a bad relationship she needs to get out of it. tell her that she needs to get out if it's really that bad.
She can do it herself and break up with HER boyfriend herself. Tell her to fo that. It's her problem really. Trust me.
good luck x
just frick him ur self
Should i break up with my boyfriend?
Our relationship used to be great, however, he lives an hour and a half away so i need to talk to him via text/msn often, however, the chats nowadays are very short, and he never comes on msn anymore either. What's going on? He claims he loves me but how can that be if he's making no effort? Should i break up with him? I love him but this is becoming such a hassle. Help!Should i break up with my boyfriend?
you need to talk to him about it first. ask him why he's never on msn and why the chats are always so short. if he doesn't give you a good reason, say goodbye!Should i break up with my boyfriend?
Long distance relationships are not easy. Especially if you are young. Do you guys get to see each other often? You should try talking on the phone with each other. Communocation is important in a long distance relationship. Maybe the distance is putting a strain on the relationship. And sometimes relationships turn dull because the inital excitement is not there. Talk to him via phone and ask him whats really going on. He may be going through something that you are unaware of. You never know.
distance can be really tough in a relationship...it takes two really strong, committed people to keep this type of relationship healthy....if he truly loves you he would not only say it but show it through his actions by communicating with you or visiting you as much as possible...my advice is to try and talk and work things out first and if that doesn't solve anything then you should end this relationship
well in my opinion you need to sit down and talk to him when you can. not over text or email. if you cant be in person then you need to talk to him verbally on the phone and tell him what you think is wrong. relationships get stronger when you talk about things. that is what i do and my relationship is going great. Maybe he is just busy with family. It will all unfold in the conversation that you have with him. I don't think breaking up right away would be the best solution if you love him. if he says something stupid or he studdarsand doesnt know what he is talking about...then most likely he is lieing. thats all i can tell you but good luck.
Well, only you can answer that. If you truly love him you won't break up with him, however maybe you don't really truly love him from the bottom of your heart so you should break up with him and find someone who cares more and lives closer etc.
Well,think of it like this: If you really love him and think that he loves you,then is it maybe worth going to see him once or twice a week?
If thats a hassle then speak to him on the phone regullarly and have a real conversation.
do both of you have computers? if so go on a cyber date
you could do, it's up to you!
i cant beleive you are asking complete strangers if you should brake up with him
at the end of the day, its up to you
good luck
if he has a good reason to not talk to you, that's understandable. like if he's working or if his family member is ill or something like that. but if he's just playing video games, hanging out with his stupid friends, or just plain ignoring you, you could dump him. if you love someone, you always have time for them no matter what.
Long distance relationships rarely work out. Being faithful to one another is a forgotten practice.
you need to talk to him about it first. ask him why he's never on msn and why the chats are always so short. if he doesn't give you a good reason, say goodbye!Should i break up with my boyfriend?
Long distance relationships are not easy. Especially if you are young. Do you guys get to see each other often? You should try talking on the phone with each other. Communocation is important in a long distance relationship. Maybe the distance is putting a strain on the relationship. And sometimes relationships turn dull because the inital excitement is not there. Talk to him via phone and ask him whats really going on. He may be going through something that you are unaware of. You never know.
distance can be really tough in a relationship...it takes two really strong, committed people to keep this type of relationship healthy....if he truly loves you he would not only say it but show it through his actions by communicating with you or visiting you as much as possible...my advice is to try and talk and work things out first and if that doesn't solve anything then you should end this relationship
well in my opinion you need to sit down and talk to him when you can. not over text or email. if you cant be in person then you need to talk to him verbally on the phone and tell him what you think is wrong. relationships get stronger when you talk about things. that is what i do and my relationship is going great. Maybe he is just busy with family. It will all unfold in the conversation that you have with him. I don't think breaking up right away would be the best solution if you love him. if he says something stupid or he studdarsand doesnt know what he is talking about...then most likely he is lieing. thats all i can tell you but good luck.
Well, only you can answer that. If you truly love him you won't break up with him, however maybe you don't really truly love him from the bottom of your heart so you should break up with him and find someone who cares more and lives closer etc.
Well,think of it like this: If you really love him and think that he loves you,then is it maybe worth going to see him once or twice a week?
If thats a hassle then speak to him on the phone regullarly and have a real conversation.
do both of you have computers? if so go on a cyber date
you could do, it's up to you!
i cant beleive you are asking complete strangers if you should brake up with him
at the end of the day, its up to you
good luck
if he has a good reason to not talk to you, that's understandable. like if he's working or if his family member is ill or something like that. but if he's just playing video games, hanging out with his stupid friends, or just plain ignoring you, you could dump him. if you love someone, you always have time for them no matter what.
Long distance relationships rarely work out. Being faithful to one another is a forgotten practice.
How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
I don't need to know how i should. Just how do you?
A) Text
B) Have someone else do it for you
C) Over the phone
D) In person
E) Note
F) Myspace, Facebook, IM ect.
G) Just dont talk to them
H) Some other way
Put the letter and answer please
( This is a bit like a poll)
PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY(:How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
do it IN PERSON!!! if you are going to break someone's heart do it FACE TO FACE, and don't stay to see the mess, just do it, and take it out of your heart, and tell the truth, and make sure to end it!!How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
D) In person
Every other option is just rude and gutless.
G
C) have someone else do it for me
In person, its better if you at least give him respect and say it infront of his face
in person
D.) In person
Hands down in person. Everything else is too hurtful, detached and humiliating. Whenever you think about questions like these and dnt know whats the best way to go, just think what would you prefer. And you will see though all of the options will hurt the other person only one of them is decent. Good Luck.
There is no painless way, but the best way is to do it face to face, and be honest. A lie will always surface, and at least after the anger and hurt subside, there will still be respect and trust which is, above all.
honestly, i know theres gonna be a lotta critisism for this, but i would say A.) text, because i find that that person can cry, or scream, or be upset and they still in theyre mind feel good in knowing the person that broke up with them never saw them broken if they were. hope i helped :)
d) tell them face to face is the only way on there besides stuff little kids would do
A) Text
B) Have someone else do it for you
C) Over the phone
D) In person
E) Note
F) Myspace, Facebook, IM ect.
G) Just dont talk to them
H) Some other way
Put the letter and answer please
( This is a bit like a poll)
PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY(:How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
do it IN PERSON!!! if you are going to break someone's heart do it FACE TO FACE, and don't stay to see the mess, just do it, and take it out of your heart, and tell the truth, and make sure to end it!!How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
D) In person
Every other option is just rude and gutless.
G
C) have someone else do it for me
In person, its better if you at least give him respect and say it infront of his face
in person
D.) In person
Hands down in person. Everything else is too hurtful, detached and humiliating. Whenever you think about questions like these and dnt know whats the best way to go, just think what would you prefer. And you will see though all of the options will hurt the other person only one of them is decent. Good Luck.
There is no painless way, but the best way is to do it face to face, and be honest. A lie will always surface, and at least after the anger and hurt subside, there will still be respect and trust which is, above all.
honestly, i know theres gonna be a lotta critisism for this, but i would say A.) text, because i find that that person can cry, or scream, or be upset and they still in theyre mind feel good in knowing the person that broke up with them never saw them broken if they were. hope i helped :)
d) tell them face to face is the only way on there besides stuff little kids would do
How can i break up with my boyfriend?
So we've been dating for 6 months %26amp; nothing is really ';wrong'; but i wanna be able to be with other people. I mean i know that sounds wrong but i don't know if i am really into it anymore. I really don't know what to say because i guess i really don't have a reason to.How can i break up with my boyfriend?
just dump him, put him out of his miseryHow can i break up with my boyfriend?
i felt the same way with a kid i was dating he was so sweet but i just kinda got bored of him after 8 months, i just felt like i got 2 know him and i wanted 2 move on and get 2 know some1 else also. so just say it 2 him. itd b best 2 do it in person cuz txt or over the phone is shitty feeling. itll b hard 2 look him in the face and say it but u just gotta go 4 it like a bandaid and ripping it off. tell him u just want 2 date other people not to b mean or anything. and that theres nothing wrong with him u just wanna move on and ud like 2 stay friends if it was possible. leave it at that cuz its nothing more or less. good luck cuz thats a horrible thing 2 do 2 some1 sweet and that likes u but u want 2 b happy and u should b able 2. so good luck and go with ur heart!!!
If breaking up with people is going to become a pattern with you, than you better do it the nice way.
Do not blame him for anything. Do not belittle him, or make fun of him, or say anything that would make him think he's done something wrong.
Tell the truth. And the truth is : you are not ready for a relationship.
You'd like to break up.
But then, don't go out with anyone new for at least 6 more months.
Because I really don't think you are ready for serious dating yet.
And you're only going to be breaking everyone's heart if you keep dating, and dumping.
Well, just explain that you feel too young to be in a serious, exclusive relationship. That's 'bout all you can honestly do.
have sex with him and when hes about to *** just leave
Say the spark isn't there anymore
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
say, im really sry but its not working outh
be honest, be nice and just tell him your feelings are changing and its not fair to him for you two to stay together if you arnt giving it your all like he is anymore.
At least you're not cheating. Just say ';sorry but I think we should see other people';, there you go.
well tell him u need some time out..
say it face to face and tell him u really think its good that u see other people. make sure you have the whole ';just friends'; thing down so he isnt hurt
Be honest about it, don't just give him an excuse, my girlfriend just broke up with me saying that she needs to find out who she is. That really hurts because it makes me wonder what the real reason is. Just tell him you are sorry but you don't have anymore romantic feelings for him, and stick to your decision. Just make sure you're 100% sure.
Just tell him that you too are drifting apart. But do it in person and in private. Don't call him on the phone, or text him. He deserves the respect of doing it in person. Also, don't tell him that you want to see other people either. Just tell him that you feel that you two have drifted apart.
Say something along the lines of; ';Hey can we talk?'; (That will prepare them for what's coming next) Take them someplace where it's just you and him. Now say ';Things have been great, we have had a lot of great memories together, and I don't regret anything. But we're young, and part of being young is exploring and getting used to the opposite sex better. If we just spend all of our time together how are we supposed to know what is right and wrong? I think it would be better if we just remain friends as of right now, you know.. see other people?'; Some corny bull**** like that. Best of Luck!!! Lmfao....
you can't think about it. you just have to do it. stop leading the guy on.
Slip out the back Jack, make a new plan Stan, no need to be coy Roy, just get yourself FREE.windows live skin rash
just dump him, put him out of his miseryHow can i break up with my boyfriend?
i felt the same way with a kid i was dating he was so sweet but i just kinda got bored of him after 8 months, i just felt like i got 2 know him and i wanted 2 move on and get 2 know some1 else also. so just say it 2 him. itd b best 2 do it in person cuz txt or over the phone is shitty feeling. itll b hard 2 look him in the face and say it but u just gotta go 4 it like a bandaid and ripping it off. tell him u just want 2 date other people not to b mean or anything. and that theres nothing wrong with him u just wanna move on and ud like 2 stay friends if it was possible. leave it at that cuz its nothing more or less. good luck cuz thats a horrible thing 2 do 2 some1 sweet and that likes u but u want 2 b happy and u should b able 2. so good luck and go with ur heart!!!
If breaking up with people is going to become a pattern with you, than you better do it the nice way.
Do not blame him for anything. Do not belittle him, or make fun of him, or say anything that would make him think he's done something wrong.
Tell the truth. And the truth is : you are not ready for a relationship.
You'd like to break up.
But then, don't go out with anyone new for at least 6 more months.
Because I really don't think you are ready for serious dating yet.
And you're only going to be breaking everyone's heart if you keep dating, and dumping.
Well, just explain that you feel too young to be in a serious, exclusive relationship. That's 'bout all you can honestly do.
have sex with him and when hes about to *** just leave
Say the spark isn't there anymore
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
say, im really sry but its not working outh
be honest, be nice and just tell him your feelings are changing and its not fair to him for you two to stay together if you arnt giving it your all like he is anymore.
At least you're not cheating. Just say ';sorry but I think we should see other people';, there you go.
well tell him u need some time out..
say it face to face and tell him u really think its good that u see other people. make sure you have the whole ';just friends'; thing down so he isnt hurt
Be honest about it, don't just give him an excuse, my girlfriend just broke up with me saying that she needs to find out who she is. That really hurts because it makes me wonder what the real reason is. Just tell him you are sorry but you don't have anymore romantic feelings for him, and stick to your decision. Just make sure you're 100% sure.
Just tell him that you too are drifting apart. But do it in person and in private. Don't call him on the phone, or text him. He deserves the respect of doing it in person. Also, don't tell him that you want to see other people either. Just tell him that you feel that you two have drifted apart.
Say something along the lines of; ';Hey can we talk?'; (That will prepare them for what's coming next) Take them someplace where it's just you and him. Now say ';Things have been great, we have had a lot of great memories together, and I don't regret anything. But we're young, and part of being young is exploring and getting used to the opposite sex better. If we just spend all of our time together how are we supposed to know what is right and wrong? I think it would be better if we just remain friends as of right now, you know.. see other people?'; Some corny bull**** like that. Best of Luck!!! Lmfao....
you can't think about it. you just have to do it. stop leading the guy on.
Slip out the back Jack, make a new plan Stan, no need to be coy Roy, just get yourself FREE.
How to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
i had feelings for him, but now i dont. please help just an easy way to break up?How to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
the best way, although this seems harsh is to meet up, have a small convo and then tell him straight off, it just hurts more if you beat about the bush as he will know what is coming and it just makes that gutted/worried feeling last a lot longer than it needs toHow to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore,he might be hurt whatever you say but there`s no point in going out with him out of pity.the sooner you dump him the sooner both of you can get on with your life's!
the best way, although this seems harsh is to meet up, have a small convo and then tell him straight off, it just hurts more if you beat about the bush as he will know what is coming and it just makes that gutted/worried feeling last a lot longer than it needs toHow to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore,he might be hurt whatever you say but there`s no point in going out with him out of pity.the sooner you dump him the sooner both of you can get on with your life's!
How to break up with my boyfriend?
My bf and i been goin out for like six months and all he does is hang out with his friends not me and i have a lot goin on in my life so the last thing i need rite now is a bf anyway i want to break up with him without hurting his feelingsHow to break up with my boyfriend?
Just tell him exactly that!! you have alot going on in your life and you dont feel like there is room for a seriose relationship in your life right now ... you need to find yourself and it wouldnt be fair to hold him back!How to break up with my boyfriend?
sweetie...just be honest with him...there is no way around that..
that best thing you can do is be honest..gently tell him what you admired most about him from the beginning and then let him know how things have changed due to the lack of time in the relationship
honesty is really the best way to go
so he spends more time with his friends than you, so u do same ,slowly what u want will be done, yeah i can understand its hard to breakup suddenly, telling u with experince. do it slowly and take it easy, dont be too qucik ,if u do so it will hurt u both.
tell him you need some time apart and make it clear to him that you have some trouble in your life that you have to deal with first
Be Honest! And tell him the reason u cant be with him. If he really liked you hes gonna get hurt either way but its better for you to do what you want and not compromise your happiness for some1 else.
sit him down one day and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now and tell him he doesnt treat you like an actual girlfriend.
just tell him flat out, what is bothering you and give him another chance. but tell him in a calm way.
Just tell him exactly that!! you have alot going on in your life and you dont feel like there is room for a seriose relationship in your life right now ... you need to find yourself and it wouldnt be fair to hold him back!How to break up with my boyfriend?
sweetie...just be honest with him...there is no way around that..
that best thing you can do is be honest..gently tell him what you admired most about him from the beginning and then let him know how things have changed due to the lack of time in the relationship
honesty is really the best way to go
so he spends more time with his friends than you, so u do same ,slowly what u want will be done, yeah i can understand its hard to breakup suddenly, telling u with experince. do it slowly and take it easy, dont be too qucik ,if u do so it will hurt u both.
tell him you need some time apart and make it clear to him that you have some trouble in your life that you have to deal with first
Be Honest! And tell him the reason u cant be with him. If he really liked you hes gonna get hurt either way but its better for you to do what you want and not compromise your happiness for some1 else.
sit him down one day and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now and tell him he doesnt treat you like an actual girlfriend.
just tell him flat out, what is bothering you and give him another chance. but tell him in a calm way.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
My ex broke up with me because his parents found out he was gay. Now that he's worked out things, and his family has accepted him, more. he wants to date me again, and as do I. In this brief of time , I started dating another guy. I'm now know for sure i want to be with the first guy. I'm just unsure how the best way to break up with him, since he's unreachable by phone except for testing. I may be able to do it on line, but exactly do i say?
53 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.
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2 minutes ago
Ok, I'm absolutely in love with the first guy, I know for sure that he's the one that i want to spend the rest of my life. The whole testing part is because he lives over 200 miles away. i'd love to confront in person, but he won't be moving here till another 2 weeks. i 'm not sure if we can be roommates if i break up with him, that's we were looking for. The first guy hurt me the first time, only because of the situation with his parents. He said that he still loves me, even when we broke up the first time. i didn't mean to give the impression of manipulation to the second guy, we met when i was in an emotional time after our relationship ended. Very My head tells me go for that first guy, that's he's the one. We've completed marriage plans, i hope that makes you guys see how deep I feel committed to the first guy.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
Good Luck
MO
53 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.
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2 minutes ago
Ok, I'm absolutely in love with the first guy, I know for sure that he's the one that i want to spend the rest of my life. The whole testing part is because he lives over 200 miles away. i'd love to confront in person, but he won't be moving here till another 2 weeks. i 'm not sure if we can be roommates if i break up with him, that's we were looking for. The first guy hurt me the first time, only because of the situation with his parents. He said that he still loves me, even when we broke up the first time. i didn't mean to give the impression of manipulation to the second guy, we met when i was in an emotional time after our relationship ended. Very My head tells me go for that first guy, that's he's the one. We've completed marriage plans, i hope that makes you guys see how deep I feel committed to the first guy.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
Good Luck
MO
How to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
i had feelings for him, but now i dont. please help just an easy way to break up?How to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
the best way, although this seems harsh is to meet up, have a small convo and then tell him straight off, it just hurts more if you beat about the bush as he will know what is coming and it just makes that gutted/worried feeling last a lot longer than it needs toHow to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore,he might be hurt whatever you say but there`s no point in going out with him out of pity.the sooner you dump him the sooner both of you can get on with your life's!
the best way, although this seems harsh is to meet up, have a small convo and then tell him straight off, it just hurts more if you beat about the bush as he will know what is coming and it just makes that gutted/worried feeling last a lot longer than it needs toHow to break up with my boyfriend so it doesnt hurt him badly?
just tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore,he might be hurt whatever you say but there`s no point in going out with him out of pity.the sooner you dump him the sooner both of you can get on with your life's!
How to break up with my boyfriend?
My bf and i been goin out for like six months and all he does is hang out with his friends not me and i have a lot goin on in my life so the last thing i need rite now is a bf anyway i want to break up with him without hurting his feelingsHow to break up with my boyfriend?
Just tell him exactly that!! you have alot going on in your life and you dont feel like there is room for a seriose relationship in your life right now ... you need to find yourself and it wouldnt be fair to hold him back!How to break up with my boyfriend?
sweetie...just be honest with him...there is no way around that..
that best thing you can do is be honest..gently tell him what you admired most about him from the beginning and then let him know how things have changed due to the lack of time in the relationship
honesty is really the best way to go
so he spends more time with his friends than you, so u do same ,slowly what u want will be done, yeah i can understand its hard to breakup suddenly, telling u with experince. do it slowly and take it easy, dont be too qucik ,if u do so it will hurt u both.
tell him you need some time apart and make it clear to him that you have some trouble in your life that you have to deal with first
Be Honest! And tell him the reason u cant be with him. If he really liked you hes gonna get hurt either way but its better for you to do what you want and not compromise your happiness for some1 else.
sit him down one day and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now and tell him he doesnt treat you like an actual girlfriend.
just tell him flat out, what is bothering you and give him another chance. but tell him in a calm way.
Just tell him exactly that!! you have alot going on in your life and you dont feel like there is room for a seriose relationship in your life right now ... you need to find yourself and it wouldnt be fair to hold him back!How to break up with my boyfriend?
sweetie...just be honest with him...there is no way around that..
that best thing you can do is be honest..gently tell him what you admired most about him from the beginning and then let him know how things have changed due to the lack of time in the relationship
honesty is really the best way to go
so he spends more time with his friends than you, so u do same ,slowly what u want will be done, yeah i can understand its hard to breakup suddenly, telling u with experince. do it slowly and take it easy, dont be too qucik ,if u do so it will hurt u both.
tell him you need some time apart and make it clear to him that you have some trouble in your life that you have to deal with first
Be Honest! And tell him the reason u cant be with him. If he really liked you hes gonna get hurt either way but its better for you to do what you want and not compromise your happiness for some1 else.
sit him down one day and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now and tell him he doesnt treat you like an actual girlfriend.
just tell him flat out, what is bothering you and give him another chance. but tell him in a calm way.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
My ex broke up with me because his parents found out he was gay. Now that he's worked out things, and his family has accepted him, more. he wants to date me again, and as do I. In this brief of time , I started dating another guy. I'm now know for sure i want to be with the first guy. I'm just unsure how the best way to break up with him, since he's unreachable by phone except for testing. I may be able to do it on line, but exactly do i say?
53 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.
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2 minutes ago
Ok, I'm absolutely in love with the first guy, I know for sure that he's the one that i want to spend the rest of my life. The whole testing part is because he lives over 200 miles away. i'd love to confront in person, but he won't be moving here till another 2 weeks. i 'm not sure if we can be roommates if i break up with him, that's we were looking for. The first guy hurt me the first time, only because of the situation with his parents. He said that he still loves me, even when we broke up the first time. i didn't mean to give the impression of manipulation to the second guy, we met when i was in an emotional time after our relationship ended. Very My head tells me go for that first guy, that's he's the one. We've completed marriage plans, i hope that makes you guys see how deep I feel committed to the first guy.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
Good Luck
MOwindows live skin rash
53 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.
Additional Details
2 minutes ago
Ok, I'm absolutely in love with the first guy, I know for sure that he's the one that i want to spend the rest of my life. The whole testing part is because he lives over 200 miles away. i'd love to confront in person, but he won't be moving here till another 2 weeks. i 'm not sure if we can be roommates if i break up with him, that's we were looking for. The first guy hurt me the first time, only because of the situation with his parents. He said that he still loves me, even when we broke up the first time. i didn't mean to give the impression of manipulation to the second guy, we met when i was in an emotional time after our relationship ended. Very My head tells me go for that first guy, that's he's the one. We've completed marriage plans, i hope that makes you guys see how deep I feel committed to the first guy.
How is the easiest way to break up with my boyfriend?
Good Luck
MO
How ridiculous is it to temporarily ';break up'; with a boyfriend during Ramadan?
I know a lot of people doing this and I'm just like wow do they not see the hypocrisy in that? Like after Ramadan it's going to be back to the old sinning days. How ridiculous is it to temporarily ';break up'; with a boyfriend during Ramadan?
True, May Allah guide such people~!How ridiculous is it to temporarily ';break up'; with a boyfriend during Ramadan?
Ekh, will religious people ever stop disproving of other people's life all the time? I mean you don't see secular people telling you to stop practising your faith every time they see you, now, do you?
like you say hun, what can you do? except hope and pray that they see the light during ramadan, and get some benefit from it rather than just wishing it was over so they can get back to their ways.
xx
I totally agree, people give up alot of stuff during Ramadan which they shouldn't be doing in the first place then once Ramadan is over they go back to their old sinning ways. Crazy.
It all really depends on the country he is from. for us moroccan people can date and everyone knows about it just like here :D
If he is really nice then get back with him.
I'm still with my boyfriend and its ramadan/
having ';boyfriends'; and dating is not allowed in islam... so technically you can't break up or get back together... it's a great big sin
I wish I could tell em, but then again, i'm not a perfect muslim either. I mean I don't date lol, but I have no right to judge them. Allah does, =)
Silly wabbits!
One thing to call them:
Seasonal Muslims.
have a better knowledge of Islam
it's rediculous that their muslims and dating .. common i lived in the UK too .. didn't have to date guys ...
crushes was allowed .. but we never dated and all that (';.)
weird
keep *****ing no problems at all. old times are over.
where it happens ?
tell me lol
True, May Allah guide such people~!How ridiculous is it to temporarily ';break up'; with a boyfriend during Ramadan?
Ekh, will religious people ever stop disproving of other people's life all the time? I mean you don't see secular people telling you to stop practising your faith every time they see you, now, do you?
like you say hun, what can you do? except hope and pray that they see the light during ramadan, and get some benefit from it rather than just wishing it was over so they can get back to their ways.
xx
I totally agree, people give up alot of stuff during Ramadan which they shouldn't be doing in the first place then once Ramadan is over they go back to their old sinning ways. Crazy.
It all really depends on the country he is from. for us moroccan people can date and everyone knows about it just like here :D
If he is really nice then get back with him.
I'm still with my boyfriend and its ramadan/
having ';boyfriends'; and dating is not allowed in islam... so technically you can't break up or get back together... it's a great big sin
I wish I could tell em, but then again, i'm not a perfect muslim either. I mean I don't date lol, but I have no right to judge them. Allah does, =)
Silly wabbits!
One thing to call them:
Seasonal Muslims.
have a better knowledge of Islam
it's rediculous that their muslims and dating .. common i lived in the UK too .. didn't have to date guys ...
crushes was allowed .. but we never dated and all that (';.)
weird
keep *****ing no problems at all. old times are over.
where it happens ?
tell me lol
How should I break up with my boyfriend?
He's a jerk and I want to say something harsh. Haha I want a good Lind that he'll remember. Ideas? Thanks!! :-DHow should I break up with my boyfriend?
less is more.
just tell him you want to end it and stop talking to him after that... it hurts a lot more knowing someone doesn't give a ****, than it does if you gave him a speech.How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Either way you will break his heart so just be honest ( which is really hard to do ) or just say things aren't working out between us
I slept with your father/brother/bestfriend. You get the idea.
That would really grind his gears.
say'; hey ur just a bigass jerk, and i dont wanna keep going out , im done so get over it!'; something like tht maybeee! i hope tht gave u some idea
If you wanna be harsh then just yell ';Stop following around me anymore. I F***ing hate you!'; in front of many people where LOTS of people can hear.
well if hes a jerk then i bet hes dont alot of stuff ad u could say something that he said back to him like 4 instince if he said that you ere boring or sometin then you could say sometin like i just dont wanna b with some 1 boring like u. but it would have 2 b a better line tho i just used that as an example
It look like you're hurt! How did you get together in first place... Ask him why he is acting like a jerk, as per your saying! Sit down face to face, tell him what you feel right now, and why. Ask him to not interrupt your talk, empty your bag, and tell him why you want to end your relation ship. You鈥檒l feel better in just minutes
less is more.
just tell him you want to end it and stop talking to him after that... it hurts a lot more knowing someone doesn't give a ****, than it does if you gave him a speech.How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Either way you will break his heart so just be honest ( which is really hard to do ) or just say things aren't working out between us
I slept with your father/brother/bestfriend. You get the idea.
That would really grind his gears.
say'; hey ur just a bigass jerk, and i dont wanna keep going out , im done so get over it!'; something like tht maybeee! i hope tht gave u some idea
If you wanna be harsh then just yell ';Stop following around me anymore. I F***ing hate you!'; in front of many people where LOTS of people can hear.
well if hes a jerk then i bet hes dont alot of stuff ad u could say something that he said back to him like 4 instince if he said that you ere boring or sometin then you could say sometin like i just dont wanna b with some 1 boring like u. but it would have 2 b a better line tho i just used that as an example
It look like you're hurt! How did you get together in first place... Ask him why he is acting like a jerk, as per your saying! Sit down face to face, tell him what you feel right now, and why. Ask him to not interrupt your talk, empty your bag, and tell him why you want to end your relation ship. You鈥檒l feel better in just minutes
How do you break up with your boyfriend?
There's no chemistry, I don't feel attracted to him and I wanna just be friends but he likes me a lot and I don't want to hurt him.How do you break up with your boyfriend?
just tell him. if he really likes you, he'll understand. If he gets mad at you, then thats his problem for not understanding
good luck!!How do you break up with your boyfriend?
She took me to dinner, paid for the dinner, then broke up with me when I was dropping her off at her house. Actually being broken up with on a full stomach and money in my wallet didn't feel all that bad. Though I was still exteremly disappointed.
I can honestly say it was the best break up I've ever had....
just say: i'm really sorry, but i think we should date other people, i think of you more as a friend, so i think it would be better if we kept it like that.
just tell him. if he really likes you, he'll understand. If he gets mad at you, then thats his problem for not understanding
good luck!!How do you break up with your boyfriend?
She took me to dinner, paid for the dinner, then broke up with me when I was dropping her off at her house. Actually being broken up with on a full stomach and money in my wallet didn't feel all that bad. Though I was still exteremly disappointed.
I can honestly say it was the best break up I've ever had....
just say: i'm really sorry, but i think we should date other people, i think of you more as a friend, so i think it would be better if we kept it like that.
How do I break up with my boyfriend?
so ive been with my boyfriend for eight months. we've done everything sexual because i like to make him feel special. three nights ago he gave me anal and started switching to my other hole (i couldnt stop him cause he was holding onto my hands while doing so). now i have a really bad infection and i think its because of him. im embaressed to go to my doctor. what would u do?How do I break up with my boyfriend?
um go to the doc! you cant walk around with an infectionHow do I break up with my boyfriend?
Tell him he was wrong to hold you down and that he basically forced himself on you and you dont want a boyfriend who does that to his girlfriend and that he has really upset you, on the other matter you really need a gp advice but till you pluck up the courage to go get some germaline or vagiseal this will keep it at bay until you get something for it and keep clean daily or you could get sore but dont risk loss of senses because your worried about going to the docs. good luck.
I don't see why this should cause you to break up?
You have to go and see the doctor - they have dealt with all of this kind of thing before and worse, so they will not be surprised. You must before it gets any worse.
I would go to the doctor and then break up with my lover for not being more careful during intercourse. Don't be embarrassed. It's the doctors job and I'm sure he's heard even more awkward stories than you can imagine.
you know that anal sex is like the worst kind. it's not built for sex, it's built to poop. go to the doctor, it could get worst.
Gay. Your name is Will and you have a boyfriend?
tell him to f off and die, or you'll call 911 on him.
um go to the doc! you cant walk around with an infectionHow do I break up with my boyfriend?
Tell him he was wrong to hold you down and that he basically forced himself on you and you dont want a boyfriend who does that to his girlfriend and that he has really upset you, on the other matter you really need a gp advice but till you pluck up the courage to go get some germaline or vagiseal this will keep it at bay until you get something for it and keep clean daily or you could get sore but dont risk loss of senses because your worried about going to the docs. good luck.
I don't see why this should cause you to break up?
You have to go and see the doctor - they have dealt with all of this kind of thing before and worse, so they will not be surprised. You must before it gets any worse.
I would go to the doctor and then break up with my lover for not being more careful during intercourse. Don't be embarrassed. It's the doctors job and I'm sure he's heard even more awkward stories than you can imagine.
you know that anal sex is like the worst kind. it's not built for sex, it's built to poop. go to the doctor, it could get worst.
Gay. Your name is Will and you have a boyfriend?
tell him to f off and die, or you'll call 911 on him.
How do i get a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with me?
okay, i met this girl in my college math class and she seems perfect for me only thing is she has a boyfriend. they have been dating for 4 months and she makes there relationship sound like its so perfect. some help please?How do i get a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with me?
If it's meant to be, she'll break up with her boyfriend on her own. Stop being so selfish.How do i get a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with me?
Ok dude if you really like this girl why would you want to do that to her? Seriously, she's happy with her boyfriend, why would you mess with that? This would have to be one of the most selfish things I've ever heard of.
Even if you did make her break up with him, what makes you think you'd be guarenteed she'd date you? And even if (given your personallity seems so selfish) she did decide to date you, how do you think she'd feel when she found out you broke her perfect relationship up with the guy she's with now? Don't be a moron, if she was perfect for you, then she'd be single or you'd end up together somewhere down the line naturally not because of anything you did to end her current relationship. End of
Move on and find someone SINGLE
Be friends with her, let her know all the good that you have but don't pretend to be what you are not. Once she has seen you as a fun, sensitive guy, invite her to a romantic place and make her feel that she is your queen, but don't do any movement yet, make her melt, and then, attack!
For a girl it is always great to know that there are men who would fight for them. Good luck!
y would u even want a girl like that i mean if u are able to make her leave her bf for u any other guy can do the same...but y dont u try making her see how much u guys have in common and the only way u can do that is to get close with her and become friends and when she has problems with her bf be her shoulder to cry on...the whole thing is evil but if u really want her no one can stop u
if shes telling you that everything is perfect then i would back off.. if she was interested in you she would be eluding otherwise. Also, don't waste your time with a girl thats going to dump her current boyfriend to be with you cause chances are she'll do the same to you too.
Wait, if you're in college then chances are her relationship won't last too long. Be a friend and make sure you're the one who is there for her when it all goes wrong. If you try and break them up i could backfire on you big time then you have no chance.
Okay...
you sound REALLY selfish. if she is happy then u should b happy for her! you cant make some1 break up w/ some1. and i wouldnt try to...u would just get her mad at u and her bf. if there relationship is perfect, why would you want to try and ruin it?
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wow find someone else im tired of ppl asking this question seriously like if they have a bf already it's sort of obvious that you have to find another girl. i mean if you were the bf of a girl would you want some guy to take your girl away???
sweetie , i don't think breaking up a relationship would be a good idea . don't be the cause of their break up .
just look for somebody else in the mean time and whenever she breaks up or you know she is single , go for her =)
Dont try and split them it will make everything disasterous, just try soending time with her, make it often and let her have a good time with you, prove yourself better, funner etc... funier.. and she may like you over him..? Just a suggestion
all i can say is wait to me it sounds like the relationship between her and her bf is not going to last. but seriously wait it will all fall into place if that is how it was ment to play out. Best of luck!
I'm not gonna be mean, but don't ruin a perfect relationship for your own needs. it's not right in my opinion. But be the 1st to get her once she breaks up with him...if she breaks up w/him.
You don't even try to break it up. Because if you try and she finds out you were involved, she will hate you in the end.
Don't be a homewrecker. How would you like some guy to come into your relationship and try and steal away your girl? Let her be happy and live out her relationship.
there is ALWAYS problems behind what seems to ba a ';perfect relationship'; but, if she really likes this guy, let him have her no matter how hard it is, think about her before yourself.
Tell her you hung out at his place one night and you found some girl's panties in his bed. Then you looked at his computer and found gay porn.
If you like her then you wont hurt her by making her and her boyfriend break up you bad @$$ loser
You don't. If she wants to be with you then she needs to grow a pair and do the breaking up herself.
IF SHE DOES IT FOR YOU .... SHE'LL DO IT TO YOU!!
We'll see you on here in a few months asking how to get over a broken heart when she dumps you for the next guy.
Oh my god you're the biggest jerk ever! You're NEVER supposed to do that!!! Omg what if she gets depressed and kills herself or something like that?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!! NO NO NO DONT EVER DO THAT THAT IS NO
Well honestly, you snooze you lose. Sorry, but she's already taken.
Put a spell on her.
If it's meant to be, she'll break up with her boyfriend on her own. Stop being so selfish.How do i get a girl to break up with her boyfriend and go out with me?
Ok dude if you really like this girl why would you want to do that to her? Seriously, she's happy with her boyfriend, why would you mess with that? This would have to be one of the most selfish things I've ever heard of.
Even if you did make her break up with him, what makes you think you'd be guarenteed she'd date you? And even if (given your personallity seems so selfish) she did decide to date you, how do you think she'd feel when she found out you broke her perfect relationship up with the guy she's with now? Don't be a moron, if she was perfect for you, then she'd be single or you'd end up together somewhere down the line naturally not because of anything you did to end her current relationship. End of
Move on and find someone SINGLE
Be friends with her, let her know all the good that you have but don't pretend to be what you are not. Once she has seen you as a fun, sensitive guy, invite her to a romantic place and make her feel that she is your queen, but don't do any movement yet, make her melt, and then, attack!
For a girl it is always great to know that there are men who would fight for them. Good luck!
y would u even want a girl like that i mean if u are able to make her leave her bf for u any other guy can do the same...but y dont u try making her see how much u guys have in common and the only way u can do that is to get close with her and become friends and when she has problems with her bf be her shoulder to cry on...the whole thing is evil but if u really want her no one can stop u
if shes telling you that everything is perfect then i would back off.. if she was interested in you she would be eluding otherwise. Also, don't waste your time with a girl thats going to dump her current boyfriend to be with you cause chances are she'll do the same to you too.
Wait, if you're in college then chances are her relationship won't last too long. Be a friend and make sure you're the one who is there for her when it all goes wrong. If you try and break them up i could backfire on you big time then you have no chance.
Okay...
you sound REALLY selfish. if she is happy then u should b happy for her! you cant make some1 break up w/ some1. and i wouldnt try to...u would just get her mad at u and her bf. if there relationship is perfect, why would you want to try and ruin it?
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wow find someone else im tired of ppl asking this question seriously like if they have a bf already it's sort of obvious that you have to find another girl. i mean if you were the bf of a girl would you want some guy to take your girl away???
sweetie , i don't think breaking up a relationship would be a good idea . don't be the cause of their break up .
just look for somebody else in the mean time and whenever she breaks up or you know she is single , go for her =)
Dont try and split them it will make everything disasterous, just try soending time with her, make it often and let her have a good time with you, prove yourself better, funner etc... funier.. and she may like you over him..? Just a suggestion
all i can say is wait to me it sounds like the relationship between her and her bf is not going to last. but seriously wait it will all fall into place if that is how it was ment to play out. Best of luck!
I'm not gonna be mean, but don't ruin a perfect relationship for your own needs. it's not right in my opinion. But be the 1st to get her once she breaks up with him...if she breaks up w/him.
You don't even try to break it up. Because if you try and she finds out you were involved, she will hate you in the end.
Don't be a homewrecker. How would you like some guy to come into your relationship and try and steal away your girl? Let her be happy and live out her relationship.
there is ALWAYS problems behind what seems to ba a ';perfect relationship'; but, if she really likes this guy, let him have her no matter how hard it is, think about her before yourself.
Tell her you hung out at his place one night and you found some girl's panties in his bed. Then you looked at his computer and found gay porn.
If you like her then you wont hurt her by making her and her boyfriend break up you bad @$$ loser
You don't. If she wants to be with you then she needs to grow a pair and do the breaking up herself.
IF SHE DOES IT FOR YOU .... SHE'LL DO IT TO YOU!!
We'll see you on here in a few months asking how to get over a broken heart when she dumps you for the next guy.
Oh my god you're the biggest jerk ever! You're NEVER supposed to do that!!! Omg what if she gets depressed and kills herself or something like that?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!! NO NO NO DONT EVER DO THAT THAT IS NO
Well honestly, you snooze you lose. Sorry, but she's already taken.
Put a spell on her.
How to break up with an amazing boyfriend?
My boyfriend %26amp; I have been together for 2 months now,he treats me so well, but i just don't feel the ';spark'; that was once there anymore. I'm so busy at work, and I just don't have time for a boyfriend right now.
How do I break up with him when I don't really have an excuse?How to break up with an amazing boyfriend?
tell him how u feel and that u kneed timeHow to break up with an amazing boyfriend?
Ouch, I was in pain reading that.. being a guy who is in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful girlfriend. I was once in your shoes.. and I know how easy (yeah) it is to dump someone who is wonderful to you when you take that person for granted. Your boyfriend is probably really too good for you right now. You just don't appreciate it because it's going too fast for your mind and because he's pampering you. But if you dump him too quickly, you may truly regret it!
My suggestion: you should call a ';time out';. He's gonna suffer to the extreme though.. so I think it's pretty merciless as he's gonna try even harder..
My suggestion for him: leave the relationship.. you're not good enough for him apparently, you are there only to cause him hurt. If truly you just don't like him anymore, then well, dumping him would actually be the honest thing to do. But if you were simply in the ego high that I was, well, I would think it twice.
cheers and good luck!
Just tell him exactly what you said in the question. ';You treat me so well, but i just don't feel the 'spark' anymore'; and add that you're busy. It's not too hard but make sure you actually want to do this and that you won't end up regretting it in a week.
Honestly tell him exactly that tell him you are sorry tell him what a great guy he is and just make sure he knows you are not in a place in life right now where you have time for a relationship.
every girl wants an amazing bf but you want to dump him?
my advice don't.
you don't appreciate him now because you still have him.
wsee what happen once he's gone.
you would regret it.
their must be 50 ways to loose your lover (all in the song seem to work)
Tell him what you wrote here.
tell him what you told us...its as simple as that
if hes as amazing as you say then he will understandwindows live skin rash
How do I break up with him when I don't really have an excuse?How to break up with an amazing boyfriend?
tell him how u feel and that u kneed timeHow to break up with an amazing boyfriend?
Ouch, I was in pain reading that.. being a guy who is in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful girlfriend. I was once in your shoes.. and I know how easy (yeah) it is to dump someone who is wonderful to you when you take that person for granted. Your boyfriend is probably really too good for you right now. You just don't appreciate it because it's going too fast for your mind and because he's pampering you. But if you dump him too quickly, you may truly regret it!
My suggestion: you should call a ';time out';. He's gonna suffer to the extreme though.. so I think it's pretty merciless as he's gonna try even harder..
My suggestion for him: leave the relationship.. you're not good enough for him apparently, you are there only to cause him hurt. If truly you just don't like him anymore, then well, dumping him would actually be the honest thing to do. But if you were simply in the ego high that I was, well, I would think it twice.
cheers and good luck!
Just tell him exactly what you said in the question. ';You treat me so well, but i just don't feel the 'spark' anymore'; and add that you're busy. It's not too hard but make sure you actually want to do this and that you won't end up regretting it in a week.
Honestly tell him exactly that tell him you are sorry tell him what a great guy he is and just make sure he knows you are not in a place in life right now where you have time for a relationship.
every girl wants an amazing bf but you want to dump him?
my advice don't.
you don't appreciate him now because you still have him.
wsee what happen once he's gone.
you would regret it.
their must be 50 ways to loose your lover (all in the song seem to work)
Tell him what you wrote here.
tell him what you told us...its as simple as that
if hes as amazing as you say then he will understand
How to break up with my boyfriend?
Okaii, well its an unpleasant situation, but I want to break up with my boyfriend.
I havee heard things that he might be seeing someone else and I have a feeling they might be true. I love him...but im not ';In love'; with him..if you get what I mean.
I'm not that good with words so I was just wondering if you could kinda help me figure out what to say..How to break up with my boyfriend?
ummm...like you need to realize if all those rumors are true.
Don't brake up with if you are confuse,,,think things outs and talk about your worries!!!
and if all fails just tell him that it's not working out :)
good luck with that!!!
I havee heard things that he might be seeing someone else and I have a feeling they might be true. I love him...but im not ';In love'; with him..if you get what I mean.
I'm not that good with words so I was just wondering if you could kinda help me figure out what to say..How to break up with my boyfriend?
ummm...like you need to realize if all those rumors are true.
Don't brake up with if you are confuse,,,think things outs and talk about your worries!!!
and if all fails just tell him that it's not working out :)
good luck with that!!!
How can I break up with my boyfriend?
We have been together for 3 years now and he lives in MY house! He insists that i do love him and that we stay together. I have not felt the same way for a very long time I want to get him out but I dont know how and I feel really guilty. I have never broken up with anyone before and we have been together for so long. It hurts me to hurt him. But I just want to move on with my life. HELP!?!?How can I break up with my boyfriend?
don't be vague about it. You may think you are ';letting him down easy'; but you're not in reality. Tell him how you really feel.How can I break up with my boyfriend?
1 tell him your too bossy were finished
2 move out or kick him out
3 chat to me on yahoo if u need any advice rjd0007@yahoo.co.uk
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Just tell him what you just wrote and say ';its my house but i want to be single now'; He cant force you or pressure you to love him. X
..h..ho..honey..its not you...its me...
just say please get out of my house. im single now so just leave.
don't be vague about it. You may think you are ';letting him down easy'; but you're not in reality. Tell him how you really feel.How can I break up with my boyfriend?
1 tell him your too bossy were finished
2 move out or kick him out
3 chat to me on yahoo if u need any advice rjd0007@yahoo.co.uk
:)
Just tell him what you just wrote and say ';its my house but i want to be single now'; He cant force you or pressure you to love him. X
..h..ho..honey..its not you...its me...
just say please get out of my house. im single now so just leave.
How do you break up with my boyfriend?
btw i am 13 years old.....and.......well i just said yes to him cuz i felt bad for him. and i now i want to break up with him. he asked me to go places with me like the movies and stuff and i said that i cant go and its true. how can i break up with him but in a nice way and also he did nothing but nice things to me. i REALLY need your help. thank you sooooooooooooooooooo much if you help. %26lt;3333333333How do you break up with my boyfriend?
oky dont wrry ive been there done that. just tell him ';i was thinking and maybe we should just be friends, i mean your the best and your really nice but it just isnt working out';. or tell him ';im sorry but this really isnt working out maybe its just time we see other people';. dont feel bad your not only helping yourself but your helping him tooGOOD LUCK:D if you need any more help then just email at rbd_freack@yahoo.com or badgurl4life101@myspace.comHow do you break up with my boyfriend?
I hope this is a lesson for the future.
Not to date ppl you don't really like because you just hurt their feelings.
Kinda a shady thing to do.
But just tell him ';i dont really see us going anywhere, i would like for us to remain friends though.';
or ';I think you should start seeing someone else, feelings aren't there anymore';
something along those lines.
well if u want it private keep it private well i mean umm break up whit him in a quit place!
oky dont wrry ive been there done that. just tell him ';i was thinking and maybe we should just be friends, i mean your the best and your really nice but it just isnt working out';. or tell him ';im sorry but this really isnt working out maybe its just time we see other people';. dont feel bad your not only helping yourself but your helping him tooGOOD LUCK:D if you need any more help then just email at rbd_freack@yahoo.com or badgurl4life101@myspace.comHow do you break up with my boyfriend?
I hope this is a lesson for the future.
Not to date ppl you don't really like because you just hurt their feelings.
Kinda a shady thing to do.
But just tell him ';i dont really see us going anywhere, i would like for us to remain friends though.';
or ';I think you should start seeing someone else, feelings aren't there anymore';
something along those lines.
well if u want it private keep it private well i mean umm break up whit him in a quit place!
How do I break up with my boyfriend who first wanted to be a cop and now wants to be a cop wanna-be?
I can't be with someone who wants to be either of those things. I need intelligence and smarts, but will he understand? He now wants to be a security guard..How do I break up with my boyfriend who first wanted to be a cop and now wants to be a cop wanna-be?
I do agree rent-a-pigs stupid.
But if it's what he want's to do he needs someone to support him.
Just tell him that, say you don't think you right for him and he needs to find someone else.How do I break up with my boyfriend who first wanted to be a cop and now wants to be a cop wanna-be?
A security guard is a wanna-be cop? Ok, well if you don't think it i think you should do both of you a favor and get out of the relationship, for both your sakes. He needs someone who can support him, and you need someone who can give you what you need. He'll get over it eventually no doubt.
I do agree rent-a-pigs stupid.
But if it's what he want's to do he needs someone to support him.
Just tell him that, say you don't think you right for him and he needs to find someone else.How do I break up with my boyfriend who first wanted to be a cop and now wants to be a cop wanna-be?
A security guard is a wanna-be cop? Ok, well if you don't think it i think you should do both of you a favor and get out of the relationship, for both your sakes. He needs someone who can support him, and you need someone who can give you what you need. He'll get over it eventually no doubt.
How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
My boyfriend was in a car crash 2 months ago and suffered a serious injury to the face. He broke multiple bones and finally is almost healed. However he was left with a hideous scar across his face. I'm sure all you ladies understand when I say umm no way hosay! How can I break up with him with class!How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
Tell him to fcuk off.How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
That is so messed up. if your so caught up on looks and not whats on the inside then he dont deserve a trick like you. just tell him straight up your a stuck up hoe who is only about looks and not love,
Just put Pimpy's picture up in your locker. The poor boy will know that he can't compete with a sexy piece of man meat like that.
If you want I can shoot him for you.
Fix him up with a pretty blind girl.
you shallow *****.
There is no rush. Your intention will find the way for you. Just act normal.
Tell him to fcuk off.How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
That is so messed up. if your so caught up on looks and not whats on the inside then he dont deserve a trick like you. just tell him straight up your a stuck up hoe who is only about looks and not love,
Just put Pimpy's picture up in your locker. The poor boy will know that he can't compete with a sexy piece of man meat like that.
If you want I can shoot him for you.
Fix him up with a pretty blind girl.
you shallow *****.
There is no rush. Your intention will find the way for you. Just act normal.
How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Ok i have a really great boyfriend but im falling out of love with him.I want to end it but he always tells me that if i break up with him he's gonna do sumthing stupid like hurt himself!! He's really krayzie!But im tired of his gangster ways .I do love him but not enough 2 be with him. I need a better choice of words to end it...Much help NEEDED!How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Well, first of all, if he truly loved you he would:
1. Respect your wishes on breaking up with him
2. Not make you feel guilty if you did break up with him.
You say you don't like his gangster ways, maybe tell him that if he was just to change that about him you'd stay.
Try this:
'; __(enter bf's name here)__, I am sorry to tell you this, but this isn't working out. I love you... but I think it's slowly going downhill though. I just don't want to lie to you by being with you, when i really don't share the same feelings you feel about me. It's not fair to you at all. Love has to work BOTH ways; I have to be in love with you and you have to be in love with me for it to work out. And I don't think it is. I'm sorry.';
Oh I hoped it at least gave you some ideas.How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Just tell him that you need to be friends.. but keep an eye on him so he duznt do anything stupid
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Well, first of all, if he truly loved you he would:
1. Respect your wishes on breaking up with him
2. Not make you feel guilty if you did break up with him.
You say you don't like his gangster ways, maybe tell him that if he was just to change that about him you'd stay.
Try this:
'; __(enter bf's name here)__, I am sorry to tell you this, but this isn't working out. I love you... but I think it's slowly going downhill though. I just don't want to lie to you by being with you, when i really don't share the same feelings you feel about me. It's not fair to you at all. Love has to work BOTH ways; I have to be in love with you and you have to be in love with me for it to work out. And I don't think it is. I'm sorry.';
Oh I hoped it at least gave you some ideas.How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Just tell him that you need to be friends.. but keep an eye on him so he duznt do anything stupid
%26lt;3 fiayellacat
How should I break up with my boyfriend?
We've been going out for 2 months now. I know it's not a long time, but my feelings for him aren't the same anymore and I just dont think I'm really ready for a relationship. I see him about once a month. And the next time I'll see him is on his birthday on Dec 31, that day is out of the question. I don't want to lead him on either. The only options I have is wait for January or over the phone. What should I do?How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Stop lying to yourself.
It's not that you ';aren't ready for a relationship';- if some hot movie star asked you out tomorrow, you would say yes!
Also, it's not that your ';feelings for him aren't the same';- the reality is, you simply misjudged your feelings for him in the FIRST place. You dated him before you really got to know him. Yes, you guys might have fought and screwed it up, but most likely, you just didnt know how he would act when u guys were dating.
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What should you do? As a guy, I would like it a LITTLE BIT MORE if the break up was face-to-face, and private, and the girl didnt hate me or try to ruin my life afterwards. as long as its quiet and she doesnt hate me, in all honesty, i really could care less about whether its over the phone or not.
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SOOO. With that fact, AND the fact that ANY guy would hate having an entire month of his life wasted dating a girl who didn't even like him back anymore..... I say dump him now! Do it nicely and cleanly and honestly. Let him know WHY you don't like him anymore, what he did (without sounding too harsh), and tell him you're sorry but u wish him good luck with his next relationship in the future! Tell him u hope it works out, and again that ur sorry.
good luck! this is what a guy would wanna hear in his situation, and again- dont wait a month!!!
best answer plz thx =)How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Since you can't see him, just break it off over the phone. No need to drag this out for two months.
Do it over the phone, and make it quick and then hang up. Don't stay on the line long enough to hear the sob story or anything, because that will just make it harder for the both of you.
Good luck.
well you dont want to do it on his birthday for sure.
its really hard to plan these things but you have to do whats best for you in the end.
i think you can do it over the phone if you hardly see each other at all.
just be really nice about it. you dont want to wait that long just to be with a guy you dont like.
good luck :D
You only see him once a month and youve only been going out 2 months so does that mean youve seen him twice?
Anyway its a tough choice, I would say sooner rather than later is best so that would mean over the phone. Just appologise and tell him how you really didnt want to have to say over the phone but at the same time you didn't want to lead him on for another month.
over the phone is rude
i say Janurary just say look ___(__is his name) im not ready to be in a real relationship say we barely see eachother... etc
Over the phone is better. do not make it too long a call.
Stop lying to yourself.
It's not that you ';aren't ready for a relationship';- if some hot movie star asked you out tomorrow, you would say yes!
Also, it's not that your ';feelings for him aren't the same';- the reality is, you simply misjudged your feelings for him in the FIRST place. You dated him before you really got to know him. Yes, you guys might have fought and screwed it up, but most likely, you just didnt know how he would act when u guys were dating.
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What should you do? As a guy, I would like it a LITTLE BIT MORE if the break up was face-to-face, and private, and the girl didnt hate me or try to ruin my life afterwards. as long as its quiet and she doesnt hate me, in all honesty, i really could care less about whether its over the phone or not.
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SOOO. With that fact, AND the fact that ANY guy would hate having an entire month of his life wasted dating a girl who didn't even like him back anymore..... I say dump him now! Do it nicely and cleanly and honestly. Let him know WHY you don't like him anymore, what he did (without sounding too harsh), and tell him you're sorry but u wish him good luck with his next relationship in the future! Tell him u hope it works out, and again that ur sorry.
good luck! this is what a guy would wanna hear in his situation, and again- dont wait a month!!!
best answer plz thx =)How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Since you can't see him, just break it off over the phone. No need to drag this out for two months.
Do it over the phone, and make it quick and then hang up. Don't stay on the line long enough to hear the sob story or anything, because that will just make it harder for the both of you.
Good luck.
well you dont want to do it on his birthday for sure.
its really hard to plan these things but you have to do whats best for you in the end.
i think you can do it over the phone if you hardly see each other at all.
just be really nice about it. you dont want to wait that long just to be with a guy you dont like.
good luck :D
You only see him once a month and youve only been going out 2 months so does that mean youve seen him twice?
Anyway its a tough choice, I would say sooner rather than later is best so that would mean over the phone. Just appologise and tell him how you really didnt want to have to say over the phone but at the same time you didn't want to lead him on for another month.
over the phone is rude
i say Janurary just say look ___(__is his name) im not ready to be in a real relationship say we barely see eachother... etc
Over the phone is better. do not make it too long a call.
How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
We've only been dating for like a week and already told me he loved me.Its almost Valentines day and I don't know how to tell him.Please help.
Oh and yes I'm a chicken but I'm either going to do it over a text or have a friend tell him.How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
DO NOT do it over text or have a friend tell him. What are you 13?
Oh and yes I'm a chicken but I'm either going to do it over a text or have a friend tell him.How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
DO NOT do it over text or have a friend tell him. What are you 13?
How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
I don't want to hurt him but i probably will anyways but how? i started going out with him again yesterday but i realized it was a bug mistake!How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
Tell him that you did this on impulse...and you did not think correctly regarding your actions of uncontrollable emotion. I am sure he'll understand, but girlfriend, he is going to be shattered, no matter what way you handle it. But if you keep it a huge secret for any longer, he is gonna think something is seriously odd with you by bottling up your true emotions. Why be together if you don't feel or want to be together? Something WAS there, but its NOT anymore and will remain that way.How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
Be honest as not being honest will hurt him more as he will have all the what if's going through his head.
just be honest with him...the longer you leave it or stretch it out the worse it will be........
you just tell him that it's not working but don't expect him to be smiling at you.
Tell him that you did this on impulse...and you did not think correctly regarding your actions of uncontrollable emotion. I am sure he'll understand, but girlfriend, he is going to be shattered, no matter what way you handle it. But if you keep it a huge secret for any longer, he is gonna think something is seriously odd with you by bottling up your true emotions. Why be together if you don't feel or want to be together? Something WAS there, but its NOT anymore and will remain that way.How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
Be honest as not being honest will hurt him more as he will have all the what if's going through his head.
just be honest with him...the longer you leave it or stretch it out the worse it will be........
you just tell him that it's not working but don't expect him to be smiling at you.
How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
my best friend and i have a friendship somewhat like we are dating except the kissing and stuff.
im pretty sure she likes me but how do i stay out of the ';friend zone'; and get her to break up with her boyfriend and get with me?How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Honestly, i'd give that time. If you do this right away, you could loose your friendship. Also, putting her in that position could make her uncomfortable. I would just hint that you'd like to be a bit more than friends and yes, it is hard to watch someone you love, love someone else, but you may have to go through that till they break up. If they do break up, make sure youre there to catch her !How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Don't break them up, it will only make matters worse! If your a teenager then realize that these teen relationships only last about 3-8 months, typically! So just wait until then and make your move.
im pretty sure she likes me but how do i stay out of the ';friend zone'; and get her to break up with her boyfriend and get with me?How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Honestly, i'd give that time. If you do this right away, you could loose your friendship. Also, putting her in that position could make her uncomfortable. I would just hint that you'd like to be a bit more than friends and yes, it is hard to watch someone you love, love someone else, but you may have to go through that till they break up. If they do break up, make sure youre there to catch her !How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Don't break them up, it will only make matters worse! If your a teenager then realize that these teen relationships only last about 3-8 months, typically! So just wait until then and make your move.
How to break up with my cheating boyfriend?
My boyfriend has been cheating on me for a while now with another girl and we just found out. Me and the other girl want to leave him speechless. What's a good plan to break up with him?How to break up with my cheating boyfriend?
Drop him don't call don't return callsHow to break up with my cheating boyfriend?
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Here's my 2 cents;
Meet her for coffee, and have him coming to meet you at the same place. When he gets there, say ';Oh hey, I just bumped into my friend here, we know each other (through a friend of a friend/through work/we go to the same gym, whatever, as long as it's plausible). Downplay the fact that you both know, watch him twist and squirm as he tries to weasel out of it. Then, go off with him and do something, let him think that he's gotten away with it, end your date as you normally would.
Then let him stew for a few days, make it like everything is normal. Then the next time you see him, make it in private, and have the other girl surprise him there. That way you can both scream at him and kick him to the curb at the same time, and he has been weakened by a few days of psychological torment.
Just go up to him and tell him to keep him penis in his pants and to start thinking about other peoples feelings.
Maybe you could get his picture on a piece of paper and put some writing on it and write down how much of a cheating a$$ he is and stick the posters around school =]
personally I would not do it but if you really are wanting to avenge him do it =]
Give him a piece of your mind, girl friend!
But cut out the cussing part :P
Tell him that you know that he is cheating and that it's over.
1. Don't do it over the phone.
2. Don't get someone to do it for you.
And 3. Say that you don't want to be friends, if he really broke your heart.
P.S: You're totally too good for him anyway :3
Best Wishes,
- Sweetie %26lt;3.
i think if u had been serious and he dumped u as well as other gal also u shud never leave this guys unpunished u shud teach him a lesson how cna u guys afford to just leav eguys like that .
a wonderful plan ahead
tell the other gal to call him and apologise and say that pls come to my place or may b u call him up and say i m sorry and call at ur place have sex with him and than silently make a movie of it and blackmail him dat u wills how it to ur parents for some moeny or neeling down for hours or whatever punihment u feel like doing .or else lie him that u r pregnant and u need to kepe this baby or else u will go to his parents
mind it guys can do anything for their parents and reputation
or be a frnd ( a cheater friend liek him)
throw a party one day
and insult him badly after boosing it wud be the most embarassing moment for him
or also u can put a blaim on him taht he tried raping u this lesson he wont ever forget go to police by syaing he did a rape attmept on u .
hope u have fun as well as a lesson to teach and a lesson to learn
kick him in the balls back to back.
that'll leave him speechless, or at least crying.
oh god, i just imagined myself as you, and i have no idea how you're containing yourself, i would have gone berzerk and set his car on fire or beat him with a baseball bat!! I hate cheaters! I'm so serious when i say his life would be in danger if i was his girlfriend.
Simple one of you set up a date with him and have either the other one or both of you show up. Proceed to give him a bunch of **** and then simultaneously say ';It's done, you cheating bastard'; and walk away.
Might sound a tad cruel, but I hate people who cheat. Don't be in a relationship if you can't be loyal.
Gang up on him with the other girl and beat him up in an ally. XD Teasing! But Go Girl! You rock for getting revenge and for not immediately turning on the other girl like she's the enemy and not the do*chbag that's been two-timing you! Seriously,you're awesome! :D
I guess.. send him an email.. delete him.. don't pick up.. give back everything in a box (maybe let a friend send it)..
please help me with my problem:
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you'll probably think I'm a bad person if you decide to read my question, but please have the benefit of the doubt, I'm not a bad person...
with that being said, maybe your boyfriend is not either... evaluate everything first
You should arrange to go to his house at a certain time and have the other one ';surprise him'; by showing up, or you could pull a prank on him and leave your initials somewhere or something like that.
Once you caught them in the act, kiss your boyfriend and say, ';Bye honey. I hope you won't regret this. And by the way, your new girlfriend sure looks like your yaya. :))'; Show your BF that you are strong and you can live with or without him. Okay? :D
Take him out act like you don't know then at the end of the night kick him in the balls and tell him your done have the other girl walk out just right before you do it.
cheating nw are days is dangerous due 2 the prevailing of this disease (AIDS) dump him by asking him out %26amp; the other girl should just appear on that place %26amp; embarrass him
Just go straight up to him and tell him the truth. He should know it's coming. Hope this helps!
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tell him you've sort things out with him and that you know what he's been up to and tell him to never call you again and hang up and never answer forever. that works!! ignorance is bliss isn't it??
Just break up with him. Why waste your energy with a plan to get even? I understand you are hurt, risking your self respect is not worth it.
i think you should tell him that you know he's cheating on you with another girl and just break up with him
Sleep with him and when your done say ';you suck, it's over. You don't know how to satisfy me. Let me call your best friend he's much better and last longer';.
Your best move is to just leave. Forget about trying get back at him, you need to get out of this relationship fast. Don't waste your time with him. The best way to get over him? A new man!
you go with another boy friend in his front
just tell him that your relationship with him is over. You dont want a boy whose cheating you...right?
seduce his dad
that would leave him speechless.
or maybe better his mom...........
call me up and we'll think of something =)
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Here's my 2 cents;
Meet her for coffee, and have him coming to meet you at the same place. When he gets there, say ';Oh hey, I just bumped into my friend here, we know each other (through a friend of a friend/through work/we go to the same gym, whatever, as long as it's plausible). Downplay the fact that you both know, watch him twist and squirm as he tries to weasel out of it. Then, go off with him and do something, let him think that he's gotten away with it, end your date as you normally would.
Then let him stew for a few days, make it like everything is normal. Then the next time you see him, make it in private, and have the other girl surprise him there. That way you can both scream at him and kick him to the curb at the same time, and he has been weakened by a few days of psychological torment.
Just go up to him and tell him to keep him penis in his pants and to start thinking about other peoples feelings.
Maybe you could get his picture on a piece of paper and put some writing on it and write down how much of a cheating a$$ he is and stick the posters around school =]
personally I would not do it but if you really are wanting to avenge him do it =]
Give him a piece of your mind, girl friend!
But cut out the cussing part :P
Tell him that you know that he is cheating and that it's over.
1. Don't do it over the phone.
2. Don't get someone to do it for you.
And 3. Say that you don't want to be friends, if he really broke your heart.
P.S: You're totally too good for him anyway :3
Best Wishes,
- Sweetie %26lt;3.
i think if u had been serious and he dumped u as well as other gal also u shud never leave this guys unpunished u shud teach him a lesson how cna u guys afford to just leav eguys like that .
a wonderful plan ahead
tell the other gal to call him and apologise and say that pls come to my place or may b u call him up and say i m sorry and call at ur place have sex with him and than silently make a movie of it and blackmail him dat u wills how it to ur parents for some moeny or neeling down for hours or whatever punihment u feel like doing .or else lie him that u r pregnant and u need to kepe this baby or else u will go to his parents
mind it guys can do anything for their parents and reputation
or be a frnd ( a cheater friend liek him)
throw a party one day
and insult him badly after boosing it wud be the most embarassing moment for him
or also u can put a blaim on him taht he tried raping u this lesson he wont ever forget go to police by syaing he did a rape attmept on u .
hope u have fun as well as a lesson to teach and a lesson to learn
kick him in the balls back to back.
that'll leave him speechless, or at least crying.
oh god, i just imagined myself as you, and i have no idea how you're containing yourself, i would have gone berzerk and set his car on fire or beat him with a baseball bat!! I hate cheaters! I'm so serious when i say his life would be in danger if i was his girlfriend.
Simple one of you set up a date with him and have either the other one or both of you show up. Proceed to give him a bunch of **** and then simultaneously say ';It's done, you cheating bastard'; and walk away.
Might sound a tad cruel, but I hate people who cheat. Don't be in a relationship if you can't be loyal.
Gang up on him with the other girl and beat him up in an ally. XD Teasing! But Go Girl! You rock for getting revenge and for not immediately turning on the other girl like she's the enemy and not the do*chbag that's been two-timing you! Seriously,you're awesome! :D
I guess.. send him an email.. delete him.. don't pick up.. give back everything in a box (maybe let a friend send it)..
please help me with my problem:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aseuk_zTdvwtNih68nFRuYjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090613011001AAvNGlN
you'll probably think I'm a bad person if you decide to read my question, but please have the benefit of the doubt, I'm not a bad person...
with that being said, maybe your boyfriend is not either... evaluate everything first
You should arrange to go to his house at a certain time and have the other one ';surprise him'; by showing up, or you could pull a prank on him and leave your initials somewhere or something like that.
Once you caught them in the act, kiss your boyfriend and say, ';Bye honey. I hope you won't regret this. And by the way, your new girlfriend sure looks like your yaya. :))'; Show your BF that you are strong and you can live with or without him. Okay? :D
Take him out act like you don't know then at the end of the night kick him in the balls and tell him your done have the other girl walk out just right before you do it.
cheating nw are days is dangerous due 2 the prevailing of this disease (AIDS) dump him by asking him out %26amp; the other girl should just appear on that place %26amp; embarrass him
Just go straight up to him and tell him the truth. He should know it's coming. Hope this helps!
Please help me out at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
tell him you've sort things out with him and that you know what he's been up to and tell him to never call you again and hang up and never answer forever. that works!! ignorance is bliss isn't it??
Just break up with him. Why waste your energy with a plan to get even? I understand you are hurt, risking your self respect is not worth it.
i think you should tell him that you know he's cheating on you with another girl and just break up with him
Sleep with him and when your done say ';you suck, it's over. You don't know how to satisfy me. Let me call your best friend he's much better and last longer';.
Your best move is to just leave. Forget about trying get back at him, you need to get out of this relationship fast. Don't waste your time with him. The best way to get over him? A new man!
you go with another boy friend in his front
just tell him that your relationship with him is over. You dont want a boy whose cheating you...right?
seduce his dad
that would leave him speechless.
or maybe better his mom...........
call me up and we'll think of something =)
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