I suck at doing disappointing things
and me and him never hang out
so we text a lot
and I find it really shallow to break up with someone through a text
but idk how?
helllppHow to I break up with my boyfriend?
Get a friend to tell hem for you or just go somewhere private and tell him its over...How to I break up with my boyfriend?
NEVER BREAK UP THROUGH TEXTING
It is the most degrading thing someone can do to you
If you absolutely must then call him up and do it that way
Me too! i am really bad at disappoingting things!
I would tell him in private and say ';I liked it better when we were freinds';(if you ever were friends)
or say '; i think it would be best if we saw other people';(classic)
or another one is ';maybe it's time we moved on...I hope you understand';(another classic)
it is REALLY shallow to break up through text so i'd do it face to face or on the phone but talking to him
i hope this helped!
just break up with him but dont do it over text that's just mean.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to break up with my boyfriend.?
Me and this guy have been going out for about 4 days now and the truth is, is that i dont like him that much so why i ever said yes is still a question. He's acting kind of obsessed and i need to break it off with him before it gets to be to late. The only thing is, is that i don't know how to do it in a nice way that can still leave us as friends. Help!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
first of all, do not break up with him via email, text messages, myspace, through friends, etc.! talk to him directly!
secondly, be honest with him. just tell him how you really feel. don't blame it on yourself or him.
I am not going to tell you what to say to him, but i am going to say that you need to break it off a.s.a.p. because if you don't feel comfortable with him and especially if you think he might be obsessed, for your safety you need to get out of this relationship right now!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
a note at the END of the day to spare him in case he gets emotional (so that he doesn't have to cry in front of friends...etc)
Plus, you won't have to face him.
';Dear ___, you are a sweet, smart guy but I really just don't feel that spark. Its nothing that you did wrong, in fact this is my own decision. You are a great guy and I'm sure you will find another girl.
--You';
i had this same problem and said ';heyy sorry but it really doesnt feel like a relationship, can we just be mates ? tb ';
omfg just tell him youre parents dont want you dating him say you need to focus on more important things than a relationship.
Whatever you do, do it fast....
you don't want him to get TOO attached.
Tell him the truth, very nicely. Just say something like 'I'm sorry, I just don't have feelings for you in that way'. Don't make up excuses or lies or you'll just make things worse. And don't tell him you would like to still be friends because he obviously doesn't want to just be friends with you and this would be like leading him on. If you want to be friends with him, don't have any contact with him for a few months, (so he can get over you), then ask him if he would like to be friends.
just tell him ur not ready for anything serious u like him but want to stay being friends
';I'm really sorry, but we are such good friends that it's kind of awkward going out with you. I really like you, just I like you more as a friend, and if we could stay that way, that would make me really happy';
Please answer my most recent qusetion
only 4 days?, and you calling him your boyfriend already, who did you say the obsessed one is? just say no, tell him you want to be alone
Just be honest about and tell him how you feel. Try to be his friend but I am sure it will be difficult breaks up are not easy. No matter how hard you try you are always the bad one.
just say its over
I was with my girlfriend for about two weeks and we were friends at first as well. I just said something like ';I know how cliche this is, but I think we might just be better off as friends. I like you, but I don't know if I'd like to complicate things at all.'; I was pretty nervous when I did it, but it turns out that she felt the same way.
i went through the same situation
first of all do it in person or over the phone
then just tell him that you dont feel the same way about him
and he can decide if he still wants to be friends
well just say what you feel and you still want to be friends it will work out i know trust me he can be mad at you but he will be friends.
umm just tell him it wont work and u guys cld be friends
First of all,make sure you have the courage in that moment.at that point, do it before you lose it! Find him when he's not around his friends, or somewhere relativley private,and say soemthing like this
';I think your coming on a little strong.I think it would be best if we just went as friends,and maybe eventually work our way up.I don't think im quite ready for an actualy relationship with you,but your a nice guy,and i wouldn't want to lose you as a friend.Whaddya say';
O_O Hope it works ^-^
haha this sounds exactly like me last summer, except I waited for 2 weeks instead because I didn't have the courage.
Either way he'll be heart broken though.
You just have to be like ';you know I'm really sorry and you're a really good friend and stuff, but this whole boyfriend-girlfriendn relationship isn't working for me and I just don't feel the time is right';
But then still after ensure that you are friends- text him, call him, heck even go to the mall with him... just not as a couple
its easy, just be like: i really don't see us in the future going anywhere and i think it would be better off if we were just friends and if he doesn't want to be your friend, take it or leave it. but yeah.
';Hey, I think we'd be better off as friends, I'd love to hang out with you more, but just as friends';
first of all, do not break up with him via email, text messages, myspace, through friends, etc.! talk to him directly!
secondly, be honest with him. just tell him how you really feel. don't blame it on yourself or him.
I am not going to tell you what to say to him, but i am going to say that you need to break it off a.s.a.p. because if you don't feel comfortable with him and especially if you think he might be obsessed, for your safety you need to get out of this relationship right now!How to break up with my boyfriend.?
a note at the END of the day to spare him in case he gets emotional (so that he doesn't have to cry in front of friends...etc)
Plus, you won't have to face him.
';Dear ___, you are a sweet, smart guy but I really just don't feel that spark. Its nothing that you did wrong, in fact this is my own decision. You are a great guy and I'm sure you will find another girl.
--You';
i had this same problem and said ';heyy sorry but it really doesnt feel like a relationship, can we just be mates ? tb ';
omfg just tell him youre parents dont want you dating him say you need to focus on more important things than a relationship.
Whatever you do, do it fast....
you don't want him to get TOO attached.
Tell him the truth, very nicely. Just say something like 'I'm sorry, I just don't have feelings for you in that way'. Don't make up excuses or lies or you'll just make things worse. And don't tell him you would like to still be friends because he obviously doesn't want to just be friends with you and this would be like leading him on. If you want to be friends with him, don't have any contact with him for a few months, (so he can get over you), then ask him if he would like to be friends.
just tell him ur not ready for anything serious u like him but want to stay being friends
';I'm really sorry, but we are such good friends that it's kind of awkward going out with you. I really like you, just I like you more as a friend, and if we could stay that way, that would make me really happy';
Please answer my most recent qusetion
only 4 days?, and you calling him your boyfriend already, who did you say the obsessed one is? just say no, tell him you want to be alone
Just be honest about and tell him how you feel. Try to be his friend but I am sure it will be difficult breaks up are not easy. No matter how hard you try you are always the bad one.
just say its over
I was with my girlfriend for about two weeks and we were friends at first as well. I just said something like ';I know how cliche this is, but I think we might just be better off as friends. I like you, but I don't know if I'd like to complicate things at all.'; I was pretty nervous when I did it, but it turns out that she felt the same way.
i went through the same situation
first of all do it in person or over the phone
then just tell him that you dont feel the same way about him
and he can decide if he still wants to be friends
well just say what you feel and you still want to be friends it will work out i know trust me he can be mad at you but he will be friends.
umm just tell him it wont work and u guys cld be friends
First of all,make sure you have the courage in that moment.at that point, do it before you lose it! Find him when he's not around his friends, or somewhere relativley private,and say soemthing like this
';I think your coming on a little strong.I think it would be best if we just went as friends,and maybe eventually work our way up.I don't think im quite ready for an actualy relationship with you,but your a nice guy,and i wouldn't want to lose you as a friend.Whaddya say';
O_O Hope it works ^-^
haha this sounds exactly like me last summer, except I waited for 2 weeks instead because I didn't have the courage.
Either way he'll be heart broken though.
You just have to be like ';you know I'm really sorry and you're a really good friend and stuff, but this whole boyfriend-girlfriendn relationship isn't working for me and I just don't feel the time is right';
But then still after ensure that you are friends- text him, call him, heck even go to the mall with him... just not as a couple
its easy, just be like: i really don't see us in the future going anywhere and i think it would be better off if we were just friends and if he doesn't want to be your friend, take it or leave it. but yeah.
';Hey, I think we'd be better off as friends, I'd love to hang out with you more, but just as friends';
How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
I've had boyfriends this year, ect. And I probably will next year in a bigger school that is filled with 13-14 years olds. Girls that age, how do you break up with your boyfriend that doesnt sound too kiddish or too mature?
(Please no one say, ';Your to young to date!!'; I wanted to, ok??)How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
well actually I don't agree with any of the other responses above..
I do not think you should write him a note, i think you should tell him face to face.. That would show him courage, and show that you are transitioning from a little girl to a young lady...Writting a note is cute and all, its just not something that a mature young lady would do..
Let him know how you feel.
Do not mention his faults, because if you do I garentee you, you will not only be losing a boyfriend but a friend as well:(
Just telll him the truth..
Do not say you just wanna see what else is out there..This willl make him think that you just wanna hoe around, and from then on you will be known as a little slut, and who knows he may just spread it around. This will make life stressful for you..
If I were you this is what I would tell him,
';we've been going out for about a year now, and although this has been fun and an experience for me .. I have to break up with you..It's not your fault, This is a reflection upon me..You are a very sweet guy, but I feel Like my mind, body, and soul are going through some changes right now, I'm going through some changes and I'm pretty sure you are too. I just need to figure it all out for myself, I need to see what is going on... I don't want you to think that I don't care about you, because I do.I just hope that sfter all we've been through together we could still remain friends';...
Something like that would be sweet and mature of you to say..How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
Well, even though you wanna break up w/ him, there are probably reasons why, (other than jjust wanna breaking up w/ him) you should tell him his faults, that you dont like and therefore want to break up. Im not 13-or 14, but during middle school years, it was quite easy breaking up. I mean just write it down in a peice of paper, give it to one of his friends to give to him. Make sure to write down his faults. Or just speak to him (if your comfortable that way).
At that age I always got dumped because I wasn't willing to do anything sexual. But I think you should just say...listen summer is coming I'm gonna be very busy I don't have time for a boyfriend I'm sorry. But you would like to still be friends. ect ect....Trust me he will get over it.
Just always remember if you do break up with someone do it how you would want them to do it to you. Don't be mean and nasty or make it public. It hurts so much more!
GOOD LUCK
Tell him that you feel that you should just be friends or you should take a break form each other. Or what i always do is say that my parents found out and that if i dont break up with them I will get (enter punishment or your choice here). Maybe that will work, and if you want to continue the relationship later, you can.(if you both agree on it) Good luck!! :)
Im 14 and i jus say: (example)
';Hey, Cody, can we break up? i jus dont feel we are okay together, k?
They Always r kewl with that... thats the 2 iv had and we still talk all the time... i guess it depends on the guy tho.
there is different ways to do it u could call him and just say its over and not give him a reason if u want or u could give him a reason or u could write him a note and hand it to him ur self like its a love letter or something
First, analyze why you want to break up with him. Second, if you really want to break up with him, then do so with a simple note in his locker or better yet, a pep talk.
what I do is (I'm 13) I say... I think I'm starting to see we don't really match and I think I wanna go back 2 b4 we were dating...but u were great so I hope we stay good friends and have nothing weird between us!
It works like a charm and no more ice-breakers!
But turn it into ur own words :)
good luck!
Just tell him that you've guys have grown apart and that you think you should just be friends.
just tell him that you 2 are too different. tell him you think it would be best to see other peoples.
omg..crazy world..
';we cant go on like this, i think were better off as friends';
tell him you are just not interested but he can still be your friend
write him a note
(Please no one say, ';Your to young to date!!'; I wanted to, ok??)How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
well actually I don't agree with any of the other responses above..
I do not think you should write him a note, i think you should tell him face to face.. That would show him courage, and show that you are transitioning from a little girl to a young lady...Writting a note is cute and all, its just not something that a mature young lady would do..
Let him know how you feel.
Do not mention his faults, because if you do I garentee you, you will not only be losing a boyfriend but a friend as well:(
Just telll him the truth..
Do not say you just wanna see what else is out there..This willl make him think that you just wanna hoe around, and from then on you will be known as a little slut, and who knows he may just spread it around. This will make life stressful for you..
If I were you this is what I would tell him,
';we've been going out for about a year now, and although this has been fun and an experience for me .. I have to break up with you..It's not your fault, This is a reflection upon me..You are a very sweet guy, but I feel Like my mind, body, and soul are going through some changes right now, I'm going through some changes and I'm pretty sure you are too. I just need to figure it all out for myself, I need to see what is going on... I don't want you to think that I don't care about you, because I do.I just hope that sfter all we've been through together we could still remain friends';...
Something like that would be sweet and mature of you to say..How do you break up with your boyfriend? (middle school)?
Well, even though you wanna break up w/ him, there are probably reasons why, (other than jjust wanna breaking up w/ him) you should tell him his faults, that you dont like and therefore want to break up. Im not 13-or 14, but during middle school years, it was quite easy breaking up. I mean just write it down in a peice of paper, give it to one of his friends to give to him. Make sure to write down his faults. Or just speak to him (if your comfortable that way).
At that age I always got dumped because I wasn't willing to do anything sexual. But I think you should just say...listen summer is coming I'm gonna be very busy I don't have time for a boyfriend I'm sorry. But you would like to still be friends. ect ect....Trust me he will get over it.
Just always remember if you do break up with someone do it how you would want them to do it to you. Don't be mean and nasty or make it public. It hurts so much more!
GOOD LUCK
Tell him that you feel that you should just be friends or you should take a break form each other. Or what i always do is say that my parents found out and that if i dont break up with them I will get (enter punishment or your choice here). Maybe that will work, and if you want to continue the relationship later, you can.(if you both agree on it) Good luck!! :)
Im 14 and i jus say: (example)
';Hey, Cody, can we break up? i jus dont feel we are okay together, k?
They Always r kewl with that... thats the 2 iv had and we still talk all the time... i guess it depends on the guy tho.
there is different ways to do it u could call him and just say its over and not give him a reason if u want or u could give him a reason or u could write him a note and hand it to him ur self like its a love letter or something
First, analyze why you want to break up with him. Second, if you really want to break up with him, then do so with a simple note in his locker or better yet, a pep talk.
what I do is (I'm 13) I say... I think I'm starting to see we don't really match and I think I wanna go back 2 b4 we were dating...but u were great so I hope we stay good friends and have nothing weird between us!
It works like a charm and no more ice-breakers!
But turn it into ur own words :)
good luck!
Just tell him that you've guys have grown apart and that you think you should just be friends.
just tell him that you 2 are too different. tell him you think it would be best to see other peoples.
omg..crazy world..
';we cant go on like this, i think were better off as friends';
tell him you are just not interested but he can still be your friend
write him a note
How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I feel that i can't break up with my boyfriend because we used to be best friends before. We've been in love with each other 2 months before he asked me out. When we were officialy boyfriend and girlfriend, he changed. He doesn't call anymore, he visits his ex (with a bunch of people, not only him). Sometimes i feel he still has a thing for her.
I don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP!How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been going out with my best friend now for almost a year and I feel like he has changed too. He's really friendly with his ex's all the time too. I think you are just super protective over him since I know you've waiting to go out with him for a long time.
As for the thinking he has a thing for her, it probably isn't true (all guys are natural flirts) and since you knew how much he liked her since you are his best friend it is just just a natural reaction to feel cheated on.
Talk to him about it, just say I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her or ask if you can hang out with them too. That way she can see he is YOUR man or if he really is flirting too much you have proof to call him on.
I hope that helps!
P.S. if it just doesn't work go on a break to see if you guys are better as just friends and if you miss each other, go back out.How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
just tell him if he is more interested in his ex girlfriend then he should be with her and not u and that u will break up with him if its for his happiness. u are the dessert he should want u and be with u and treat u really well.
Maybe he's just a little embarrassed, or feels awkward that you two are dating. And he feels like getting away from it all can only be done by hanging with old 'friends'.
Tell him. Just tell him that the whole 'relationship thing' isnt working out for you. If you want to, tell him you still want to be friends.
Just tell him that you're not happy any more and that you can't see him any more. It's hard but it's the best way.
Well nothing in life last forever. It's okay though. Even if he was your friend before, maybe he CHANGED. Just talk it over with him that you cannot go through this anymore and hopefully he will understand since he's your boyfriend. Theres more guys in this world you just haven't opened your eyes to more. (The right time will come)
well hun, i t sound alike youre boyfriend doesnt even care about you anymore , even doesnt still the love , and feelings of you no longer, you should break up with him right now, if you dont do it then you will never have the chances to find a better singles men out there who will ask you out during the future. you dont really want to end up with a cheater who still in loved with his ex girlfriend and even he might did cheat on you and betrade you with his ex the whole time you end up adating him . plus later on maybe next year he realize that it not working out for both you and might dedicate to break up with you after all. maybe he is a dog who just playing with you to use you for sleeping with you and using you fr him to go back out with his ex. can also true about that. if youre are scared of breakin up with him because you re scared that you and him wouldnt be friends anymore. after breakin the relationship. well what the sake everybody goes threw that end up with wrong guys or girls. well i think you should dedicate what to do but you should call him or go see him ask him why he been not calling you , and why he been cheatin on with youre ex- friend ? but if he cant answer you then move on find better single genltmen who will adate you . good luck,
Tell him it isn't working out for you to be anything more than friends and you want to go back to that.
Don't waste your life on him! There is someone out there that loves you; you just haven't found him yet.
just explain to him that you just want to go back to being friends and matbe he does have feelings for his ex is all the more reason. if you dont like him because he has changed then you should go with your heart
best of luck and merry christmas
WE,LL YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE EITHER YOU WANT HIM AS ABEST FRIEND OR BOYFRIEND SO THE DECISSION IS YOURS
simply tell him that its not working for you and you want to go back to being friends. from what you've said you're not really into your fella so why should it concern you if he was to still have a thing for her.
Tell him to get lost, in a nice way =]
i dont think the relationship will work u guys are better of being bestfriends
There is a reason for the title of an old song. ';Breaking up is hard to do'; Your reason is no reason. The truth is that you still care about him and you really don't want to. But you have to be honest with yourself. He is no longer your best friend, and it sounds like he also forfeits his place as your boyfriend.
It will hurt awhile, and then you will move on.
I don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP!How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been going out with my best friend now for almost a year and I feel like he has changed too. He's really friendly with his ex's all the time too. I think you are just super protective over him since I know you've waiting to go out with him for a long time.
As for the thinking he has a thing for her, it probably isn't true (all guys are natural flirts) and since you knew how much he liked her since you are his best friend it is just just a natural reaction to feel cheated on.
Talk to him about it, just say I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her or ask if you can hang out with them too. That way she can see he is YOUR man or if he really is flirting too much you have proof to call him on.
I hope that helps!
P.S. if it just doesn't work go on a break to see if you guys are better as just friends and if you miss each other, go back out.How can i break up with my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend?
just tell him if he is more interested in his ex girlfriend then he should be with her and not u and that u will break up with him if its for his happiness. u are the dessert he should want u and be with u and treat u really well.
Maybe he's just a little embarrassed, or feels awkward that you two are dating. And he feels like getting away from it all can only be done by hanging with old 'friends'.
Tell him. Just tell him that the whole 'relationship thing' isnt working out for you. If you want to, tell him you still want to be friends.
Just tell him that you're not happy any more and that you can't see him any more. It's hard but it's the best way.
Well nothing in life last forever. It's okay though. Even if he was your friend before, maybe he CHANGED. Just talk it over with him that you cannot go through this anymore and hopefully he will understand since he's your boyfriend. Theres more guys in this world you just haven't opened your eyes to more. (The right time will come)
well hun, i t sound alike youre boyfriend doesnt even care about you anymore , even doesnt still the love , and feelings of you no longer, you should break up with him right now, if you dont do it then you will never have the chances to find a better singles men out there who will ask you out during the future. you dont really want to end up with a cheater who still in loved with his ex girlfriend and even he might did cheat on you and betrade you with his ex the whole time you end up adating him . plus later on maybe next year he realize that it not working out for both you and might dedicate to break up with you after all. maybe he is a dog who just playing with you to use you for sleeping with you and using you fr him to go back out with his ex. can also true about that. if youre are scared of breakin up with him because you re scared that you and him wouldnt be friends anymore. after breakin the relationship. well what the sake everybody goes threw that end up with wrong guys or girls. well i think you should dedicate what to do but you should call him or go see him ask him why he been not calling you , and why he been cheatin on with youre ex- friend ? but if he cant answer you then move on find better single genltmen who will adate you . good luck,
Tell him it isn't working out for you to be anything more than friends and you want to go back to that.
Don't waste your life on him! There is someone out there that loves you; you just haven't found him yet.
just explain to him that you just want to go back to being friends and matbe he does have feelings for his ex is all the more reason. if you dont like him because he has changed then you should go with your heart
best of luck and merry christmas
WE,LL YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE EITHER YOU WANT HIM AS ABEST FRIEND OR BOYFRIEND SO THE DECISSION IS YOURS
simply tell him that its not working for you and you want to go back to being friends. from what you've said you're not really into your fella so why should it concern you if he was to still have a thing for her.
Tell him to get lost, in a nice way =]
i dont think the relationship will work u guys are better of being bestfriends
There is a reason for the title of an old song. ';Breaking up is hard to do'; Your reason is no reason. The truth is that you still care about him and you really don't want to. But you have to be honest with yourself. He is no longer your best friend, and it sounds like he also forfeits his place as your boyfriend.
It will hurt awhile, and then you will move on.
Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
We live together in his condo. I am a student and I don't think I could afford rent on my own. I don't really have anywhere to go because my school is here and my family is not. I need to break up with this guy but I will be homeless! Sorry if this is a weird question but I could use some advise.... Anyone have any suggestions...Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
You break up with him just like you would anybody else.
Your question should be how do I find housing, and here are some options:
1. Check with your school. The semester just started, maybe you can live on campus. I know that's not ideal but it will be a quick fix.
2. Look for roommates. Talk to your counselor at school. Many places have bulletin boards for other students looking for roommates.
3. If you are religious, try going to your local church/temple or whatever and asking if you can post a note asking if you can live in a basement or in-law suite temporarily.
4. If money is a problem you should be able to take out additional student loans (private) if necessary. You can get loans for tuition plus books and a living allowance as calculated by your school. You can get several grand upfront which should set you up for something temporary (depending on your location) until you can set something up more permanent. This is not ideal but it's better than the alternatives.
5. Talk with your bf. Tell him you are not feeling good about the relationship but ask him if you can stay for a while longer until you find something.
If you choose to stay just because he's your bed, that is completely uncool. He's a person too and deserves to know if the woman standing next to him has no intention of continuing the relationship. If he's a nice guy maybe he'll let you stay for a while. I know it's important to protect yourself but please don't use him in the process.Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
That really sucks. I have thought about this myself since I live with my boyfriend. I have nowhere to go if things get bad between us, but I would not want to pretend that I still wanted the relationship when I was over it. You'll probably have to either pretend everything is fine until you figure something else out, or break up with him but continue to live with him until you can get back on your feet, which would be awkward, but probably not as bad as lying to him about how you feel.
Will if you break up with him look at the penaltys
-You will be Homeless
-You cant go to school
-You dont have no money
I cant give you any advise because I dont no what your problem is......
But if you and your partner are having problems.It is complety normal ,Becouse seblings often argue/fight.But usally get over it and gete allong,Then fight a week from now...Seblings hate/love at the same time.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++…
You can always try to reason with each other because you live together.Talk to one an other and keep things comfortable.
But if cant work out no mather what.............Then you can break up with him and go to your family...
Remember that you shoulnt be with him if he is ALWAYS
:hitting you...yelling...if there is alcholle/drugs involved then you shouldnt deal with it
I hope i helped
yes call your family and see if they can help if you have any friends you can stay with that would be good too. If you are not in love with this guy and you don't think he would live under the same roof with a platonic relationship then you need to make your own way it's not fair to him it's kind of like using him. It's not fair to yourself either....you think you can't make it on your own but have you ever tried, do you have a job see what an efficiency apt would cost or if they have a program at your college where you can work for room and board. You need to contact your family though I am sure they would not wanting you staying in an unhealthy relationship. Give yourself more credit millions of girls and women do it every day. Start asking around and see if anyone else needs a room mate but be honest with him maybe he will surprise you and say he will help you get into someplace of your own or let you stay until you can save the rent as long as you clean and do laundry. Something will work out. If you belong to a church someone there may want a live in babysitter for evenings or weekends that's another possibility and if the first thing doesn't work out try again, and again until you find yourself supporting yourself. I will be praying for you good luck!
Get a job, rent a room in someone's home, move into the dorm, get some of your college friends together and rent a larger apartment or house. This is one of those bad situations women tend to get themselves into and then can't find their way out. You have made yourself dependent upon a man you aren't meant to be with. *SIGH* OK, pick yourself up, muster your dignity, and get resourceful. You'll find a way, but you are probably going to have to rearrange some things in your life to get out.
Hi, sweetie. Do you have any friends who would let you stay with them for a while? You could offer to buy all the groceries or pay part of their rent for them. Ten years ago, when my (then) future in-laws took me in, I bought all their groceries since they wouldn't let me pay rent or part of their bills or anything like that. It worked out pretty nicely. I would make finding some other place to live my first priority. Then pack up all your stuff and bail. Leave a note, don't leave a note, whatever. Good luck, honey.
You just need to be looking for a roommate so that you can just move into a different situation. Till then you'll either have to stick it out or live in your car. Cause chances are if he is the only one with his name on the condo...if he's not an exceptionally good guy, then your out of there.
uhmm....tough situation there
Well don't use this guy first..ask a friend if you can bunk for a couple weeks until you get like maybe a part-time job to help pay-off rent.
Might want to help pay your friends rent too.
As for the guy, try to work it out, see the problem from his point of view, if you live with him, you guys must have some sort of intimate relationship right? Just talk it out.
Good Luck
If he's a good person he'll probably let you sleep on the couch or something until you find a place. If not, you could maybe live with a friend until then.
Do some research on your own, maybe find out if anyone is offering really cheap rent for a room mate, post an ad.
Maybe you could get a side job if you can't afford rent.
Being in a bad relationship sucks! I hope this helps!
Perhaps you could move in with another friend?
Or maybe wait a little while, until you get enough money or something.
You definitely should not just break up with him with nowhere to go, unless it's a really bad or abusive relationship. Just look for some of your friends who might give you a place to crash for a little while.
Good luck!
Live with it! same like me but i am slightly different with u cos I am useful and good in earning monies but always stolen by the doggies pple. Nokia handphone touchlight is one of them! hahaahahaha
so no monies mean no talk and shut up and live with it till i am rich. hee heee.....or i can left anytime but laziness is my specialities right now.
Discuss how you feel with him, and he will probably understand.
but if he is one of those guys that will go CRAZY on you and kick you out wait a little while until you can afford to rent another place.
That's the breaks. If you wasn't with him you'd have to find a place to live. I'd look for one, and then just move out while he's gone for a while.
Well, say you guys can't date but you still need the place untill you can get your own or say you want to be roommates for a while.
I think you should get a job and get some money so you can start paying rent then if you know you can afford rent then you can dump him if you want.
Find a roommate, advertise in campus paper, ask around and then move in the midnight hour. He will get the message.
ahh the beauty of retrospect
note to self...don't live together if you're not engaged or married
Tell him your ';just not into him anymore'; and you want to see other people, but would like to stay there and pay him rent, but make sure you tell him there will be no fringe benefits on the side.
DO NOT BREAK UP. Stay until you can get a place on your own.
I don't know if you can.
Maybe you could crash with some friends until you get things straightened out?
tell him you want to take things lowly but dont actually break up with him!!! find a roomate and when you do then u can fully break up.
What did you have planned before you met this guy with a condo in a different city that your college was in?
look hard very hard for roommates, craigslist, n all that stuff, if u've got to get out DO NOT STALL I REPEAT DO NOT STALL, stalling keeps u in the same position...good luck
if you don't want to be homeless you better keep putting out if you do break up with him
dont u will be homeless. just be with him until you graduate and maby things will get better and you can find someone else to live with
Don't you have a girlfriend at school you could shack up with. Ask around, it wouldn't hurt to try.
Only break up with him if its for a good reason .
wait til you get money saved up to afford an apartment.
well if its your place then just tell him to leave if not maybe you too can work some thing out or something or you could wait until you have saved up enough money to get your own place
WHY?! What'd he do? Don't do it, you'll be screwed into a hole!
do u love him, why do u want to break up? try to make it work being on the street is not ideal.
You break up with him just like you would anybody else.
Your question should be how do I find housing, and here are some options:
1. Check with your school. The semester just started, maybe you can live on campus. I know that's not ideal but it will be a quick fix.
2. Look for roommates. Talk to your counselor at school. Many places have bulletin boards for other students looking for roommates.
3. If you are religious, try going to your local church/temple or whatever and asking if you can post a note asking if you can live in a basement or in-law suite temporarily.
4. If money is a problem you should be able to take out additional student loans (private) if necessary. You can get loans for tuition plus books and a living allowance as calculated by your school. You can get several grand upfront which should set you up for something temporary (depending on your location) until you can set something up more permanent. This is not ideal but it's better than the alternatives.
5. Talk with your bf. Tell him you are not feeling good about the relationship but ask him if you can stay for a while longer until you find something.
If you choose to stay just because he's your bed, that is completely uncool. He's a person too and deserves to know if the woman standing next to him has no intention of continuing the relationship. If he's a nice guy maybe he'll let you stay for a while. I know it's important to protect yourself but please don't use him in the process.Alright, how do you break up with a boyfriend who you live with?
That really sucks. I have thought about this myself since I live with my boyfriend. I have nowhere to go if things get bad between us, but I would not want to pretend that I still wanted the relationship when I was over it. You'll probably have to either pretend everything is fine until you figure something else out, or break up with him but continue to live with him until you can get back on your feet, which would be awkward, but probably not as bad as lying to him about how you feel.
Will if you break up with him look at the penaltys
-You will be Homeless
-You cant go to school
-You dont have no money
I cant give you any advise because I dont no what your problem is......
But if you and your partner are having problems.It is complety normal ,Becouse seblings often argue/fight.But usally get over it and gete allong,Then fight a week from now...Seblings hate/love at the same time.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++…
You can always try to reason with each other because you live together.Talk to one an other and keep things comfortable.
But if cant work out no mather what.............Then you can break up with him and go to your family...
Remember that you shoulnt be with him if he is ALWAYS
:hitting you...yelling...if there is alcholle/drugs involved then you shouldnt deal with it
I hope i helped
yes call your family and see if they can help if you have any friends you can stay with that would be good too. If you are not in love with this guy and you don't think he would live under the same roof with a platonic relationship then you need to make your own way it's not fair to him it's kind of like using him. It's not fair to yourself either....you think you can't make it on your own but have you ever tried, do you have a job see what an efficiency apt would cost or if they have a program at your college where you can work for room and board. You need to contact your family though I am sure they would not wanting you staying in an unhealthy relationship. Give yourself more credit millions of girls and women do it every day. Start asking around and see if anyone else needs a room mate but be honest with him maybe he will surprise you and say he will help you get into someplace of your own or let you stay until you can save the rent as long as you clean and do laundry. Something will work out. If you belong to a church someone there may want a live in babysitter for evenings or weekends that's another possibility and if the first thing doesn't work out try again, and again until you find yourself supporting yourself. I will be praying for you good luck!
Get a job, rent a room in someone's home, move into the dorm, get some of your college friends together and rent a larger apartment or house. This is one of those bad situations women tend to get themselves into and then can't find their way out. You have made yourself dependent upon a man you aren't meant to be with. *SIGH* OK, pick yourself up, muster your dignity, and get resourceful. You'll find a way, but you are probably going to have to rearrange some things in your life to get out.
Hi, sweetie. Do you have any friends who would let you stay with them for a while? You could offer to buy all the groceries or pay part of their rent for them. Ten years ago, when my (then) future in-laws took me in, I bought all their groceries since they wouldn't let me pay rent or part of their bills or anything like that. It worked out pretty nicely. I would make finding some other place to live my first priority. Then pack up all your stuff and bail. Leave a note, don't leave a note, whatever. Good luck, honey.
You just need to be looking for a roommate so that you can just move into a different situation. Till then you'll either have to stick it out or live in your car. Cause chances are if he is the only one with his name on the condo...if he's not an exceptionally good guy, then your out of there.
uhmm....tough situation there
Well don't use this guy first..ask a friend if you can bunk for a couple weeks until you get like maybe a part-time job to help pay-off rent.
Might want to help pay your friends rent too.
As for the guy, try to work it out, see the problem from his point of view, if you live with him, you guys must have some sort of intimate relationship right? Just talk it out.
Good Luck
If he's a good person he'll probably let you sleep on the couch or something until you find a place. If not, you could maybe live with a friend until then.
Do some research on your own, maybe find out if anyone is offering really cheap rent for a room mate, post an ad.
Maybe you could get a side job if you can't afford rent.
Being in a bad relationship sucks! I hope this helps!
Perhaps you could move in with another friend?
Or maybe wait a little while, until you get enough money or something.
You definitely should not just break up with him with nowhere to go, unless it's a really bad or abusive relationship. Just look for some of your friends who might give you a place to crash for a little while.
Good luck!
Live with it! same like me but i am slightly different with u cos I am useful and good in earning monies but always stolen by the doggies pple. Nokia handphone touchlight is one of them! hahaahahaha
so no monies mean no talk and shut up and live with it till i am rich. hee heee.....or i can left anytime but laziness is my specialities right now.
Discuss how you feel with him, and he will probably understand.
but if he is one of those guys that will go CRAZY on you and kick you out wait a little while until you can afford to rent another place.
That's the breaks. If you wasn't with him you'd have to find a place to live. I'd look for one, and then just move out while he's gone for a while.
Well, say you guys can't date but you still need the place untill you can get your own or say you want to be roommates for a while.
I think you should get a job and get some money so you can start paying rent then if you know you can afford rent then you can dump him if you want.
Find a roommate, advertise in campus paper, ask around and then move in the midnight hour. He will get the message.
ahh the beauty of retrospect
note to self...don't live together if you're not engaged or married
Tell him your ';just not into him anymore'; and you want to see other people, but would like to stay there and pay him rent, but make sure you tell him there will be no fringe benefits on the side.
DO NOT BREAK UP. Stay until you can get a place on your own.
I don't know if you can.
Maybe you could crash with some friends until you get things straightened out?
tell him you want to take things lowly but dont actually break up with him!!! find a roomate and when you do then u can fully break up.
What did you have planned before you met this guy with a condo in a different city that your college was in?
look hard very hard for roommates, craigslist, n all that stuff, if u've got to get out DO NOT STALL I REPEAT DO NOT STALL, stalling keeps u in the same position...good luck
if you don't want to be homeless you better keep putting out if you do break up with him
dont u will be homeless. just be with him until you graduate and maby things will get better and you can find someone else to live with
Don't you have a girlfriend at school you could shack up with. Ask around, it wouldn't hurt to try.
Only break up with him if its for a good reason .
wait til you get money saved up to afford an apartment.
well if its your place then just tell him to leave if not maybe you too can work some thing out or something or you could wait until you have saved up enough money to get your own place
WHY?! What'd he do? Don't do it, you'll be screwed into a hole!
do u love him, why do u want to break up? try to make it work being on the street is not ideal.
How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
I still like my ex boyfriend after he dumped me and now he has a new girlfriend and shes a ugly ***** ... How do I break them up? And dont say stuff like ';thats a mean thing to do'; pleaseHow do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Don't. You guys broke up for a reason. (I'm beginning to imagine that it was because of your attitude.)How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Why do you want to come back with somebody that doesn't love you? He's just collecting women trophies to brag about.
would you want her to do that to you? don't you think he will resent you if you did? Wouldn't you always wonder if he still wanted her?
That's a mean thing to do.... LOL
Spread rumors that she has herpes or the clap.
He's your ';ex'; take the hint and move on.
its a bit of a mad thing to do..you must really like this guy to want to do this..i dont think breaking them up personally is going to help..because if he dumped you i doubt he is going to want to get back with you..and especially not if he nos thats wat you have set out to do..break them up..he will probly think you are a cico..but if you think this will help things for you, you cud tell his new girlfriend he has a s.t.d or sumthin..mite not work though...id just move on if i was you..theres plenty of fish in the sea..bigger and better fish aswell..hope this helps..leave him and his ugly girlfriend to it..let him no wat hes missing..
The fact that you would be ok with doing something like that is probably the reason he broke up with you. So even if you find some conniving way to do that, you'll still be the same flawed person he doesn't want to be with.
Dude, thats cold.
I dont care. but youre ****** up.
tell one of her friends that he's cheating on her with some sluuut. She's tell the girl who will then dump him, he'll run back to you...walla...
are you even 12 years old?? You can't be THAT immature!
he broke up with you for a reason so even if you break him up with his girlfriend he still won't come back to you.
Well...since he broke up with you, I think you best leave it alone because you can into a far worse and uglier situation that it already is. You can't force him to like you, and if he's done then he's done. Sorry if that's not the answer you want to hear, but it's the truth.
sleep with him.
tell her.
wont say that mean but i will say move on and find yourself a real man
damn leave him alone he is trying to move on, oh well u will find someone better... i know how it feels, my boyfriend dumped me too, then i found out he had another girl, but i didn't do anything, just wished him the best, few weeks later they broke up anyways, cuz i knew she was just a rebound... anyways i found someone better now... have u ever heard peolple say '; if u love something set it free, and if it returns cherish it 4ever'; good luck though, just have fun meet new people, party and party, make friends, just live life... i say it bcuz i'm only 19 and i'm already married, i gave up 2 many stuff... i mean don't get me wrong, i love my husband...and i'm happy wit him...windows live skin rash
Don't. You guys broke up for a reason. (I'm beginning to imagine that it was because of your attitude.)How do I break my ex boyfriend up with his new girlfriend?
Why do you want to come back with somebody that doesn't love you? He's just collecting women trophies to brag about.
would you want her to do that to you? don't you think he will resent you if you did? Wouldn't you always wonder if he still wanted her?
That's a mean thing to do.... LOL
Spread rumors that she has herpes or the clap.
He's your ';ex'; take the hint and move on.
its a bit of a mad thing to do..you must really like this guy to want to do this..i dont think breaking them up personally is going to help..because if he dumped you i doubt he is going to want to get back with you..and especially not if he nos thats wat you have set out to do..break them up..he will probly think you are a cico..but if you think this will help things for you, you cud tell his new girlfriend he has a s.t.d or sumthin..mite not work though...id just move on if i was you..theres plenty of fish in the sea..bigger and better fish aswell..hope this helps..leave him and his ugly girlfriend to it..let him no wat hes missing..
The fact that you would be ok with doing something like that is probably the reason he broke up with you. So even if you find some conniving way to do that, you'll still be the same flawed person he doesn't want to be with.
Dude, thats cold.
I dont care. but youre ****** up.
tell one of her friends that he's cheating on her with some sluuut. She's tell the girl who will then dump him, he'll run back to you...walla...
are you even 12 years old?? You can't be THAT immature!
he broke up with you for a reason so even if you break him up with his girlfriend he still won't come back to you.
Well...since he broke up with you, I think you best leave it alone because you can into a far worse and uglier situation that it already is. You can't force him to like you, and if he's done then he's done. Sorry if that's not the answer you want to hear, but it's the truth.
sleep with him.
tell her.
wont say that mean but i will say move on and find yourself a real man
damn leave him alone he is trying to move on, oh well u will find someone better... i know how it feels, my boyfriend dumped me too, then i found out he had another girl, but i didn't do anything, just wished him the best, few weeks later they broke up anyways, cuz i knew she was just a rebound... anyways i found someone better now... have u ever heard peolple say '; if u love something set it free, and if it returns cherish it 4ever'; good luck though, just have fun meet new people, party and party, make friends, just live life... i say it bcuz i'm only 19 and i'm already married, i gave up 2 many stuff... i mean don't get me wrong, i love my husband...and i'm happy wit him...
How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
So there's this girl that I knew and liked for quite a while now and I Just recently found out that she returns the feelings, but then she still has a boyfriend that's in grade 12 and also has a bit of feelings left for him.
How can i get her to break up with him.
We are both in grade 10 and I have 50 pounds on him.How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
Ok here's whatcha wanna do...
1) befriend her, become one of her closest guy friends
2) show her u care about her no matter what...even if it means being with that guy
3) show her she can trust u with anything...the most importannt thing is is TRUST anyone can be friend but not many people can trusted
4) show her she can open herself up to u like telling u embarrassing things,deep secrets, ext.
5)allow urself to open up to her
6) show her she can be herself around u instead of trying to fit in, or being all stressed,ext.
7)show her u will be there for her no matter what
That's about it...once she sees all of those things in u she will realize that she loves uHow do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
um. if you really want my advice, just let her go...for now. As one great person said or wrote ';If you truly love something let it go. if it comes back, it's your's to keep.'; One thing we girls hate is another guy pushing us into a descision and if you did push her in some way to break up with he Bf, she would never be able to let it go. It's just a girl thing. Hope this helps.
If she breaks it with him to go with you, do you think she may break it with you to go with someone else later? Heck, size doesn't matter either! Best to you!
dude im going through the same problem lol...just try staying as close as possible and try to be her friend ok!!!Good luck bro...
...and what exactly do 50 pounds matter? she's not going to dump him just because he's smaller than you, retard.
Be creative. Get closer to her and then give her an ultimatum.
Beat him up in public and she'll be too embarrassed to stay with him.
beat the **** outa him lol., no really just keep at the girl and make her get over him.
you have to be better than him in all aspects
love is a hard competition to compete in but it can be done
How can i get her to break up with him.
We are both in grade 10 and I have 50 pounds on him.How do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
Ok here's whatcha wanna do...
1) befriend her, become one of her closest guy friends
2) show her u care about her no matter what...even if it means being with that guy
3) show her she can trust u with anything...the most importannt thing is is TRUST anyone can be friend but not many people can trusted
4) show her she can open herself up to u like telling u embarrassing things,deep secrets, ext.
5)allow urself to open up to her
6) show her she can be herself around u instead of trying to fit in, or being all stressed,ext.
7)show her u will be there for her no matter what
That's about it...once she sees all of those things in u she will realize that she loves uHow do you get a girl that you like to break up with her other boyfriend?
um. if you really want my advice, just let her go...for now. As one great person said or wrote ';If you truly love something let it go. if it comes back, it's your's to keep.'; One thing we girls hate is another guy pushing us into a descision and if you did push her in some way to break up with he Bf, she would never be able to let it go. It's just a girl thing. Hope this helps.
If she breaks it with him to go with you, do you think she may break it with you to go with someone else later? Heck, size doesn't matter either! Best to you!
dude im going through the same problem lol...just try staying as close as possible and try to be her friend ok!!!Good luck bro...
...and what exactly do 50 pounds matter? she's not going to dump him just because he's smaller than you, retard.
Be creative. Get closer to her and then give her an ultimatum.
Beat him up in public and she'll be too embarrassed to stay with him.
beat the **** outa him lol., no really just keep at the girl and make her get over him.
you have to be better than him in all aspects
love is a hard competition to compete in but it can be done
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