How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?

Ok i have a really great boyfriend but im falling out of love with him.I want to end it but he always tells me that if i break up with him he's gonna do sumthing stupid like hurt himself!! He's really krayzie!But im tired of his gangster ways .I do love him but not enough 2 be with him. I need a better choice of words to end it...Much help NEEDED!How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Well, first of all, if he truly loved you he would:





1. Respect your wishes on breaking up with him


2. Not make you feel guilty if you did break up with him.





You say you don't like his gangster ways, maybe tell him that if he was just to change that about him you'd stay.





Try this:


'; __(enter bf's name here)__, I am sorry to tell you this, but this isn't working out. I love you... but I think it's slowly going downhill though. I just don't want to lie to you by being with you, when i really don't share the same feelings you feel about me. It's not fair to you at all. Love has to work BOTH ways; I have to be in love with you and you have to be in love with me for it to work out. And I don't think it is. I'm sorry.';





Oh I hoped it at least gave you some ideas.How do i break up with a Delusional boyfriend?
Just tell him that you need to be friends.. but keep an eye on him so he duznt do anything stupid





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How should I break up with my boyfriend?

We've been going out for 2 months now. I know it's not a long time, but my feelings for him aren't the same anymore and I just dont think I'm really ready for a relationship. I see him about once a month. And the next time I'll see him is on his birthday on Dec 31, that day is out of the question. I don't want to lead him on either. The only options I have is wait for January or over the phone. What should I do?How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Stop lying to yourself.





It's not that you ';aren't ready for a relationship';- if some hot movie star asked you out tomorrow, you would say yes!





Also, it's not that your ';feelings for him aren't the same';- the reality is, you simply misjudged your feelings for him in the FIRST place. You dated him before you really got to know him. Yes, you guys might have fought and screwed it up, but most likely, you just didnt know how he would act when u guys were dating.


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What should you do? As a guy, I would like it a LITTLE BIT MORE if the break up was face-to-face, and private, and the girl didnt hate me or try to ruin my life afterwards. as long as its quiet and she doesnt hate me, in all honesty, i really could care less about whether its over the phone or not.





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SOOO. With that fact, AND the fact that ANY guy would hate having an entire month of his life wasted dating a girl who didn't even like him back anymore..... I say dump him now! Do it nicely and cleanly and honestly. Let him know WHY you don't like him anymore, what he did (without sounding too harsh), and tell him you're sorry but u wish him good luck with his next relationship in the future! Tell him u hope it works out, and again that ur sorry.





good luck! this is what a guy would wanna hear in his situation, and again- dont wait a month!!!





best answer plz thx =)How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Since you can't see him, just break it off over the phone. No need to drag this out for two months.





Do it over the phone, and make it quick and then hang up. Don't stay on the line long enough to hear the sob story or anything, because that will just make it harder for the both of you.





Good luck.
well you dont want to do it on his birthday for sure.


its really hard to plan these things but you have to do whats best for you in the end.


i think you can do it over the phone if you hardly see each other at all.


just be really nice about it. you dont want to wait that long just to be with a guy you dont like.


good luck :D
You only see him once a month and youve only been going out 2 months so does that mean youve seen him twice?





Anyway its a tough choice, I would say sooner rather than later is best so that would mean over the phone. Just appologise and tell him how you really didnt want to have to say over the phone but at the same time you didn't want to lead him on for another month.
over the phone is rude


i say Janurary just say look ___(__is his name) im not ready to be in a real relationship say we barely see eachother... etc
Over the phone is better. do not make it too long a call.

How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?

We've only been dating for like a week and already told me he loved me.Its almost Valentines day and I don't know how to tell him.Please help.








Oh and yes I'm a chicken but I'm either going to do it over a text or have a friend tell him.How do you break up with your boyfriend nicely?
DO NOT do it over text or have a friend tell him. What are you 13?

I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?

Ok so, there is this girl in my grade. We'll call her 1. Then there is this other girl,2. I thought 2 was starting to like my boyfriend. So I confronted her about it. She said No,I like someone else. So I forgot about it.(2 was also a very close friend of mine)





So about a week ago 1 and 2 started to make fun of me. this is exactly what they said


';(boyfriends name), going to dump her because she got those ugly braces.';





so 2 became two-faced (haha get it?)





And 2 always says ';How come he sticks up for his girlfriend and not me'; or ';they are so mean to each other they shouldn't be going out';..(even though we are just joking around,she doesn't get that)





So here's the creepiest part of all....1 got found my boyfriends ADDRESS somewhere and 1 and 2 looked up where he lives..creepy..So then I told my boyfriend that they did that and he was like wow weirdos. (he doesn't like 1,at all,but 2 was a really good friend)





By they way,I'm NOT going to say anything to 1 or 2,because 1 already hates me with a passion and she could probably beat me up with only one hand.





So should I be concerned or anything?





p.s., I'd rather not even fight with them because I know once me and my boyfriend break up. 1 and 2 will hate each other since they both want him,they will compete with him.





thanks.I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?
I know its annoying, but dont worry about it. Take it as a compliment! Those girls are clearly jealous of you, which is why theyre bashing your relationship with your boyfriend. Theyre just trying to make themselves feel better. Besides, you said your boyfriend doesnt even like either of them as a friend, why would he want to date one of them? Your boyfriend likes you - not them.





Alot of girls like boyfriend too. Its annoying, but I try not to get too worked up about it. I cant really blame them anyway - hes an amazing guy and hes hot. And like you, I dont like most of the girls who like him, so it kind of makes me smile that theyre jealous of me and theyre NEVER going to get him.





:)I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?
To be quite honest and no offense...


But if quote ';He doesn't like 1, at all, but 2 WAS a really good friend';


Then why are you worried?


He is uninterested in them, so let it be and don't worry.


To much worrying could drive your boyfriend away, he doesn't like them so there isn't anything to be worried about!








Good luck :)
Watch out for them.





They sound creepy. o_O
they sound like there jelous and so immature ignore them but keep an eye out for them

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How do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?

i keep trying to convince her but it's useless.I don't like him.he keeps telling her not to do this and not to do that.what should i do to break them up?How do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?
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it is very hard.. it is a pain..


just make her to bleave , that she will get a wonder guy in future..better than this one.


take her to new place


divert her mood.. dont allow her to be aloneHow do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?
Only 2 people are involved in a relationship. You can't break them up. And probably, the more you try to ';convince'; her he's wrong, the closer she'll cling to him.





Time shows all. Just stay out of it. If he's not the right guy, she'll see for herself soon enough.

How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?

ok so i am going out with my best friend, but i need a way to break up with him, but i still want him to be my best friend? how can i break it to him i would rather be best friends?How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?
Be Honest but give him some time afterwards. You can't just expect everything to be fine after.; because it obviously isn't for him. If you guys are the best friends you once were he should be able forgive you (hopefully) But from a recent experience I needed to give the boy some time to get over me. Eventually the tension will die down and things will be forgotten and the friendship will be renewed. Just don't do anything you will regret afterwards.How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?
um honestly.


i dont think he will be your best friend after you guys break up.


you might be friends but you dont be close friends straight away.


tht happened to my friends they were so close... went out.. broke up...didnt talk for MONTHS... and now they are slowly talking to each other again.


so i guess time fixes everything.


when you breake it off with him, dont expect you guys will be friends straight away it might take time for him because hes getting his heart broken. be honest with him.
Make that clear to him.Just tell him how you feel about the relationship, but how you value his friendship(and that you arent just saying that to be nice).Make that clear.
If he was ur ';best friend'; u wouldn't. U would marry him if he was ur ';best friend,'; he obviously doesn't mean much to u anymore so just break up w/ him so he can go find someone good!

How do I break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

We have only been together for a week, and his already saying I love you, and planning our anniversary. It's kind of creepy, yet I don't want to hurt hid fragile feelings. What do I say?How do I break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?
Simple. Just tell him you don't think he is what you are looking for. It's better to be honest than to beat around the bush.





I think love is the most misused word in the English language. I don't throw that word around lightly. I think most people use the word ';love'; in place of affection, obsession, or desire (sexual desire also). I like to use the Bible's interpretation. It is in 1st Corinthians 13:5 through 13:13





Love is patient and kind;


love does not envy or boast;


it is not arrogant or rude.


It does not insist on its own way;


it is not irritable or resentful;


it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.


Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.


Love never ends.





I found in some of my past relationships that when I put myself through a test and asked myself did I fall into each of the categories above and did I actually practice each one of those difinitions in the Bible ... that I failed nearly every one of them terribly.





When you look at love the way the Bible defines it you have to ask are all of these things what YOU are ';not looking for';. Also you have to ask yourself is this what YOUR BOYFRIEND sees love as. It sounds like he may not know what love is. It may be that he only ';desires'; you. It's possible to love someone you never met. Think hard about that one. You can even love your enemy.





I only went into details to help look at things in different perspective. If you are sure about what you want (and don't want) THEN BE HONEST.How do I break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?
He's going to get hurt no matter what. Being honest will actually cause him less pain in the long run; it's like ripping a Band-Aid off quickly. Just tell him, gently, that you aren't ready for a serious relationship.





I wouldn't hold out any hope for the future, or even tell him that you want to be friends (unless that's what you really want.) If you tell a guy this serious that maybe you'll feel differently in the future, or you're not ready for a relationship right now, then he will just wait. And wait. And check in on you every week or so to see if your feelings have changed yet.
Tell him you don't think you're ready. It will make him feel better if he thinks there is a chance in the future but only say that if you think there might be also.





This might be a little deceptive and I don't know if I recommend it but tell him that there is a chance in the future and make him wait. He'll get over you in time.





That being said, honesty is always best.
Feelings are going to get hurt no matter what. My advice to you is just tell him the truth. If he cant handle that then its his problem not yours. Honesty is always best. Good luck. I remember how hard that use to be.
mmmmm you should probably be honest with him


or tell him u need a barke, to give u time .. tell him his a great guy that his awesome and all u think about him .. make him feel good but tell him u cant be with him anymore he should be mature enough 2 understand
No matter what you say its gonna hurt his feelings if he is already saying I love you. You just need to tell him how you feel and do it sooner then later. Best of luck to you :)
Be honest with him and tell him what you feel. He seems to be on a totally different page than you and the sooner you put that right the better.
Yikes that is creepy! I would tell him that you just don't feel the same. Don't sugar coat it...because it will only give him hope and make it harder for him. Good luck....not an easy situation =(
well just tell him that your not ready for that kind of relationship


and tell him that


';I think we should just stay friends';
you say something like you aren't ready for a relationship right now haha something like that
its gonna hurt him no matter what if he really likes you but you could just tell him not to rush things if you like him
Only a week? Just say screw it I don't think we are right for each other or somethin.
Sorry, it's not possible. He does sound like a creep though.
never talk to him and forget about him